You put everything on the table.
You invest your time and money into it and what is she offering ?
You make a fool of yourself trying to get her attention and waste so much time.
For pussy? U have escorts, way cheaper.
If you simply resolve to spend much less on these attempts than escorts cost: problem solved.
Basically only invest time/money into stuff that serves the dual purpose of bettering your life so that it's worth the while even if it doesn't land you foid attention.
Example: getting fit, owning a vehicle, living alone, keeping clean, learning to cook/garden, getting decent clothes
All of these have benefits by themself even if a girl doesn't appreciate you for them so you didn't waste any time.
If you pursue them and it doesn't lead to romance it won't bother you as much as if you spent all the money buying free meals/movies/limos for girls who deigned to go on a date with you but who forever snub physical contact because of a lack of attraction.
OP what sort of efforts have you taken? How many of us complaining about efforts have actually wasted them? Or are we mostly just responding to simping we see from other guys we're confident are being cucked?
Imagine spending decades of your life studyceling and then wageslaving just to get an old used up unloving roastie in the end
This is an example of something with potentially it's own benefit: you could use the money earned on other stuff. Having wealth and the wealth attracting a foid doesn't mean you need to actually choose to share it with her.
TBH sharing your wealth with a less wealthy foid more often than not will probably make her respect you less and cheat on you more.
But if you don't share she might just rob you so you're fucked either way if she finds out you're wealthy.
The trick is: earn wealth to build confidence but act poor so foids who think you're ugly won't date you for your wealth.
But, but..... youre paying a foid. That is so cucked" while they jerk off to porn (which is basically some other guy fkin foids)
As long as you're not actually financially supporting the porn unbeknownst to you then it's not cucked.
In fact: if you can plagiarize porn and spread it freely then you're anti-cucking by helping deprive a foid of wealth since you're reducing her customer base.
You could get the same thing way cheaper and effortless by making a visit to an escort
Anywhere I've looked escorts seem really expensive, just what exactly are guys spending money on to get sex from non-escort foids? They're not getting sex until they give them an island vacation or some shit?
The only way I can see it being costlier is if you apply a dollar-per-hour value to time-spent talking to and hanging out with the foid, ie what we hope is some kind of romance. But that should generally be fulfilling and not viewed as work. If you're viewing it like work then do you really enjoy her company much to begin with?