Not just sex havers, all normies period, including any friends and family members
I don't want bring harm to them or any of their lives, but if I have to choose between a world where I get what I want and they get what I want, I choose me
For example, corona virus spreading and wreaking havoc across the planet would be glorious for me, I could stay up for an hour or two eating popcorn watching youtube videos of news reports of the thousands upon thousands of deaths, it would be a boon to my spirits for sure
But some of use are going to lose family members and friends to the virus too, you have to be mentally prepared enough to accept these outcomes, every incel has to understand that our goals and the goals of all normies are DIAMETRICALLY OPPOSED, when one side wins the other loses by default, there is no middle ground
So in every "victory" be mindful that for some of us there will be collateral damage, you have to be fully aware which side you are on and what that means, because if your will falters you'll end up just inconveniencing yourself
For example a lot of incels on here I'm sure will make rape jokes very easily, and if you hear about some case of some stacey whore who got raped or sexually assaulted you'll laugh it up, but the moment a female family member in your family gets assaulted and/or raped you'll do a 180 and its no longer funny, and its "not ok" now and the rest of us need to now cowtow to your new found sensibilities, that's just hypocrisy
I think a lot of men are bandwagoning onto inceldom due to how negatively hypergamy affects their lives, but they are doing so not being fully aware of the gravity of the situation, and not being mentally prepared to make certain choices and take certain stances, many are unaware that they have not truly taken a stance/side yet, and its only when shit hits close to home that they will truly realize that they actually stand on the normie side
That's the scary part, because something like this can happen to someone who we might all one day see at some "incel meetup", next thing you know were all getting doxxed because he's feeling bad that some female relative got raped, and now he's learned the "error of his ways"
I think every incel needs to do a little mental exercise with themselves:
Come up with a list of worst case scenario incel themed scenarios that affect family, friends, etc (normies) and really visualize it, put yourself in that scenario and ask yourself which side do you choose, how do you feel, why you are making said decision, etc. If more of us did this, you'd see a lot more self exiles and a lot less bans, and less users saying - "you are going too far", "you are making us look evil", etc
A lot of incels are basically "sleeper agent" larps and they don't even realize it, they think they are one of use and share the same values and they don't realize that they couldn't be further from the truth
ITS A LOT EASIER TO CALL YOURSELF INCEL RATHER THAN FAILED NORMIE
Many users here would report the members of this site without hesitation under the right circumstances if a witch hunt happened and they had "learned the error of their ways"
This is why extremism is important, because it draws a line in the sand and gives those watching the line a reality check, because when they realize they can't cross it, they realize that inceldom and the black pill is not something they can be a part of, they leave and they don't endanger the future well being of actual incels, and they don't waste their time "frontin" as something they aren't
Definitely going to make this a thread
