When you live in a gynocentric feminist society, men's grievances aren't paid attention to so its no wonder why we suffer in silience. Men have much less social support then women while having to bear much more burden than them. Men are shamed for showing emotions and are perceived as weak if they complain, so we just keep our sorrows to ourselves.
This is a spot on one.
But that's the thing is that whining is what is underlyingly implied if you are a complainer... THEN YOU'RE ALWAYS A WHINER (false by my perception).
Whiner = complainer but with HIS issue being his weakness, rather than a vigilant venter of valid vices... where someone receives the complaining as a just/ rational action towards a valid vice/ negative that must be neutralized.
You can gain strength through anger. Emotions are powerful things. The only issue is when it becomes reckless rage, but being constantly emotional means being constantly determined.
Get in the mindset of society owing you something, rather than owing them abidance by their standards. Show them no mercy because you will receive none from them anyway.
Complaining being relegated to whining is shame-playing/ shame-baiting.
Complaining should really be called vigilance venting.
It inspires us, strengthens us, gives us determination and motivation.
Don't let people gaslight you.
Imagine someone has sandles given to them by an expedition team, and they complain about them being too tight or something petty, then that's whining because it's about personal wekaness.
Then imagine there's an expedition team who gave someone sandles with infected bacteria. Then you're not a whiner. You're just venting against a valid vice. It would be stupid if the negativity weren't addressed.
We live in the humanitarian age where fairybraiding/ happyclappy victimvouching is in. There are others who are bigger victims than us because we are men. So the distinct target for humanitarian hurryflurry helping are the wahmen. We are not.
Helping us means not helping them. Hearing our rhetoric/ narrative means dismantling theirs. Both can coincide, but the women will want to be the victims, and the betas who vouch for them and dismantle us will get more SMV by being seen as "sensible, esoteric, gentlemanly, etc." and not many of the masses are as esoteric as we are because some people are innerwired for gaining information not by intuition/ problem solving but by mass intake via books/ knowledge sources. People who are autistic in intuition/ abstracting in some manner will need it from those sources rather than what we know by common sense.
Male plight with modern conventions = suffering silently.
While for women it means being easily uplifted.
I will not listen to the gaslighting trap that is male conventions. Manly men may fight battles but dirty cowards win wars.
Just look at vietnam.