Ugliness in men often engenders pseudo compassion and faux selflessness towards women because it creates a situation in which the woman wants to accept the ugly man's assistance, but in doing so she also must also accept what he is saying in her defense, and therefore the legitimacy of compassion and selflessness. When she does, the ugly man hopes the woman might overlook his ugliness in this same spirit of kindness and he might then receive validation and sex. It is a tactic to induce guilt in the woman first and foremost, and when an ugly leftist beta cuck chastizes you, his words are actually meant for the ears of women and not for you. You see a similar phenomenon among very ugly people in a non-sexual context. You cannot despise them because it is socially unacceptable when they are being so nice, but it is an act, and in their gut everyone feels it.