Why is there so much gatekeeping on here?

[Deleted member 24160]

You can be tall and still be incel. You can be completely average in every way and still be incel. You can be white and still be incel. You can be young and still be incel. You can even be married or in a relationship and still be incel if your wife refuses to have sex with you or refuses to give you basic affection. The very definition of involuntary celibacy is that you can't get a girl to have sex with you or love you but you want one. Some guys on here need to stop changing this definition just because of one thing they have that others don't or to get rid of members they don't like.

 

[PPEcel]

If you're married or in a relationship that is pretty fucking suspicious, you know, and any user who claims to be married or in a relationship deserves a lot of scrutiny -- because they're a cuck (i.e. they're not blackpilled), or they're a LARP.

 

[monstercel]

Yeah I agree with the gatekeeping in tall, white incels, but...

You can even be married or in a relationship and still be incel if your wife refuses to have sex with you or refuses to give you basic affection.

this is a cuck, although for definition he is a incel, we should not accept this kind of incel, first he need to get blackpilled.

 

[Deleted member 24160]

If you're married or in a relationship that is pretty fucking suspicious, you know, and any user who claims to be married or in a relationship deserves a lot of scrutiny -- because they're a cuck (i.e. they're not blackpilled), or they're a LARP.

That's true. I mentioned that because there was one guy on here who said he was married and had never had sex with his wife.

 

[Deleted member 1983]

I mean in a sense you do have to have a bit of gatekeeping on these kinds of sites, otherwise you end up with places like r/foreveralone which is just full of humble bragging chads talking about how they're forever alone because one of their five FWBs wasn't interested any more. I absolutely do not want this place filled with that and I think neither do many others here. A person who has had sex outside of prostitution is, as far as I'm concerned, not an incel. They might have their own issues, but they sure aren't incels.

Although I do agree some people take it a bit far.

we have to keep the fakecels out

@Weed ban when?

 

[TheSecondComing]

You can even be married or in a relationship and still be incel if your wife refuses to have sex with you or refuses to give you basic affection.

lol good one

 

[Deleted member 24160]

I mean in a sense you do have to have a bit of gatekeeping on these kinds of sites, otherwise you end up with places like r/foreveralone which is just full of humble bragging chads talking about how they're forever alone because one of their five FWBs wasn't interested any more. I absolutely do not want this place filled with that and I think neither do many others here. A person who has had sex outside of prostitution is, as far as I'm concerned, not an incel. They might have their own issues, but they sure aren't incels.

Although I do agree some people take it a bit far.

To be fair they usually ban those types since they don't want those people on there.

lol good one

Do you disagree?

 

[Deleted member 21514]

Married and being incel? come on dude wtf are u saying lmao

 

[MountainGorilla]

 

[Deleted member 21908]

Yeah gatekeeping isn’t cool tbh, I can understand the Incels who want fakecels out so that not everyone single proclaimed “Incel” that has hasn’t asked a girl out in his life is posting here, but also the rule that blackpilled normies can be on here causes a bit of controversy. It’s just the members who are jealous of those have certain traits such as being tall or white, but honestly just being average is enough to be Incel in 2020. If you’re face is sub5 you have every right to be on here, if you’re a mentalcel it still doesn’t matter. It just gets worse everyday so I accept everyone who is going through it.

 

[Deleted member 24160]

Married and being incel? come on dude wtf are u saying lmao

Did you stop reading as soon as you saw married?

 

[ItsOver4cel]

I mean in a sense you do have to have a bit of gatekeeping on these kinds of sites, otherwise you end up with places like r/foreveralone which is just full of humble bragging chads talking about how they're forever alone because one of their five FWBs wasn't interested any more. I absolutely do not want this place filled with that and I think neither do many others here. A person who has had sex outside of prostitution is, as far as I'm concerned, not an incel. They might have their own issues, but they sure aren't incels.

Although I do agree some people take it a bit far.

I agree on every word. This place would be infested with normies and chadlites like lookism sites if we didn't gatekeep.

 

[Weed]

we have to keep the fakecels out View attachment 228525

@Weed ban when?

 

[based_meme]

If you're married or in a relationship that is pretty fucking suspicious, you know, and any user who claims to be married or in a relationship deserves a lot of scrutiny -- because they're a cuck (i.e. they're not blackpilled), or they're a LARP.

Tbf, it's possible to be in a relationship and be black pilled. It will be hard being aware of hypergamy and female nature, but it's possible.

 

[Deleted member 21514]

Did you stop reading as soon as you saw married?

