I can sympathize with where you’re coming from. I do think whether consciously or unconsciously women have a heavy negative reaction to the concept less so because of the experience itself and more because it’s a threat to their power if men can just take sex (eg women dangle the carrot of sex in exchange for things and they like being the choosers very much and they really *really* hate and are disgusted by low status ugly men).
I’m no hypocrite on this. Suppose I’m offered this choice:
1) Live life never getting sex despite trying hard
2) Live life like the average woman does reversed where you are able to get sex with Stacie or Stacie light whenever you want by hopping on a dating app for a few minutes — but the catch is I get raped/am forced to have sex with women I don’t really want to every now and again.
I honestly don’t believe anybody would choose option 1, not even women. Oh they’ll claim publicly that they’d choose option 1 but anybody really lived that knows how horrible it is to face constant rejection over and over and over again. It just destroys you as a person. Women do not understand that because it’s not their lived experience even though they often seem to believe it is — it’s just not comparable. Not being able to get Chad Longschlong to commit where 80% of men are invisible and aren’t even on the table as options you’d consider is about an entire world removed from what the average man experiences.
The final thing I’ll add is when men rape other men anally that is a lot way way worse than vaginal rape given the vagina is meant to be penetrated. I’m not claiming it wouldn’t be unpleasant or painful for women but unless you get AIDS or something (which would indeed really really suck well beyond and in excess the actual rape experience) it’s not the end of the world seems to me. So you had sex with someone ugly, oh no
If violent battery where the woman is beaten within an inch of their life happens or if the transmission of disease occurs then we’re in another ballpark of course, I want to make that clear, but those things are by no means the norm despite how women usually present. Honestly what do women expect would happen when society shifts such that the vast majority of young men are unable to get sex or a partner? Take that away and men have no incentive to help you. Before men cared about rape because they all had wives and daughters to protect.
“Men aren’t entitled to sex inkwell”
Well women aren’t entitled to men’s protection or resources/taxes. Here in reality we know that you must provide something to receive something and women provide absolutely nothing to most men.
