women on reddit discuss how the definition of‘love’ changed from their teens/20s/30s+

[Total Imbecile]

Teens/early 20s:

I used to see relationships as something that had (or were really meant) to last forever.

Post prime:

As I've gotten older (mid 30's now), I've wised up and realize that the majority of relationships do not last forever, or even make it past 10 years without a divorce. And thus, I've lowered my expectations and take it more one day/one month at a time.

Teens/early 20s:

In my teens/20s, I had this delusional fantasy that I was going to meet someone amazing (not even dating anyone else) and get married and live happily ever after.

Post prime:

My view on love is this:
*being in-love (infatuation) with someone is not the same as long-lasting love
*there is no such thing as "love at first sight" because "first sight" means you've just met the person and there's absolutely no way you can truly love someone you don't know
*being in-love and the honeymoon-period and probably passion too will fade and then you have to figure out how to handle the changing relationship
*passionate/romantic love is different than companionate love

Teens/early 20s:

Monogamy is the only way people can be in love, because jealousy demonstrates love

I have to do everything in my power to make my partner happy, because sacrifice demonstrates love

If the relationship isn't going to last forever, it probably isn't worth putting effort in to

Post prime:

I'm now 34, and I believe:

Jealousy is not a requirement, humans are capable of loving more than one person and being happy for each other rather than jealous, and personally I can't be happy in a relationship that requires monogamy

You have to love yourself before you can love someone else, and that means you have to value your own needs at least as highly as another person's

I'd rather live in the present than put so much emphasis on a possible future that, given the potential of nuclear holocaust or derailed Amtrak train, may not ever come

Conclusion:
In their youth women have a very "bluepilled" view on love. They basically see it the same way as guys do, they would literally do anything for their bf and they will stick with you through the hardest of times. This is why young love is so precious and amazing. If a jb loves you you know its genuine. That young love pasta basically describes their view.

In their 20s and 30s love becomes a transaction. They realize that Chad doesnt want them so they trade their pussy for benefits. You get starfish sex every once in a while, she gets your credit card, a place to live and everything else. You are supposed to be okay with her cheating since love doesnt last forever. If you cant meet her requirements, hit a rough patch in life or ask of her more than what shes already giving you tough luck, thats a breach of contract and youre going to court to get divorced.

 

[NutNotBusted]

Love is a bluepilled fantasy designed by media and jews.