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I am the consequence of poor mate choice.

My mom, in her youth, was a top percentile female. If she was in her 20s right now in America, she would be an Instagram hoe making softcore porn and she’d have 1m+ followers. Very high SMV.

She is a walking dunning Kruger effects. 1st percentile IQ. Too dumb to realize her own dumbness.. thinks she knows shit but doesn’t know shit.

She thought she was noble/more evolved or whatever for NOT considering looks in her mate choice. She says she doesn’t go after height/looks/genetics because those things don’t last, you want someone who is going to be a good man, a good provider, a good husband, a good father, someone you can grow old with.

She let my ~5’6”, aneurotypical dad with Tourette’s impregnate her. That’s he mate choice. A short guy with a broken brain that carries a hereditary neurological social death sentence. And he stil wasn’t the great man she thought her was. She never loved him, only did mental gymnastics to convince herself she LIKED him. He is not a good man, not a good husband, not a good provider. None of those things. He beat/abused us for the entirety of the time he was in our lives. My dad was my enemy growing up. Living in a house with my enemy.

Point is, she made a mate choice on something FAKEABLE and largely inconsequential. I am the result of poor mate choice. Short, non NT, and I have Tourette’s. The butterfly effects of Tourette’s are unfathomable by those that don’t have it. Forget living a life. There is nothing to make up for it. Its a checkmate. Best case, you put in a monumental, inhuman effort to create a life for yourself that is preferable to death, and cope with immense pain until you finally die.

She did not take generics into account. She didn’t listen to her pussy/the tingles. She did what she thought was the right, noble, civilized, post-evolution thing to do, and I am paying the price for it. There is an almost certain chance I will die by suicide. This life has not been fun.. I’ve only suffered. I have not experienced joy. I have been denied the things that other have by default, by birthright.

So it’s hard to hate women for wanting hot tall guys. It sounds silly, but even with how negative IQ they are, they’re still great at mate choice.

A VIOLENT, ABUSIVE, DESPICABLE, PSYCHOPATHIC TALL HOT GUY IS AN EXCELLENT MATE CHOICE. HIS CHILDREN WILL SURVIVE. THEY WILL LIVE LIVES WORTH LIVING.

A KIND, CARING, COMPASSIONATE GUY WITH POOR GENES IS A TERRIBLE MATE CHOICE.

THE ONLY REAL VALUE IS WHATS UNCHANGEABLE AND HEREDITARY.

JUST BECAUSE WE’RE NO LONGER IN THE JUNGLE, DOESNR MEAN WOMENS MATE SELECTION PRACTICES ARE OUTDATED. GENERICS ARE STILL OF PARAMOUNT IMPORTANCE EVEN IN “MODERN, CIVILIZED SOCIETY”


I wish I could tell my mom this, but as I said, she is a dunning Kruger effect. It would be like speaking Chinese to a wall.

We are indeed terrible mate choices. It is not the way things should be, it is the way things are. We can think up any utopia or doctrine we please, but it is not compatible with our species.

Ricecels, think about how much you’ve suffered. Do you want an asian son to come and ask you why girls don’t like him? Why the asian girls like the tall white guys?

Manlets, do you want your sons being bullied, and not being able to fight back? Do you want to watch them miss out on their lives because their legs aren’t long enough?

These things your children will have to endure are not temporary inconveniences. They shape who you are. They are of paramount importance. Your sexual market value determines the quality of your life, and everything else in your life. Ricecels stay rice until death, manlets stay manlet until death, etc

It’s not even inceldom that bothers me anymore, it’s knowing that even if I found a way out, leg lengthening, hair transplant, whatever. I would never do something as cruel as creating a son only to have him suffer, and for me to relive my shitty youth through him.

Girls don’t have this problem. All they have to do is be impregnated by a tall hot guy and they won’t have any problems. The consequences of choosing a low SMV male as a mate are DIRE. If you became a girl right now, even if you retained your male brain, knowing everything you know, you would not go with your looksmatch, even if it meant you Would save him from suicide.. You would also want tall, handsome guys. It’s the intuitive AND logical mate choice. It’s a no brainer.
 
It wouldn't be so bad if the uglier women with physical defects or mental disorders still weren't picky as fuck and were happy with a man with similar looks and problems.
 
This is a catch 22. It's just important and selected, because it is important and often selected (whereas people on the other end of the spectrum are despised).

The evolutionary role it played is long gone.

Besides that there will always be incels, especially without looksmarxing.
 
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It wouldn't be so bad if the uglier women with physical defects or mental disorders still weren't picky as fuck and were happy with a man with similar looks and problems.
That’s the way things should be. But they’re not. If women were OK with looksmatch, that would be fine. Everybody gets a mate, everybody’s happy. Women are looking out for their kids’ sexual success. They know that even ugly girls don’t want ugly guys.

