LDAR Why is it so easy to give up for the day?

[giribot]

I had 3 alarms go off for the gym in the morning, but after the third one and I was already awake, I just gave up and rolled over. I had plans to gym in the morning, eat some healthy breakfast, and study at the library but I just decided not to. It was just so easy to not do any of that. To give up my routine brings me so much peace. I'm just lying in bed, haven't showered, haven't ate... I just don't want to face the day even if the sunlight is coming through the blinds and hitting me in the fucking face.

FYI, I'm prescribed antidepressants but I just can't force myself to take them. It's useless. I have to take them with food, but if I can't get up for food, I won't take them. Lol. It's just an ongoing cycle of doing nothing. I might as well fail my classes. Why is it so easy for me to just give up as soon as I wake up? Does anyone else feel this way?

 

[OutcompetedByRoomba]

Because what you really want is out of reach and deep down you know it and you are forcing yourself to climb from a dogshit position through enormous effort into a still dogshit but slightly less so position and also you remember the last 500 times you tried and it didn't work and you no longer have any real hope it's all play pretend internally you aren't really in the state of "trying" you are in the "already have failed, pretending for now to delay painful realisation" mode.

 

[Friezacel]

Because you are deprived from having access to the oppisite gender and from socializing

 

[Nosecel_]

This is how I feel almost every day I have nothing to motivate me why should I get out of my bed when no one even cares

 

[Rotter]

don't give up brocel, rotting is good in short term but detrimental otherwise

 

[giribot]

Because what you really want is out of reach and deep down you know it and you are forcing yourself to climb from a dogshit position through enormous effort into a still dogshit but slightly less so position and also you remember the last 500 times you tried and it didn't work and you no longer have any real hope it's all play pretend internally you aren't really in the state of "trying" you are in the "already have failed, pretending for now to delay painful realisation" mode.

Fuck. You really described it bro

 

[giribot]

This is how I feel almost every day I have nothing to motivate me why should I get out of my bed when no one even cares

LDAR just feels so right

 

[GhostedPhantom]

you are forcing yourself to climb from a dogshit position through enormous effort into a still dogshit but slightly less so position

This is the crux of the issue indeed. We don't have a reason to go out of our way to do things when our only real endgoal is to rope or waste away.

Gymcelling is still a good cope if you don't have anything else to do. I feel much better after lifting some weights or doing one of my hobbies than I do after rotting here all day. However, if you're already studycelling and wageslaving, there's no energy left for self-improvement and hobbies, so rotting during your free time is inevitable.

 

[med-cel]

Because you are deprived from having access to the oppisite gender and from socializing

Crazy to me that psychiatrists treat incels with jew pills instead of addressing the root cause of the problem. Not to say that jew pills can't help, but they aren't a panacea.

 

[Nosecel_]

LDAR just feels so right

Being a beddwellercel is the best

 

[OutcompetedByRoomba]

Fuck. You really described it bro

What helps, I think, is finding something that you want, as in really want, not in an intellectual sense but the way you want a cheeseburger, in an overwhelming and instinctual way that does not have to be forced, and which you also can get, not someday, not 2 years from now, but in a month or a week or maybe even right now if you really wanted. Escorts are an example. You can try to force yourself to go moneymaxxing for "your own future", which you don't believe in, don't care about and which feels painful to even think about, or you can be motivated by real, available pussy you want to feel around your dick again. Willpower is a fucking meme, to the extent that it exists it is largely genetic and can't be forced into existence at will and to the extent that it does not, it really is just about having a carrot right in front of your face instead of an imaginary carrot "behind the mountain over there trust me it's gonna totally be worth it bro!"

 

[HOBO]

I gave up today also

 

[giribot]

Crazy to me that psychiatrists treat incels with jew pills instead of addressing the root cause of the problem. Not to say that jew pills can't help, but they aren't a panacea.

Facts, I hate taking my pills, just a bandaid for a giant crater

 

[Antifem Lord]

Because you are deprived from having access to the oppisite gender and from socializing

That part

 

[giribot]

This is the crux of the issue indeed. We don't have a reason to go out of our way to do things when our only real endgoal is to rope or waste away.

Gymcelling is still a good cope if you don't have anything else to do. I feel much better after lifting some weights or doing one of my hobbies than I do after rotting here all day. However, if you're already studycelling and wageslaving, there's no energy left for self-improvement and hobbies, so rotting during your free time is inevitable.

My only motivation is to lift some weights and feel strong for like the 2-4 hours and then it wears off, lol. Still a good cope