What Makes a Woman Feel "Sexual"?
"Feelings" are temporary emotional states. They are also overwhelming, meaning at sufficient levels they take priority over the rest of the cognitive processes.
Female sexuality is REACTIVE - it's not the dull aching horniness that men experience. It is rapid-onset response to desirable male attention.
The price of male attention is sex. Sex is the glue that holds male attraction firmly in place.
Ipso facto women are willing to pay the sex price and a natural feedback loop is created; male attention makes her "sexual", the sex engenders more attention from the male, the attention makes her FEEL "sexual", and so on.
They fuck because they want to FEEL sexual. Not because they want sex.
What Do Women THINK Makes Them Feel Sexual?
Who cares. If you were to ask 10 of them once a day for a week you would get 19182 different responses.
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What Motivates Women vs. Men to Play This Game?
Females goal is to maximally exploit her youth (in other words beauty) for maximal desirable male attention.
Can this take the form of a conniving woman, ready to trade up at the next possible chance? Sure. But that is a SYMPTOM and not a CAUSE.
Men want to fuck because of biological drive and desire for physical validation, Some trade resources and their dignity for this (gradually rarer) privilege - we call them beta males. Others learn to exploit the desire for their attention. Be the latter guy.
Men's goal is sexual variety.
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The Breakdown - Why Women Leave
Ultimately, whether through fault of the man or woman, the cycle of attention stops.
Men who break the cycle generally stop giving the girl "sexy" attention. This can be the result of him becoming unattractive physically , but more often the man fails to make her FEEL seduced.
His attention shifts from "sexy" to "expecting" - this makes the girl FEEL...at best nothing, at worst like she is doing work. What used to be motivating attention has been replaced by a demand for service. Wrong kind of attention.
Cheating happens when some other guy steps in and gives her that seductive attention again, making her FEEL sexy. She might fuck him then, she might not. BUT the relationship enters Stage 4 Terminal Cancer at that point.
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Conclusions
* Women do not have a sex drive - they respond sexually to desirable male attention
* Males desire sexual variety, women desire maximal exploitation of their youth and beauty for attention
* Women cheat when they stop getting the sexy kind of attention
"Feelings" are temporary emotional states. They are also overwhelming, meaning at sufficient levels they take priority over the rest of the cognitive processes.
Female sexuality is REACTIVE - it's not the dull aching horniness that men experience. It is rapid-onset response to desirable male attention.
The price of male attention is sex. Sex is the glue that holds male attraction firmly in place.
Ipso facto women are willing to pay the sex price and a natural feedback loop is created; male attention makes her "sexual", the sex engenders more attention from the male, the attention makes her FEEL "sexual", and so on.
They fuck because they want to FEEL sexual. Not because they want sex.
What Do Women THINK Makes Them Feel Sexual?
Who cares. If you were to ask 10 of them once a day for a week you would get 19182 different responses.
________________
What Motivates Women vs. Men to Play This Game?
Females goal is to maximally exploit her youth (in other words beauty) for maximal desirable male attention.
Can this take the form of a conniving woman, ready to trade up at the next possible chance? Sure. But that is a SYMPTOM and not a CAUSE.
Men want to fuck because of biological drive and desire for physical validation, Some trade resources and their dignity for this (gradually rarer) privilege - we call them beta males. Others learn to exploit the desire for their attention. Be the latter guy.
Men's goal is sexual variety.
________________
The Breakdown - Why Women Leave
Ultimately, whether through fault of the man or woman, the cycle of attention stops.
Men who break the cycle generally stop giving the girl "sexy" attention. This can be the result of him becoming unattractive physically , but more often the man fails to make her FEEL seduced.
His attention shifts from "sexy" to "expecting" - this makes the girl FEEL...at best nothing, at worst like she is doing work. What used to be motivating attention has been replaced by a demand for service. Wrong kind of attention.
Cheating happens when some other guy steps in and gives her that seductive attention again, making her FEEL sexy. She might fuck him then, she might not. BUT the relationship enters Stage 4 Terminal Cancer at that point.
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Conclusions
* Women do not have a sex drive - they respond sexually to desirable male attention
* Males desire sexual variety, women desire maximal exploitation of their youth and beauty for attention
* Women cheat when they stop getting the sexy kind of attention
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