Serious Women admitting the crushing reality for most men in dating would not change anything

[LesscoBlob]

Most women kind of agree that dating is harder for most men, but most of them don't know nor care to know how much. They are not empathetic to men in general, not even to men in their own lives, such as their brothers over 25 who might have never had a date. To be fair, this is not womens' business either and their empathy is useless in this case to fix that.

That is the hard reality: Even if all women today stopped lying to their sons that they will find love, even if moms started aborting males as they would know how hard it probably will be for most of them to stop them from suffering, even if women agreed with Andrew Tate openly, etc. It will change nothing. Even if women stopped the gaslighting and meritocracy lie, and admitted that most women* would rather share top men than men at their level, it would not change their actual desire for those top men. Even if men improved 5x, women's desires would just adjust to that.

I would love women to be more honest, for what they say to match what they do, but even if they do that, it will not improve the dating life for most men anyway.

I realized women just want to be seen as the empathetic gender, not actually be empathic.

TLDR: Even if women agreed with the blackpill, even if they agreed with men who actually have to deal with this BS of perpetual loneliness and rejection, it would not change the fact of their dating desires and habits.

 

[LesscoBlob]

@DarkStarDown @Grim_Reaper @wereq thoughts?

 

[Diddy]

This clown world is nearing to this state. Whores feel euphoric knowing that genetically inferior men will die out and they will still be put on a pedestal because men are like starving nigglets.

 

[AshamedVirgin34]

I doubt it. The majority of the (female) population unironically still believes men have it easier.

 

[AshamedVirgin34]

I think women still should be honest, because honest people are hated but at the same time respected, and if women want respect, they have to earn it by living an honest life and not lying. But I agree on the belief that it wouldn't change much, it maybe would just reduce the amount of gaslighting and simps.

 

[LesscoBlob]

I think women still should be honest, because honest people are hated but at the same time respected, and if women want respect, they have to earn it by living an honest life and not lying. But I agree on the belief that it wouldn't change much, it maybe would just reduce the amount of gaslighting and simps.

And reducing the amount of gaslighting and simps is an important step in the right direction.

 

[fastnbulbous]

We are programmed to survive at all costs and looks determine how much of a survivor you can be, this won't change no matter how honest foids can be

 

[Drakul]

Another dude falling for the blue pill meme. Wake up cucks! Normies are blackpilled since kindergarten! Irl everyone knows who's ugly and who's not and acts accordingly with zero margin of subjectivity. The gaslighting exists only on reddit. Not a single human being has ever told me I look good irl or that personality is important. Unlike you fakecel pretty boys without craniofacial deformities I didn't discover the blackpill on the internet. What I discovered on the internet is actually the bluepill.

Interesting take that could be applied to bluepillers and how abnormal they are.

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/slatestarcodex/comments/9rvroo/most_of_what_you_read_on_the_internet_is_written/ 99% of people never said that personality can compensate for hideous looks but since you always read those 1% redditor lunatics bluepilling left and right now you're convinced...

incels.is

 

[Buried Alive 2.0]

Agreed. They'd need to accept the black pill and act against their own natural behavior and the current dating culture for things to change. In other words, they'd need to be reasonable and not chase tingles, which is something very difficult to women.

It is possible though to reduce women's shallowness through cultural changes. Society isn't going in that direction, though.

 

[Friezacel]

I don't give a shit if a foid would be happy in a LTR with me or not. Back in the day you just gave them a good beating so they remember their place