Blackpill Why society needs soft prostitution

[asocialcel]

Everyone knows men are lonely. So what can be done about this? Prostitution, of course, but there is a problem: Foids don't like getting fucked by random dudes. It's also dirty and spreads STDs.
So this is why I propose the following: Soft prostitution.

I define soft prostitution as any prostitution that doesn't involve intercourse (handjobs, cuddling, kissing, fetish stuff). So why is it so great? The reason is because providers actually enjoy their job. If you go on r/sexworkers you'll see foids talking about how they love cuddle sessions, how they accompanied a lonely John and it made them feel good.

It is the perfect solution to the inceldom crisis. Men would be able to touch foids, to kiss foids, to have foids accompany them, but without the messiness of traditional prostitution. Foids would be able to take these jobs and actually find fulfillment in them.

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

Cope, only solution is a bolshevik revolution in the Rodgerist flavour.

 

[SociallyStupid]

I don't think providers actually like cuddling etc. and many HATE kissing and refuse to do it. The only reason they like it in a session is because they are paid $500/h for cuddling instead of like $100 on CuddleComfort, so they get way more money for less work.

In fact, many CuddleComfort providers are pretty open to do more for higher pay, which shows that it's not really the cuddling they like so much.

 

[OutcompetedByRoomba]

Real prostituion is better, once it's legal you can impose some restriction on it, e.g., if you want to work in the field you need to get regular check-ups to make sure you are not spreading STDs. If you don't, we take away your license and now your operating illegally and we can charge you. Also, condoms.

Not sure how to feel about soft prostitution. On the one hand, it is good for men who are too high inhib, too poor or just too young for real prostituion. It also offers something real prostituion doesn't in the same way: It's purely focused on the girl providing comfort and making you feel like you are recieving real affection and intimacy. For men who care about those things more than about the physical act of sex, this might be even better than hard prostituion, or at least cheaper.

On the other hand, it means men can be exploited for money from a young age and that that they will be less likely to fight back against societal abuse, because they have one more way to cope themselfs through life. It also might lead to "men only recieve love for money" becoming the new normal instead of a temporary solution to the underlying problem yet to be resolved.

 

[SociallyStupid]

For men who care about those things more than about the physical act of sex, this might be even better than hard prostituion, or at least cheaper.

Only cheaper. Proper GFE should give you this plus sex.

 

[OutcompetedByRoomba]

Only cheaper. Proper GFE should give you this plus sex.

You would be suprised how weird people can be. Some might prefer the innocent illusion of being cared about and loved without the humiliating sex during which they can't help feel insufficient / used / pathetic / disgusting.

If you hated your own body for some reason, be it having a small dick or being a fat fuck or some other huge insecurity, the sex might be a net negative that you only engage in because your instincts push you to.

 

[Zat]

Prostitution doesn't work and will NEVER solve the problems that we're facing as long as there's money in between
This is the main reason why real dolls can't make it big worldwide

MONEY AND EXPENSIVE PRICES

there's no solution but a radical change of society

Capitalism, communism and socialism must die

 

[Lv99_BixNood]

If you go on r/sexworkers you'll see foids talking about how they love cuddle sessions, how they accompanied a lonely John and it made them feel good.

Jfl at believing that

 

[SociallyStupid]

You would be suprised how weird people can be. Some might prefer the innocent illusion of being cared about and loved without the humiliating sex during which they can't help feel insufficient / used / pathetic / disgusting.

I mean, I understand it, but I guess there still are a lot of people who also desire sex.
Besides that, a client can always perform DATY and think that he's good enough at it to pleasure the provider.

 

[OutcompetedByRoomba]

I mean, I understand it, but I guess there still are a lot of people who also desire sex.
Besides that, a client can always perform DATY and think that he's good enough at it to pleasure the provider.

DATY?

And yeah, as I said at the start, for most

Real prostituion is better.

But there are some exceptions, and maybe more than you would think.

 

[Cnidoblastos]

Cope, only solution is a bolshevik revolution in the Rodgerist flavour.

 

[SociallyStupid]

DATY = Dining at the pussY = Giving her oral

Well, I guess you are right.

 

[OutcompetedByRoomba]

Jfl at believing that

Yeah, anytime you see a claims made by a woman your first instincts should be to assume that w/e is being said is just some form of signaling or manipulation. If that hasn't sunk in yet you are still not fully aware of what kind of creatures your horny for.

 

[error01]

Jfl at believing that

yep thats just classic foid virtue signalling

 

[OutcompetedByRoomba]

DATY = Dining at the pussY = Giving her oral

Well, I guess you are right.

Would be worried about catching something tbh, though I guess there are oral dams for that. Or is giving escorts oral where you live generally considered safe?

And if your an ugly, insecure man your presence might simply make her feel disgusted and prevent her from getting into it. Should you percieve that, it will add another slash to your already scared heart. But always nice to learn new abbreviation

 

[SociallyStupid]

Would be worried about catching something tbh, though I guess there are oral dams for that. Or is giving escorts oral where you live generally considered safe?

I have no clue whether it's considered safe, I have never been to an escort. I guess there isn't 100% safety, but I guess unprotected oral should at least be way safer than other types of unprotected sex.

And if your an ugly, insecure man your presence might simply make her feel disgusted and prevent her from getting into it. Should you percieve that, it will add another slash to your already scared heart. But always nice to learn new abbreviation

She's not into me either way ... some escorts go to ridiculous lengths to prevent feeling any pleasure, including using numbing gels.

However, the biggest reason for me not to go to escorts is because they are manipulating all the time, and I really can't stand that.

 

[OutcompetedByRoomba]

However, the biggest reason for me not to go to escorts is because they are manipulating all the time, and I really can't stand that.

