LDAR Why don't normies understand that confidence comes from outside and not within?

[AutistSupremacist]

Among the most idiotic and repeated things I've heard from normies is "You have to loke yourself first" but to that I say, where does somebody get the positive affirmation to be confident? The same applies to being beautiful. Simply telling myself that I am good looking doesn't change anything as such a view is not shown back by the other people in the community.

Tldr
Pointless telling people they are good looking or when such a view is clearly not shared by the majority of the community

 

[Animecel2D]

I can be as confident as I want, still wont change the fact I will be treated as a leper by the outside world

 

[KinkyKanga]

I can be as confident as I want, still wont change the fact I will be treated as a leper by the outside world

Yep, true.

 

[SilverBullet]

How are you supposed to have any self esteem when you’re constantly ridiculed by normfags and foids? Just be confident is obvious cope

 

[Todd Thundercock]

Gaslighting. It's all so tiring.

 

[Lazyandtalentless]

Gaslighting. It's all so tiring.

 

[Izayacel]

Gaslighting. It's all so tiring.

 

[somalikingcel]

Ur a product of your environment. If you’ve been constantly ridiculed and demeaned in your formative years you will have a Low self esteem and be less assertive.

However if life has laid a golden brick path for you , then you’ll surely be confident and outspoken

 

[Abacaxi14]

Because copers will cope.