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Why I think "dating down" wasn't such a bad thing for men historically, even 30 years ago.

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Because the bottom 30% of women weren't obese, historically. Plain average men were content with a somewhat facially challenged foid because she had a decent/slim enough body.

Most men who are 4's 5's (but not fat) don't want to date down today because all 3's and below are obese women. (some will obviously settle with obese foid, some will do it a few times or once and regret it, but most will never do it)

This is also why roughly 30% of men aged 21-34 where reported INCEL recently, that exactly correlates closely to female obesity levels in the United states (at around 32% in most states).
 
I think it's far more complicated than that, since there's almost equal number of obese males.
Most men who are 4's 5's (but not fat) don't want to date down today because all 3's and below are obese women.
Well, that's just not true due to juggernaut law. Obese women get even more attention than average women.
 
quite true, factor promiscuity into it as well, men that are young and fit and non-promiscuous basically can only lose, they can't use any of those things as leverage

too many fat women also means you end up fist fighting 7 foot tall men if you try talking to an average looking woman
 
quite true, factor promiscuity into it as well, men that are young and fit and non-promiscuous basically can only lose, they can't use any of those things as leverage

too many fat women also means you end up fist fighting 7 foot tall men if you try talking to an average looking woman
Average woman is fat in 2019. Just not being overweight (bmi over 25) puts female in the top 30%, at least in the US.
 
I think it's far more complicated than that, since there's almost equal number of obese males.

Well, that's just not true due to juggernaut law. Obese women get even more attention than average women.


But the 'bottom' 30% of men to foids isn't just obese men, but short men, bald men, puny framed, men with asymmetry and low status etc.

Historically such men could get healthy weight foid be she too would be assymetrical facially, ugly face, somehwat mannish. But her healthy weight body shape meant he was attracted to her sexually. Very few women have no curves.

Today any man with a big flaw is pushed to date some 250lbs slob and told off if he aims for a butterface slim foid etc.
 
Average woman is fat in 2019. Just not being overweight (bmi over 25) puts female in the top 30%, at least in the US.
basically no one gives a flying fuck that you are young and fit, they want you to "use your hands and mouth" on an obese old female's flaps
 
basically no one gives a flying fuck that you are young and fit, they want you to "use your hands and mouth" on an obese old female's flaps
True. And even females who are old and ugly can leave you whenever they want and treat you like trash due to their infinite SMV.
 
basically no one gives a flying fuck that you are young and fit, they want you to "use your hands and mouth" on an obese old female's flaps

Can we not talk about present. Yes it is true for present day that a young fit man thats short, weak jawed or balding etc is told at best he deserves a morbid blob that doesn't resemble the female form in anyway.

but historically it wasn't like this.
 
Can we not talk about present. Yes it is true for present day that a young fit man thats short, weak jawed or balding etc is told at best he deserves a morbid blob that doesn't resemble the female form in anyway.

but historically it wasn't like this.
yes, it used to be different, I know, you just have to look at old movies of city streets to see it, not exactly controversial
 
yes, it used to be different, I know, you just have to look at old movies of city streets to see it, not exactly controversial

It was heaven back then for sub 6/7 men.

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It was heaven back then for sub 6/7 men.

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Lisa+&+Roger+Prom.jpg
it was racist and sexist, brah, women needed to be liberated from that hellish time, a time which, by the way, "arguably never existed" if our judeo-christian friends are to be believed...
 
it was racist and sexist, brah, women needed to be liberated from that hellish time, a time which, by the way, "arguably never existed" if our judeo-christian friends are to be believed...


Yes. Keeping and maintaining a healthy body for men (and for yourself, your social mobility etc): OPPRESSION.

:feelskek::feelsgah::feelsgah::feelsgah::feelsgah::feelsgah::no:
 
People forget how many fat women have hot faces underneath. Makeup also wasnt as prominent back then, and it was much easier to get your looksmatch
 
I believe this too. I would very gladly take a 2/10 girl in looks if she was skinny. The problem is where I live probably 70% or more of women are at minimum overweight.

All these land whales I don't even get turned on at all by them. And even the 'average' women who are 'just' 40-60 lbs overweight honestly are not attractive.

The average woman in America is 5'4 and 170 lbs. I estimate a 5'4 woman should be 115 lbs. So 55 lbs overweight is the 'average' woman.
 
Fat women just keep making me hate them more.
 
3-4/10 but has a slim body is very attractive srs
 

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