I hear many normies (mostly IT) saying that inceldom is a state of mind or that it is a toxic cult. For example:
But this is not the case:
Incel (as we all know) is short for the word for involuntary celibate, which means we do not have a say whether we are incels or not. There is never a point in your life you become an incel, you just realize that it is your life condition. Even if you don't want to call yourself an incel, like the many men that call themselves foreveralone or true force loneliness, if they were never able to actually have sex, they are by definition incels.
Someone who has never been able to have sex despite their best efforts saying they aren't incels because many people who call themselves incels have views they don't agree with is like like a poor person who lives on the streets saying he isn't homeless because that word is associated with people who have mental problems or drug problems. Being homeless is not something you get to identify as or not, it is a condition of life. This is exactly the case with inceldom.
Some people might wonder why people who realize they are incels think women are superficial and only care about looks. We do not claim women are superficial just because almost everyone who is happens to be ugly physically (which is true) from our experience, however this is a fact of biology that effects both genders.
Lets take a look at an example study: https://faculty.wcas.northwestern.edu/eli-finkel/documents/EastwickFinkel2008_JPSP.pdf
Use any other you want, they all confirm this the importance of looks.
The data shows that women care about looks more than anything, and care about it even more so than males do. However women self reported that it wasn't important, which means that women lied about what they were attracted to or didn't even know what they found attractive.
One more example study here: https://doi.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037/ebs0000162
This study shows that women not only care about a man's look more than men when it came to short term relationships or casual sex, but also in long term relationships.
There is also a halo effect where women percieve men who are more attractive having better personalities. https://www.gwern.net/docs/psychology/okcupid/weexperimentonhumanbeings.html
Another common idea people say is that attractiveness is just about getting your foot in the door, however this also not true.
Looking at this study: https://psycnet.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037/a0032432
It comes to the conclusion that "When people initially consider someone as a potential romantic partner, attractiveness is very important, and the association between attractiveness and romantic evaluations drops once the relationship has been formed. Yet as two people remain together in a relationship, the association of attractiveness with romantic evaluations slowly begins to increase again"
Essentially, looks matter to getting in a relationship and keeping it for a long time.
In conclusion, not only are looks the most important thing that women look for in a partner, but it is also very important in keeping a long term relationship.
Therefore it is beyond over for incels, there is no ascension possible for subhumans.
This has nothing to do with incels having toxic mindsets (which people in horrible situations like ours inevitably would) or being part of cult, it is accepting reality.
Some might cope by blaming women or society, but at the end of the day, it's our genetics that have failed us, and we are failed biological organisms in the context of evolution.
But this is not the case:
Incel (as we all know) is short for the word for involuntary celibate, which means we do not have a say whether we are incels or not. There is never a point in your life you become an incel, you just realize that it is your life condition. Even if you don't want to call yourself an incel, like the many men that call themselves foreveralone or true force loneliness, if they were never able to actually have sex, they are by definition incels.
Someone who has never been able to have sex despite their best efforts saying they aren't incels because many people who call themselves incels have views they don't agree with is like like a poor person who lives on the streets saying he isn't homeless because that word is associated with people who have mental problems or drug problems. Being homeless is not something you get to identify as or not, it is a condition of life. This is exactly the case with inceldom.
Some people might wonder why people who realize they are incels think women are superficial and only care about looks. We do not claim women are superficial just because almost everyone who is happens to be ugly physically (which is true) from our experience, however this is a fact of biology that effects both genders.
Lets take a look at an example study: https://faculty.wcas.northwestern.edu/eli-finkel/documents/EastwickFinkel2008_JPSP.pdf
Use any other you want, they all confirm this the importance of looks.
The data shows that women care about looks more than anything, and care about it even more so than males do. However women self reported that it wasn't important, which means that women lied about what they were attracted to or didn't even know what they found attractive.
One more example study here: https://doi.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037/ebs0000162
This study shows that women not only care about a man's look more than men when it came to short term relationships or casual sex, but also in long term relationships.
There is also a halo effect where women percieve men who are more attractive having better personalities. https://www.gwern.net/docs/psychology/okcupid/weexperimentonhumanbeings.html
Another common idea people say is that attractiveness is just about getting your foot in the door, however this also not true.
Looking at this study: https://psycnet.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037/a0032432
It comes to the conclusion that "When people initially consider someone as a potential romantic partner, attractiveness is very important, and the association between attractiveness and romantic evaluations drops once the relationship has been formed. Yet as two people remain together in a relationship, the association of attractiveness with romantic evaluations slowly begins to increase again"
Essentially, looks matter to getting in a relationship and keeping it for a long time.
In conclusion, not only are looks the most important thing that women look for in a partner, but it is also very important in keeping a long term relationship.
Therefore it is beyond over for incels, there is no ascension possible for subhumans.
This has nothing to do with incels having toxic mindsets (which people in horrible situations like ours inevitably would) or being part of cult, it is accepting reality.
Some might cope by blaming women or society, but at the end of the day, it's our genetics that have failed us, and we are failed biological organisms in the context of evolution.
