Friends are a crucial role in someone's life, especially in your youth, not having them is detrimental to your development and social skills. As with sexual relationships, there are many factors and luck required to achieve them. Understand that being friendless and alone is NOT your fault, most people are simply fucked over in life.
1. People have already made their friends
2. The people who would be your friends are isolated
1. People have already made their friends
High school is where people will find their life friends, towards the end, they will form a clique. Cliques are a group of friends who just don't allow anyone into their social circle unless they have something really good to offer, even charismatic normies can struggle to get into one.
I've said this so many times, if you're friendless and over 20, there is no hope for you to get any. Trying to meet new people in the hopes of beign friends will only end in failure.
2. The people who would be your friends are isolated
All the extroverts are out in public with their friends, introverts just like you are almost impossible to obtain. Like you are now, they're all inside of their rooms coping and not anywhere else. Unless you're able to meet online, the only people who you will meet are extroverts.
3. People want statusPeople do not accept ugly, talentless loners as friends. They want friends they can parade around to others to show that they're worthy enough to be in a relationship. This is a brutal one as I've seen it many times in school, so many people would try to be with the popular kid as they would gain status just from being friends.
4. People believe you're a bad personTo normies, being friendless = being rejected by society. When someone senses you're alone, they assume that you're a bad, disgusting and irredeemable person. This plays along with point #3, friends are a status, so if you have none, your status drops too.
5. Your looks affect your personalityA thread by @LittleBoy includes a study that finds out that looks heavily affect how people perceive your personality'. How you look will also affect what type of personality you'll get too, most introverts are introverted due to bullying, humiliation and anxiety, they weren't all born that way.
Lastly, if you're not attractive, people won't give you the time of day to know each other. They see that you're low status thus don't want you. If you somehow had a personality that was irresistible, good luck trying to show it off.
Good luck trying to get up that hill in anyone's life.
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