There a 3 prime denominators in serializing sexual contenment, which are evidently absent in our everyday lives.
1. Physical attraction
A person's sexual attractiveness is to a large extent a subjective measure dependent on another person's interest, a number of physiological responses occur in the body and mind as preparation for sexual intercourse and continue during it. Therefore you need to have someone in your surrounding that you find tempting in order to get stimulated and make the experience pleasent . Anything below a 7/10 just won't cut it, which in our predicament is a massive stumble block because otherwise we wouldn't be here.
2. Adventurousness
Settling down for a starfish or Vanilla sex may not seem like a bad choice for some of us but when you consider that sexual interest decreases in the downfall of novelty this can be quite disastrous in the long run. This is why porn is so addictive because it's capable of continuously delivering a level of stimulation that IRL sex can never provide. This sort of hyperstimulation enables the consumer to essentially run their brain's reward center into prolonged overdrive. Unless you know how to keep your sex life interesting you will befall under the Coolidge effect and most likely end up dissapointed.
3. Frequency
Frequency plays a big role in terms of sexual compatibility. If your needs aren't being met (or not enough) you will delve into sexual exasperation. It's healthy for adults to express their sexuality but after a female has multiple children and a ''provider'' she doesn't have to put in any effort anymore and because of social stigma the ''provider'' won't leave her and most likely supress his sexual appetite. Unless your SO has a high sexdrive you might end up screwed because for us men, almost anything goes whenever it's possible.
We as Incels are deprived of ANY form of sexual contact whereas most people will usually have acces to atleast one of these denominators which makes their lives more tolerable. There are countless studies that prove that people with healthy and fulfilling sex lives are happier and have a better immune system and mental health.
I truly hope we can ascend and leave behind this dissenting, destructive, and frenzied life once and for all.
tl/dr ; we're fucked unless we take action
1. Physical attraction
A person's sexual attractiveness is to a large extent a subjective measure dependent on another person's interest, a number of physiological responses occur in the body and mind as preparation for sexual intercourse and continue during it. Therefore you need to have someone in your surrounding that you find tempting in order to get stimulated and make the experience pleasent . Anything below a 7/10 just won't cut it, which in our predicament is a massive stumble block because otherwise we wouldn't be here.
2. Adventurousness
Settling down for a starfish or Vanilla sex may not seem like a bad choice for some of us but when you consider that sexual interest decreases in the downfall of novelty this can be quite disastrous in the long run. This is why porn is so addictive because it's capable of continuously delivering a level of stimulation that IRL sex can never provide. This sort of hyperstimulation enables the consumer to essentially run their brain's reward center into prolonged overdrive. Unless you know how to keep your sex life interesting you will befall under the Coolidge effect and most likely end up dissapointed.
3. Frequency
Frequency plays a big role in terms of sexual compatibility. If your needs aren't being met (or not enough) you will delve into sexual exasperation. It's healthy for adults to express their sexuality but after a female has multiple children and a ''provider'' she doesn't have to put in any effort anymore and because of social stigma the ''provider'' won't leave her and most likely supress his sexual appetite. Unless your SO has a high sexdrive you might end up screwed because for us men, almost anything goes whenever it's possible.
We as Incels are deprived of ANY form of sexual contact whereas most people will usually have acces to atleast one of these denominators which makes their lives more tolerable. There are countless studies that prove that people with healthy and fulfilling sex lives are happier and have a better immune system and mental health.
I truly hope we can ascend and leave behind this dissenting, destructive, and frenzied life once and for all.
tl/dr ; we're fucked unless we take action
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