It is CRITICAL that you, in your teen years, receive attention from women. If you know that one woman is interested in you sexually/romantically, you can basically rest on your laurels because that means others will be in the future (or concurrently).
Let's say you live in a city of 100,000 women. If ONE has liked you sexually/romantically, it is extremely statistically LIKELY that a significant amount of women will also. Women have a hivemind so one liking you isn't normally a fluke. You'll have your potential pick of hundreds that you come across, and as a teenage boy, that's a big relief. Just get the one tick of approval from the opposite gender and you're through the door. You get the sexhaver stamp and can build your life from there without all the mental gymnastics.
It's the same with looking for a job, once you're hired. You know that you're hireable. You can take a deep breath. Statistically, that company is not going to be the ONLY one willing to hire you. And so you're comfortable in the job market.
If you DON'T receive early sexual/romantic validation you never get the reassurance that you're even a player in the game. No one has been interested in you, so why should you expect anyone to be in the future? You drift along without being given any female attention. You're there physically but no one is picking up what you're putting down. You start trying to learn how to get girls (when this should come naturally to you as a teen). We all know where this ends, you become an incel.
The most important thing is that a 16-year old who has just lost his virginity will be confident that the foid he fucked is one in a string of many (why wouldn't she be?). He can relax knowing that he is DESIRED by girl(s!). He knows there's a demand for him. That first domino brick has to fall early, the Pandora's Box has to open to possibilities, otherwise your growth is stunted and you are doomed.
That's why redpillers who lose their virginity with some Chink in Vietnam at 30 are pathetic. They've had to invest, put in work, chase and fly across the world in order to attract ONE woman. He has had to CREATE DEMAND for himself for one single "buyer", when his highschool peers 15 years earlier only had to EXIST to create a demand for many "buyers".
They will never know it is to be truly DESIRED.
Let's say you live in a city of 100,000 women. If ONE has liked you sexually/romantically, it is extremely statistically LIKELY that a significant amount of women will also. Women have a hivemind so one liking you isn't normally a fluke. You'll have your potential pick of hundreds that you come across, and as a teenage boy, that's a big relief. Just get the one tick of approval from the opposite gender and you're through the door. You get the sexhaver stamp and can build your life from there without all the mental gymnastics.
It's the same with looking for a job, once you're hired. You know that you're hireable. You can take a deep breath. Statistically, that company is not going to be the ONLY one willing to hire you. And so you're comfortable in the job market.
If you DON'T receive early sexual/romantic validation you never get the reassurance that you're even a player in the game. No one has been interested in you, so why should you expect anyone to be in the future? You drift along without being given any female attention. You're there physically but no one is picking up what you're putting down. You start trying to learn how to get girls (when this should come naturally to you as a teen). We all know where this ends, you become an incel.
The most important thing is that a 16-year old who has just lost his virginity will be confident that the foid he fucked is one in a string of many (why wouldn't she be?). He can relax knowing that he is DESIRED by girl(s!). He knows there's a demand for him. That first domino brick has to fall early, the Pandora's Box has to open to possibilities, otherwise your growth is stunted and you are doomed.
That's why redpillers who lose their virginity with some Chink in Vietnam at 30 are pathetic. They've had to invest, put in work, chase and fly across the world in order to attract ONE woman. He has had to CREATE DEMAND for himself for one single "buyer", when his highschool peers 15 years earlier only had to EXIST to create a demand for many "buyers".
They will never know it is to be truly DESIRED.
