I seriously do not get it, and I'll never do. I'll state a lot of obivious things here but I need to vent.
I'm 30+ and, for an entire life, I've tried to get my parents understanding the problem of me being ugly. I've tried everything, tried any argument, told them about hundreds of little happenings that proved my life was shitty since the beginning. I talk to them about how it works, about experiments like chadfishing, or how bad people with good looks still gets women. Studies of how good looking men get away from anything, how they are favoured by women for casual sex and reproduction.
It doesn't.
Fucking.
Work.
And well, if it's parents we're talking about, somehow i can get it. No parent would admit that his/her son is a genetic failure and they'll try to find any excuse to blame it "on your mind".
Yes, I'm not deformed nor extremely skinny nor extremely ugly but ffs, i'm a nerd and despite gymcelling and food etc I'll NEVER be good looking.
But my real beef is with normal people. Society puts ugly people "in their place" since childhood yet, despite all of this, there is this facade of "ugliness doesn't exists" and "it's all in your head".
When you read about "incel phenomena" on the internet, it's always described (by non incel. of course) as "people who have personality problems they think they are entitled to sex yadda yadda", it's never "people that are ugly and they are suffering because of this". On television you can hear the term "ugly" used like a joke, it's never treated seriously unless we're talking about some kind of freak. Friends and coworkers (non incel ones, of course) treat the problem as non-existant. "Just be yourself bro!".
WHAT IS THE REASON FEIGNIGN THAT UGLINESS DOESN'T EXISTS???
It's like living with a huge illness but everyone in the world (except other ill people) will say that you don't have it and you're an hypocondriac, and it's getting REALLY tiring.
And the worst thing? Even if you ascend then what? You're still ugly. Our best chance is to find an insecure girl that will have sex with you just in excange for a long term relationship.
What kind of girl? The usual ugly-to average girl that after getting pumped & dumped by Chad wants a "safe reliable and nice guy" (tee~hee) to cuddle and stay with... until she gets to know another Chad to cheat him with... and of course she will always think about Chad, if she is with you and she sees a Chad she gets wet and maybe she splurts some comments like "look at his muscles" and you're there standing like a cuck.
It's a fucking nightmare. I'm trying since a long time ago to find a reason to go on. I'm trying to make it up by gettings thing i like and I've recently started using hookers from time to time to feel better. I'm usually really clean and polite, so hookers tend to treat me in a good way, but It's all a delusion: they treat me in a good way because they want me to come back... they do that with everyone that is not a criminal.
The only way to overcome this shit, I think, it's being so unaware that you don't realize your GF would probably being fucked by someone else. I've noticed that pure nerds aren't capable of doing that while soyboys tends to be more shallow.
I wonder why, they're also ugly as shit, in fact, the only kind of human being that i feel superior to is soyboys.
I've got a coworker that is the poster child of soyboys, even on his facebook he exibits a perfect soyface.
I was thinking to get jaw surgery but having a good jaw on an ectomorph body sounds like bull.
I'm 30+ and, for an entire life, I've tried to get my parents understanding the problem of me being ugly. I've tried everything, tried any argument, told them about hundreds of little happenings that proved my life was shitty since the beginning. I talk to them about how it works, about experiments like chadfishing, or how bad people with good looks still gets women. Studies of how good looking men get away from anything, how they are favoured by women for casual sex and reproduction.
It doesn't.
Fucking.
Work.
And well, if it's parents we're talking about, somehow i can get it. No parent would admit that his/her son is a genetic failure and they'll try to find any excuse to blame it "on your mind".
Yes, I'm not deformed nor extremely skinny nor extremely ugly but ffs, i'm a nerd and despite gymcelling and food etc I'll NEVER be good looking.
But my real beef is with normal people. Society puts ugly people "in their place" since childhood yet, despite all of this, there is this facade of "ugliness doesn't exists" and "it's all in your head".
When you read about "incel phenomena" on the internet, it's always described (by non incel. of course) as "people who have personality problems they think they are entitled to sex yadda yadda", it's never "people that are ugly and they are suffering because of this". On television you can hear the term "ugly" used like a joke, it's never treated seriously unless we're talking about some kind of freak. Friends and coworkers (non incel ones, of course) treat the problem as non-existant. "Just be yourself bro!".
WHAT IS THE REASON FEIGNIGN THAT UGLINESS DOESN'T EXISTS???
It's like living with a huge illness but everyone in the world (except other ill people) will say that you don't have it and you're an hypocondriac, and it's getting REALLY tiring.
And the worst thing? Even if you ascend then what? You're still ugly. Our best chance is to find an insecure girl that will have sex with you just in excange for a long term relationship.
What kind of girl? The usual ugly-to average girl that after getting pumped & dumped by Chad wants a "safe reliable and nice guy" (tee~hee) to cuddle and stay with... until she gets to know another Chad to cheat him with... and of course she will always think about Chad, if she is with you and she sees a Chad she gets wet and maybe she splurts some comments like "look at his muscles" and you're there standing like a cuck.
It's a fucking nightmare. I'm trying since a long time ago to find a reason to go on. I'm trying to make it up by gettings thing i like and I've recently started using hookers from time to time to feel better. I'm usually really clean and polite, so hookers tend to treat me in a good way, but It's all a delusion: they treat me in a good way because they want me to come back... they do that with everyone that is not a criminal.
The only way to overcome this shit, I think, it's being so unaware that you don't realize your GF would probably being fucked by someone else. I've noticed that pure nerds aren't capable of doing that while soyboys tends to be more shallow.
I wonder why, they're also ugly as shit, in fact, the only kind of human being that i feel superior to is soyboys.
I've got a coworker that is the poster child of soyboys, even on his facebook he exibits a perfect soyface.
I was thinking to get jaw surgery but having a good jaw on an ectomorph body sounds like bull.