This entry is pretty interesting. Attractive features need not even serve any evolutionary advantage/offer increased survival success.. it could be as simple as a trait making pussies wet and nothing else.

 
Manifesto tier rant, bravo.
 
He beat/abused us for the entirety of the time he was in our lives
That might be the reason why she liked him, despite his looks. Foids are known to feel attracted to violent and psychopatic men. So she may have thought that she was above her primal instincts for not having a kid with a tall man or something but that's not the case at all, she did follow her primal instincts. She just wasn't aware of what she was doing because the fact that foids like those type of men is kept secret by cucks with an agenda.
 
That might be the reason why she liked him, despite his looks. Foids are known to feel attracted to violent and psychopatic men. So she may have thought that she was above her primal instincts for not having a kid with a tall man or something but that's not the case at all, she did follow her primal instincts. She just wasn't aware of what she was doing because the fact that foids like those type of men is kept secret by cucks with an agenda.
No. He’s not the type of abusive women like. He was only violent with his family because he felt weak and powerless in the real world among other men, and it shows.. He only beat us because he was stronger than us. Made him feel big and authoritative. He is not violent with other people, no matter how much he wants to be.. He can’t afford to.

Once I got bigger than him, suddenly the beatings stopped, and he has never put a finger on my younger siblings since. He knows I can and will kill him if he does.
 
No. He’s not the type of abusive women like. He was only violent with his family because he felt weak and powerless in the real world among other men, and it shows.. He only beat us because he was stronger than us. Made him feel big and authoritative. He is not violent with other people, no matter how much he wants to be.. He can’t afford to.

Once I got bigger than him, suddenly the beatings stopped, and he has never put a finger on my younger siblings since. He knows I can and will kill him if he does.
I'm sorry that you had these sort of experiences. It's strange that your mother picked him of all men considering what we know about hypergamy and such but I suppose the past really was an easier time for men, especially when it came to getting a wife. Foids must have had much lower standards back then.

And I agree with what you said on having sons as a genetically unfit man. I wouldn't like to have sons in this world, not just because I'm an ethnic manlet, but also because I'm just a very weak and anxious persion and they say that children inherit their character from their fathers so a son of mine would suffer the same kind of mental anguish that I have experienced through serveral stages of my life. I don't want that to happen.
There's lots of other reasons for why I don't want children but that's one of the main ones.
 
This is a catch 22. It's just important and selected, because it is important and often selected (whereas people on the other end of the spectrum are despised).

The evolutionary role it played is long gone.

Besides that there will always be incels, especially without looksmarxing.
Incels in the pre sexual revolution time were those with major genetic defects, disabled men or severe mentalcels. Nowadays, an incel is a sub 7.
 
I'm sorry that you had these sort of experiences. It's strange that your mother picked him of all men considering what we know about hypergamy and such but I suppose the past really was an easier time for men, especially when it came to getting a wife. Foids must have had much lower standards back then.

And I agree with what you said on having sons as a genetically unfit man. I wouldn't like to have sons in this world, not just because I'm an ethnic manlet, but also because I'm just a very weak and anxious persion and they say that children inherit their character from their fathers so a son of mine would suffer the same kind of mental anguish that I have experienced through serveral stages of my life. I don't want that to happen.
There's lots of other reasons for why I don't want children but that's one of the main ones.
They grew up in a traditional sort of third world back int he 70’s/80’s. Things were infact different there but not that much. It’s not like she isn’t human though. She still has the same desires as any other women to get a tall handsome high status strong man.

Idk if they could have anticipated what 21st century western eugenics would be like. But Tourette’s is a death sentence anywhere in any year.
 
By logical extension, that means subhuman foids should also avoid mating for the sake of their unborn children.
 
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Maybe he is not your dad. Make a blood test to see if your mom is virtue signaling.
 
I'll just leave this here
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I am the consequence of poor mate choice.

My mom, in her youth, was a top percentile female. If she was in her 20s right now in America, she would be an Instagram hoe making softcore porn and she’d have 1m+ followers. Very high SMV.

She is a walking dunning Kruger effects. 1st percentile IQ. Too dumb to realize her own dumbness.. thinks she knows shit but doesn’t know shit.

She thought she was noble/more evolved or whatever for NOT considering looks in her mate choice. She says she doesn’t go after height/looks/genetics because those things don’t last, you want someone who is going to be a good man, a good provider, a good husband, a good father, someone you can grow old with.

She let my ~5’6”, aneurotypical dad with Tourette’s impregnate her. That’s he mate choice. A short guy with a broken brain that carries a hereditary neurological social death sentence. And he stil wasn’t the great man she thought her was. She never loved him, only did mental gymnastics to convince herself she LIKED him. He is not a good man, not a good husband, not a good provider. None of those things. He beat/abused us for the entirety of the time he was in our lives. My dad was my enemy growing up. Living in a house with my enemy.