Kinda, now i read the entire thing and it's still retarded. Incel means that you never had sex. Even if ur the biggest soy if ur married at least u had sex once, so ur not an incel

 

[PPEcel]

Tbf, it's possible to be in a relationship and be black pilled. It will be hard being aware of hypergamy and female nature, but it's possible.

It is, but it means they're not incels. Blackpilled normies are allowed in our community, but bragging isn't, and if someone is telling us that he's in a relationship, that's bragging.

 

[TINMAN]

perfectly average you say?

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

People obsess over the traits they don't have

 

[Deleted member 1983]

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am i supposed to know who this is?

 

[Deleted member 24160]

Kinda, now i read the entire thing and it's still retarded. Incel means that you never had sex. Even if ur the biggest soy if ur married at least u had sex once, so ur not an incel

What? You can be married for years and not have sex.

 

[Deleted member 20434]

Stfu

 

[Deleted member 24160]

Ha no

Yeah you can. It makes it easier for sure and I've seen guys I know for sure would be incel if they were average height or short but it can still happen.

 

[Weed]

am i supposed to know who this is?

 

[Deleted member 24160]

Stfu

Brilliant response. Enlighten us more with your genius.

 

[ItsOver4cel]

It is, but it means they're not incels. Blackpilled normies are allowed in our community, but bragging isn't, and if someone is telling us that he's in a relationship, that's bragging.

''blackpilled normies'' and ''mentalcels'' are already to much of a stretch for this forum tbh. Some people here legit believe if you are not an actual 11/10 terachad you're done for. Bitch, I've seen normies with gfs on the street more than once, the ones who are truly fucked are sub4 men.
And don't gemme that Tinder bs, normies ascend by socialcirclemaxxing, not online dating.

 

[Deleted member 1983]

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[modern_grendel]

I mean in a sense you do have to have a bit of gatekeeping on these kinds of sites, otherwise you end up with places like r/foreveralone which is just full of humble bragging chads talking about how they're forever alone because one of their five FWBs wasn't interested any more. I absolutely do not want this place filled with that and I think neither do many others here. A person who has had sex outside of prostitution is, as far as I'm concerned, not an incel. They might have their own issues, but they sure aren't incels.

Although I do agree some people take it a bit far.

 

[Deleted member 21514]

What? You can be married for years and not have sex.

Of course, but they had sex in the beggining of the relationship, it's practically impossible to get married and never have sex. And any person who had sex shouldn't be allowed here

 

[Deleted member 20434]

Brilliant response. Enlighten us more with your genius.

Yes

 

[0fflinemode]

Yeah I agree with the gatekeeping in tall, white incels, but...

this is a cuck, although for definition he is a incel, we should not accept this kind of incel, first he need to get blackpilled.

 

[PPEcel]

''blackpilled normies'' and ''mentalcels'' are already to much of a stretch for this forum tbh. Some people here legit believe if you are not an actual 11/10 terachad you're done for. Bitch, I've seen normies with gfs on the street more than once, the ones who are truly fucked are sub4 men.
And don't gemme that Tinder bs, normies ascend by socialcirclemaxxing, not online dating.

I'm fine with "blackpilled normies" as long as they aren't being dicks about it. Mods do a good job cracking down on brags.

Online dating is cringey as fuck.

 

[ItsOver4cel]

any person who had sex shouldn't be allowed here

 

[Deleted member 24160]

Of course, but they had sex in the beggining of the relationship, it's practically impossible to get married and never have sex. And any person who had sex shouldn't be allowed here

That include escortcels? And I doubt they've all had sex.

 

[Deleted member 22999]

If you're married or in a relationship that is pretty fucking suspicious, you know, and any user who claims to be married or in a relationship deserves a lot of scrutiny -- because they're a cuck (i.e. they're not blackpilled), or they're a LARP.

 

[Deleted member 21514]

That include escortcels?

No, they are the only exception tbh.

 

[Yerberito]

People obsess over the traits they don't have

 

[BummerDrummerOG]

Nice speech brocel 0-0 put some black and white footage over that it would hit hard

 

[Weed]

 

[MountainGorilla]

Nice speech brocel 0-0 put some black and white footage over that it would hit hard
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thanks brocel I wish my laptop wasn't a potato

 

[based_meme]

perfectly average you say?
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I'm afraid it's true. Those are the composite images of hundreds (I think?) of images. They happen to converge nicely to the golden ratio proportions.

Ironically, the average of all faces happens to be one of the most attractive. It's a fucking weird paradox.