Think you might be facing a pretty big issue. Because that is true for most women most of the time. In some sense I think I prefer escorts, because in that enviorment both parties know what's up. It's manipulation, but it is out in the open, there is no real chance at getting fooled unless you want to be. And if her acting is off-putting to you, you can look for a girl that is at the right level of not hamming it up to much but also not making you feel like she doesn't even care you are there.

 

[SociallyStupid]

It's manipulation, but it is out in the open, there is no real chance at getting fooled unless you want to be

Sure, but I'd like to have honest feedback. Maybe it's a psychological issue, but I really _hate_ everything I perceive to be dishonest feedback. For example, one potential use for me to visit escorts could have been to gain more confidence ... but I can't as I cannot trust the feedback.

 

[deucegigalo]

Im lucky where I live there is plenty of shady massage parlours so depending on the mood of the noodlewh0re/your appearance and most importantly how much your willing to shell out its all consensual and i would describe that as soft prostitution.

 

[OutcompetedByRoomba]

Sure, but I'd like to have honest feedback. Maybe it's a psychological issue, but I really _hate_ everything I perceive to be dishonest feedback. For example, one potential use for me to visit escorts could have been to gain more confidence ... but I can't as I cannot trust the feedback.

You can try to get her to be honest. She might be hesitant first and her females instincts will tell her to lie anyways, but if you keep at it and make her understand why you really need her to be honest, sooner or later you will get what you want. Especially if you try more than one girl.

Maybe ask her to try to avoid putting it in outright hurtful terms. No reason to torture yourself, that would probaly also not be good for your confidence in the long run. "Be honest with me, but be a bit careful / mild / mindful in how you express the critique."

 

[SociallyStupid]

You can try to get her to be honest. She might be hesitant first and her females instincts will tell her to lie anyways, but if you keep at it and make her understand why you really need her to be honest, sooner or later you will get what you want. Especially if you try more than one girl.

From what I gathered they all seem to think their clients are really impatient. Even if you tell them to explain how it works they will try for a few minutes, but if you don't manage to do it correctly they will bullshit you after a few mins. Not sure how I could even possible get her to tell the truth and more importantly, how I could trust her to tell the truth.
I thought that yeah, with multiple providers you could "cross-check" them to see whether they agree or disagree with some things you do ... but of course there is also interpersonal variation, so you can't be 100% sure that a disagreement is because one of them is lying.

Maybe ask her to try to avoid putting it in outright hurtful terms. No reason to torture yourself, that would probaly also not be good for your confidence in the long run. "Be honest with me, but be a bit careful / mild / mindful in how you express the critique."

I thought the way could be just to ask things like "what could I improve" and completely avoid the question "how good am I". That way, at least if she wants to put in the effort she should be able to be honest because the answer makes it obvious I would be disappointed with "nothing".

 

[CantEscapeYourFate]

I define soft prostitution as any prostitution that doesn't involve intercourse (handjobs, cuddling, kissing, fetish stuff).

1. All that stuff can spread STDs too, so why give a man blueballs instead of giving him the real thing?
2. Foids will inevitably overestimate their value like always and charge dudes $1000 for 5 minute cuddle sessions.
3. Onlyfans is basically exactly what you described, just without physical touch.

 

[OutcompetedByRoomba]

From what I gathered they all seem to think their clients are really impatient. Even if you tell them to explain how it works they will try for a few minutes, but if you don't manage to do it correctly they will bullshit you after a few mins. Not sure how I could even possible get her to tell the truth and more importantly, how I could trust her to tell the truth.
I thought that yeah, with multiple providers you could "cross-check" them to see whether they agree or disagree with some things you do ... but of course there is also interpersonal variation, so you can't be 100% sure that a disagreement is because one of them is lying.

I thought the way could be just to ask things like "what could I improve" and completely avoid the question "how good am I". That way, at least if she wants to put in the effort she should be able to be honest because the answer makes it obvious I would be disappointed with "nothing".

You can tell her when you meet her first what you want and if she is up for that. Maybe take your first time just to enjoy yourself, so you are a bit less nervous and overwhelmed. If you find one over escorts sites online you usually chat her up over the phone I think, so you can write her what you want. Or ask at the brothel if there is a person helping you pick out a girl who she would recommend.

I would advoid autistic sounding ways of asking about it like "what can I improve". You aren't getting feedback on your homework. You want to know how to fuck her right, how to get her off, how lick her pussy good.

If you don't make it very clear what you want you won't get it, imagine it from her perspective: Most clients asking for feedback want to be told that they did good, even if they didn't. Or at least they will be more likely to hire her again when she caresses their ego. Even those that ask her to be honest would be mostly men who don't know how fragile their own ego is and who will not be happy to be told that they sucked. This isn't even just about prostituion, this is more like a general problem with getting honest feedback from people you are not close to on a personal level.

Finding the right girl for it will be core I would guess. Not every girl will care or understand or be willing to invest the extra effort, so if you feel like she doesn't get it or doesn't give a fuck, just let it go and try again with another one.

"Do you think you could give me some feedback? And I mean honest feedback. Not painfully honest you know, but I don't want you to tell me how great I was just to make me feel good." I'm an autistic sperg, so maybe my advice should be taken with a grain of salt, but this is how I might put it. Maybe better, "How was I? And be honest please. Not painfully honest you know, but I don't want you to tell me how great I was just to make me feel good." Yeah, that sounds less retarded for sure.

You might want to prepare yourself though, emotionally brace yourself for impact. Because she might use you to let off some of the frustration she has with her clients. Or maybe you just really sucked and if you push for it she might throw it in your face. Honestly expect the worst so it won't hurt too deeply when it comes true.