Because it has the worst of both progressivism and cuckservativism. Leftists have corrupted academia, media, and tech to the point virtually every source of cope or news you encounter is tinged with progressive propaganda in some way. Meanwhile all the politicians with meaningful influence are conservative pull-yourself-up-by-the-bootstrap conservative types, both Democrats and Republicans. Hence i can not by weed to cope even though we had nigger obama in the white house for 8 years, nor can i afford health insurance without my parents help because of my preexisting condition. And of course these attitudes get exported across the world because of american imperialism
It is also hyper individualistic and provides no real social safety. Everything is commodified, including sex and intimacy. And it is this uniquely American obsession for 'big'ness and the flaunting of superficial success which has poisoned every facet of life, particularly the dating market, for our purposes. This obsession with "getting ahead" leads to the destruction of community and encourages the Chaddiest of the Chads to stomp over everyone else without concern.
I even work for the government technically, but i would love nothing more but to see this pitiful excuse of a "superpower" burnt to ash and rubble.