Are women lesbians by nature or what? It seems like even women know that men are generally hideous and they seem to want sweet delicate pussy over dick (unless it's chad/tyrone/etc)
That's the wrong question. Sexuality doesn't exist first of all. It's an invention of psychologists from a few hundred years ago.
There is normal and then there is deviant. Homosexuals didn't use to be a "valid sexuality" just like "any other". Homosexuality is not just instead of women, you have sex with guys and everything else stays the same.
And the same is true for gender. Women think fundamentally different than us. For them it's not a question if they are bisexual, lesbian or heterosexual. It's just a question of how shy they are and they sexual openness.
Many women, who are more sexually open and not shy about sex, are completly fine with kissing another woman. They don't have this kind of extreme disgust Men have for any type of sexual action with other men. They can think nothing of it.
Sexuality is not a well-fitting thing we put over this type of thing, that makes us forget that women and men think completly different. Women often commit lesbian actions to turn other men on and get their attention. There is nothing like this in male sexuality at all.
And I completly disagree that all women dream about a lesbian relationship. The complete opposite is the case. Lesbian relationships are unfulfilling for women and often a way to cope for ugly, mentally ill, hateful women.