 

[Emba]

Married and being incel? come on dude wtf are u saying lmao

@marriedandlookingforfun thoughts?
...must have spelled it wong...

 

[Personalityinkwell]

I agree on every word. This place would be infested with normies and chadlites like lookism sites if we didn't gatekeep.

If YOU didn't gatekeep?

What power do YOU or any users have? The only one with any power is the mods to ban someone when they admitted they had sex with a non escort, that's it. Any topics such as "whitecels, tallcels, mentalcels, richcels, etc., are not allowed" is stupid.

 

[ItsOver4cel]

If YOU didn't gatekeep?

What power do YOU or any users have? The only one with any power is the mods to ban someone when they admitted they had sex with a non escort, that's it. Any topics such as "whitecels, tallcels, mentalcels, richcels, etc., are not allowed" is stupid.

So u are saying normies and chadlites should be allowed here? That's nonsense, unless they are disabled or some shit. I'm tired of trolling faggots tbh.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

So u are saying normies and chadlites should be allowed here? That's nonsense, unless they are disabled or some shit. I'm tired of trolling faggots tbh.

the problem is that you're not talking from a PRAGMATIC standpoint, you're talking from a theoretical, impossible standpoint.

How do you keep normies and chadlites out of here? How? Please, enlighten me.

Here's the answer, you can't unless you make a rule where they get banned if they brag. Making a thread saying "tallcels aren't allowed" does absolutely nothing, all it does is piss off actual tallcels while the fakecels laugh and say "they have no power over me, I'll LARP and stay here as long as I want".

Do you get it?

 

[ItsOver4cel]

the problem is that you're not talking from a PRAGMATIC standpoint, you're talking from a theoretical, impossible standpoint.

How do you keep normies and chadlites out of here? How? Please, enlighten me.

Here's the answer, you can't unless you make a rule where they get banned if they brag. Making a thread saying "tallcels aren't allowed" does absolutely nothing, all it does is piss off actual tallcels while the fakecels laugh and say "they have no power over me, I'll LARP and stay here as long as I want".

Do you get it?

Yep, and that's one of the bigger problems in fact. I'm actually disappointed that the mods don't take this matter as seriously, seeing as how fakecels are lurking here with no fucking reason other than trolling and spreading around shit just for the lolz.
tbh many users here have pm'd their faces to someone so it's easy to know if they are trucel or not once a good amount of ppl get to see it and becomes public.
thing is mods do jackshit about it like you said EVEN if literally anyone knows how a specific user looks and that's what makes this place one step closer to chad infested forums like lookism or looksmax.
But whatever, idc.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

Yep, and that's one of the bigger problems in fact. I'm actually disappointed that the mods don't take this matter as seriously, seeing as how fakecels are lurking here with no fucking reason other than trolling and spreading around shit just for the lolz.
tbh many users here have pm'd their faces to someone so it's easy to know if they are trucel or not once a good amount of ppl get to see it and becomes public.
thing is mods do jackshit about it like you said EVEN if literally anyone knows how a specific user looks and that's what makes this place one step closer to chad infested forums like lookism or looksmax.
But whatever, idc.

well what is the limit on someone's looks to be allowed here? Are 5s okay? 6s okay?

I think everyone should be sub7 personally. Once you get to 7 you basically can't be incel unless you have giga autism

 

[ItsOver4cel]

well what is the limit on someone's looks to be allowed here? Are 5s okay? 6s okay?

I think everyone should be sub7 personally. Once you get to 7 you basically can't be incel unless you have giga autism

There are cases and cases.
One might be 4 or 5, but also a turboautist and ethnic.
One might be a 6 or 7, but being below 5'5 is a death sentence (not sure for 7 but knajjd exists so)
One might be 6, but disabled, scarred, blah blah
without those exceptions from a technical standpoint 5s are borderline incel and even that is a maybe. anything above 6 just gtfo of this forum and go to looksmax tbh.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

One might be 6, but disabled, scarred, blah blah

I've been called a 6 in pics where my skin looks clear but I have acne scars and I don't have a social circle. So realistically I'm a 5 tbh.

And yeah above 6 gtfo tbh

 

[ItsOver4cel]

I've been called a 6 in pics where my skin looks clear but I have acne scars and I don't have a social circle. So realistically I'm a 5 tbh.

And yeah above 6 gtfo tbh

You live in the hypergamous shithole that is the USA so I believe u. Still you are one surgery away from ascending.

 

[Deleted member 17749]

OP is a married Chad which is why he’s complaining about the gatekeeping.