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Blackpill Why it is better/ easier/ safer to run on anger than to rely on happiness/ expect it to be motivated.

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Happiness essentially carries with it a lot of hope, optimism, and non-stress that we need.
But life is full of unpredictability. And we are only usually happy when we have a winning-momentum but that doesn't come about without hard work, knowledge, etc.
That means that life is a grind, and a minefield.
Anger helps you adapt to that mindfield when you consider threats injustice by our own natural entitlement (even getting defensive in anyway to any threat is entitlement. Your biology believes it is entitled to survive when it fights microbes).
Happiness is dependent on things that are prone to failure/ disgrace/ change.
Chads are the people who won in life to the point of not having to be angry. And women believe they don't have to be angry to have winner halo momentum. But winner halo momentum is a myth. Everything is nuts and bolts, there is no magic. Jews won ww2. Nazis (chads) didn't. The aryan peoples are suffering now. Whites are dying.
The nuts and bolts of this evil system today disprove halo effect having practical value besides getting laid.

Happiness is an illusion that if you wide-eyeingly hold will just bring you back to anxiety/ insecurity. Anger takes anxieties and fights their sources down to death. It's easier, tunnel-trails your focus to the source of the issue.

Insecurity leads to perfectionism.
From foible comes insecurity.
From insecurity comes fury.
From fury comes perfectionism.
Meticulousness will grind me grand.

Its better to eradicate negativity than to dwell on positivity.
If a room is half flooded, we naturally get anxiety naturally and not focus on the happy clean half. Because our brain neurologically knows that positivity is hedonistic, and can only occur once negative thought-looping (which produces stress/ mental taxation) eliminates the issue. That the tendencies of the situation will steer things to the negative. We have standards. And being an angry, meticulous perfectionist will help with things.
We do not naturally love fixing things. We have an underlying ideology of equating our loves with grandiosity. Loves come along with grandiosity .Women love looking beautiful, men love being manly. When people insult you for what you love it is because people think that is your super ego. People think star wars, and lvoing it makes you super-ego model yourself after something of fantasy/ feminine/ etc.
Women who see someone as modeling their loves after guyish things makes them butchy, and so on.
It is a matter of human primal pride for us to work a plumbing job out of hating the issues that can be fixed from plumbing (such as finance issues through having a job, etc.) than debasing our ego by loving doing blue collar work.
And then through hating being a blue collar worker you can gain momentum hating that to be something more.
It is easier for us to hate general concepts/ substances than to come to love them.
Better to hate flaws that jogging gets rid of (as the mental source of making the habit) than to come to love it. Sure love for jogging can come about once it is more explored. But the initial urge is more safe/ psychologically efficient if it is hated.
Positive optimism, and staying your brain on always being hopeful/ keeping your mood dependent on the right situation will always fall because of nature's chaos.
It is better to fasten your brain to negative expectations (now even the worst situation will be a commonality for you so you're desensitized) and put the pressure on finding and destroying how it can get there.
From the worst low and pressuring upward. Then everything is built well.
You're a sitting duck if you're positive. You and your hopes/ managings in the world.
 
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yes bro... long story short... just ragemaxx. do nofap which replaces all negative emotions with rage, call everyone out on their shit without remorse. the end.
 
or just find a way to make a habit of things easily and not have to rely on motivation
 
or just find a way to make a habit of things easily and not have to rely on motivation
everything is motivation. but you're saying making things efficient. that also can work too but being angry makes you go at shit harder. which can be a gamebreaker.
 
Yeah anger is the number one motivator in life because it allows you to be determined that you're going to get something done to perfection.
 
Yeah anger is the number one motivator in life because it allows you to be determined that you're going to get something done to perfection.
and safe from shock and disappointment since you're already jaded. all of the hard/ bleak things in life become less so the more you become angry at them. anger is a better substitute for courage. and anger is amazing especially if you intellectualize to the point to feel safe to feel other emotions carefully, AND feel desperate to feel focused amidst self criticism. the insecurity leads to perfectionism.
 
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