Serious Why is this site so hated?

[Pengwin]

I understand that some people just hate incels because it looks like we hate all women but is there any actual legitimate reason why we get so much hate?
Whenever I browse R/Inceltear I'm surprised by the abhorrent assumptions people have about us that don't even know us personally.
Almost all users I have interacted with here are pretty laid back chill people and I'm comfortable with people who don't judge me.
It's nice to talk to people you don't feel the need to walk on eggshells around.
Also, the sheer number of active users just creates almost endless amounts of content. Who doesn't want almost endless amounts of content?

I'm not criticizing those who criticize this forum, I just don't understand why you stick around if you loathe it.
So... why?

 

[Deleted member 24160]

Because in today's world, women rule the social world so even if you disagree with them and their decisions you risk social pariah status for it. And in today's individualistic society, that pretty much means death. If people don't come into this place with a brain not soaked in soy and are male, a surprising amount agree with us or at the least think we get a bad rap.

 

[Shaded]

Because we goes against the "normal" idea of how young men approach dating. It's never our appearance. It's always US. Appearance doesn't mean shit in dating. Nor does height. It's never external factors just internal : ) Just [teehee] be nice, confident, funny, and your bound to meet her

Times have changed, bluepilled lurkers. Just as you always wanted.

 

[Ecstasy]

postmaxxers

 

[Askiel]

Because the truth is too harsh and they want to deny it with any means.

 

[Intellectual NPC]

Because we hold a "negative" (it's really a non-biased look in most cases when it comes to blackpill) about women. They perceive it that way anyway, which instantly gives us a bad rep in a female-worshiping society.

It doesn't help that incels are associated with mass shooters. I think that's a less important factor, though. Society won't hate groups that go against the norm, just groups like ours that go against the norm in a way they take as offensive.

 

[ihaveno1]

Because the truth is too harsh and they want to deny it with any means.