Point is, she made a mate choice on something FAKEABLE and largely inconsequential. I am the result of poor mate choice. Short, non NT, and I have Tourette’s. The butterfly effects of Tourette’s are unfathomable by those that don’t have it. Forget living a life. There is nothing to make up for it. Its a checkmate. Best case, you put in a monumental, inhuman effort to create a life for yourself that is preferable to death, and cope with immense pain until you finally die.

She did not take generics into account. She didn’t listen to her pussy/the tingles. She did what she thought was the right, noble, civilized, post-evolution thing to do, and I am paying the price for it. There is an almost certain chance I will die by suicide. This life has not been fun.. I’ve only suffered. I have not experienced joy. I have been denied the things that other have by default, by birthright.

So it’s hard to hate women for wanting hot tall guys. It sounds silly, but even with how negative IQ they are, they’re still great at mate choice.

A VIOLENT, ABUSIVE, DESPICABLE, PSYCHOPATHIC TALL HOT GUY IS AN EXCELLENT MATE CHOICE. HIS CHILDREN WILL SURVIVE. THEY WILL LIVE LIVES WORTH LIVING.

A KIND, CARING, COMPASSIONATE GUY WITH POOR GENES IS A TERRIBLE MATE CHOICE.

THE ONLY REAL VALUE IS WHATS UNCHANGEABLE AND HEREDITARY.

JUST BECAUSE WE’RE NO LONGER IN THE JUNGLE, DOESNR MEAN WOMENS MATE SELECTION PRACTICES ARE OUTDATED. GENERICS ARE STILL OF PARAMOUNT IMPORTANCE EVEN IN “MODERN, CIVILIZED SOCIETY”


I wish I could tell my mom this, but as I said, she is a dunning Kruger effect. It would be like speaking Chinese to a wall.

We are indeed terrible mate choices. It is not the way things should be, it is the way things are. We can think up any utopia or doctrine we please, but it is not compatible with our species.

Ricecels, think about how much you’ve suffered. Do you want an asian son to come and ask you why girls don’t like him? Why the asian girls like the tall white guys?

Manlets, do you want your sons being bullied, and not being able to fight back? Do you want to watch them miss out on their lives because their legs aren’t long enough?

These things your children will have to endure are not temporary inconveniences. They shape who you are. They are of paramount importance. Your sexual market value determines the quality of your life, and everything else in your life. Ricecels stay rice until death, manlets stay manlet until death, etc

It’s not even inceldom that bothers me anymore, it’s knowing that even if I found a way out, leg lengthening, hair transplant, whatever. I would never do something as cruel as creating a son only to have him suffer, and for me to relive my shitty youth through him.

Girls don’t have this problem. All they have to do is be impregnated by a tall hot guy and they won’t have any problems. The consequences of choosing a low SMV male as a mate are DIRE. If you became a girl right now, even if you retained your male brain, knowing everything you know, you would not go with your looksmatch, even if it meant you Would save him from suicide.. You would also want tall, handsome guys. It’s the intuitive AND logical mate choice. It’s a no brainer.

you're in too deep. go take some fuckin Benadryl and lay down.
 
My dad is tall and was in the armed forces. You don't get more physically fit than that. Me: Incel. The child making process is a gamble. Good genes just give a higher chance of success. I just happened to end up with a fucked up combination. While my sisters enjoy partners and decent lives.
 
I'm sick of how we're treated like shit for something we had no say over, bad genetics leading to flawed physicality, mental disorders.

None of us asked to be short or balding, weak chin, autism, anxiety etc...

A fair & just world would have legal euthanasia, treat ppl based on merit rather than looks/money, let us ldar on the government dime in a colony not unlike lepers full of copes or hell even have a battle royale/hunger games scenario where the survivors are the worthy.
Not this two faced hypocritical bullshit society.
 
A VIOLENT, ABUSIVE, DESPICABLE, PSYCHOPATHIC TALL HOT GUY IS AN EXCELLENT MATE CHOICE. HIS CHILDREN WILL SURVIVE. THEY WILL LIVE LIVES WORTH LIVING.
No. They are shit fathers, your life will suck under them. And if your mom goes the single mother route instead you will either lack a male role model or run into tons of shitty men from her cock carousel.

Foids dating douchebags is incredibly disrespectful towards their potential children. It's where you get all the familial abuse and pedophile rape stories from.

The best environment is under a well-behaved Chad. No thugmaxx shit. No gutter trash.
 
So us unnattractive fucks should just cope until we have the balls to rope? Fuck this gay earth and pass the weed
 
nigger wtf? you are lieterally supportin hypergamy. if nations went back to fearin Allah or your version of god then there would be less broken families and societies. men married looksmatches back then. men did beat there wives but they deserved it. if a father was bein a cunt to his children the community would straighten him up. foids would virtually never cheat bc of consquences.

you are blamin the symptoms of a godless society. stop bein a faggot and submit to Islam.
 

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