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Why Don't Girls Like Nice Guys?

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By a nice guy I mean a legitimately nice guy and overall gentleman that will treat her well, care about her, and respect her. You never hear women fantasizing about a guy like that. Instead they fantasize about the 50 Shades of Gray relationship dynamic. I don't get it? As a guy, I want a genuinely good girl, whose nice and cares about me, and respects me, but it seems like girls don't want the same in a guy. What gives?
 
If a girl cant love herself enough not to be a whore, then how is she going to love a guy who treats her well.
 
Because their minds are still stuck in 25,000BC where they want a tall, strong jawed, razor sharp chinned, broad Chad to dominate them so that they can be submissive. They will choose a tribalistic Stone Age ooga booga Chad who wears furs and eats raw meat and bone over the intelligent, kind and caring modern man who will treat her like a princess.
 
Like @wereqryan said, "real men" have higher T levels. I notice that a lot of nice guys are more effeminate and probably have more estrogen. Girls think nice guys are cucks who won't be able to "defend" them.

Also, when girls say they want nice guys they're talking about a nice Chad.
 
By a nice guy I mean a legitimately nice guy and overall gentleman that will treat her well, care about her, and respect her. You never hear women fantasizing about a guy like that. Instead they fantasize about the 50 Shades of Gray relationship dynamic. I don't get it? As a guy, I want a genuinely good girl, whose nice and cares about me, and respects me, but it seems like girls don't want the same in a guy. What gives?

Most of human sexual instincts were evolved when our ancestors lived in hunter gather societies. Being nice would have had little advantage back then as compared to being strong, tall, low inhib, etc. Females are still running this program, although it has outlived its usefulness. Thats why you often see stupid holes often get abused ( :feelskek: :feelskek:) by their tall strong giga chad boyfriends.
 
I was expecting a copypasta of that one cringe ass song
Why do good girls like baaaaaaaad guys?!?
 
Girls like nice Chads, they like bad boy Chads, they like nerdy Chads, they like athletic Chads, they like introverted Chads, they like loud Chads

You get the point...
 
Not an advantage to have a pussy lead your family, you need someone who is "family centric" and strong. DT fits perfectly
 
Yes this. High T neanderthal caveman warrior Chad >>>> gentleman. Women don't want their men to be gentle.

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That is what women want: the Neanderthalic looking, square jawed, fur wearing, stone bashing, hulking, illiterate, violent Chad who can physically dominate a foid.
 
The guys who have to be nice are ugly.

They've been fed lies by people like IT who insist foids are into confident, kind, sweet :soy: men.
As a result foids now attribute niceguys as being ugly.
 
They do, but only if they're chads.
 
because sex is a physical thing.it's quite simple.if you love someones personality,you will let the person speak and ask her questions and help the person through speech(for this is the main way of communicating).Body language can be used for communication but it's an awful tool and most of us recognize that(we don't spend our time making hand signs like we are deaf).Only in very specific situations would you use body language to communicate a message.Now,sex is not about communication but an complete enjoyment of the other person body.Sex is not an intellectual feat for it does not communicate anything.sex has nothing to do with personality.
 
Greycel LARP. Hello, CuckTears
 
1. They do, in conjuction with other qualities, physical and non-physical.

2. You probably overestimate how much of a good person you are.
 
Girls like nice Chads, they like bad boy Chads, they like nerdy Chads, they like athletic Chads, they like introverted Chads, they like loud Chads

You get the point...
 
If the guy is truly nice, he won't be high T and warrior like in appearance which is sexually dimorphic and attractive. High T makes you prone to aggression, violence, recklessness and being an asshole in general.
This. There's tons of studies out there to back this up.
 
Because their minds are still stuck in 25,000BC where they want a tall, strong jawed, razor sharp chinned, broad Chad to dominate them so that they can be submissive. They will choose a tribalistic Stone Age ooga booga Chad who wears furs and eats raw meat and bone over the intelligent, kind and caring modern man who will treat her like a princess.
 
By a nice guy I mean a legitimately nice guy and overall gentleman that will treat her well, care about her, and respect her. You never hear women fantasizing about a guy like that. Instead they fantasize about the 50 Shades of Gray relationship dynamic. I don't get it? As a guy, I want a genuinely good girl, whose nice and cares about me, and respects me, but it seems like girls don't want the same in a guy. What gives?
Girls want a nice guy, they just want that nice guy to be Chad. :feelsYall:
 
If the guy is truly nice, he won't be high T and warrior like in appearance which is sexually dimorphic and attractive. High T makes you prone to aggression, violence, recklessness and being an asshole in general.
 
hard question to answer honestly.
i feel like a lot of has to do with todays generation, social media and such. it has changed everything, especially people. girls are shown at a young age the internet, exposing them to tiktok fags, unrealistic celebs, hedonistic selfish arrogant females on the web. the appeal of E-girls, cam-girls. they are all manipulated at a young age, 12-14+ that this is the ideal lifestyle they should aim for, this is the ideal man they should aim for. resulting in people like you, me and everyone on this forum to isolate ourselves from society because such a large majority of people our age have got their heads up their asses. maybe i went to far but im pretty sure you get it.
 
Asking the wrong forum, buddy boyo
 
Evolution is what gives buddyboyo. Women's brains are exactly like they were when humanity was beating each other over the head with rocks.
 
Dark triad is definitely a thing, but the impact is relatively small

Bluepilled 8/10 chad will still slay way more than a dark triad maxxed 6/10 High tier normie
 
Because their minds are still stuck in 25,000BC where they want a tall, strong jawed, razor sharp chinned, broad Chad to dominate them so that they can be submissive.
Foids are fucking troglodites
Evolution is what gives buddyboyo. Women's brains are exactly like they were when humanity was beating each other over the head with rocks.
Again: they never evolved but we did. Why. LoL
 
By a nice guy I mean a legitimately nice guy and overall gentleman that will treat her well, care about her, and respect her. You never hear women fantasizing about a guy like that. Instead they fantasize about the 50 Shades of Gray relationship dynamic. I don't get it? As a guy, I want a genuinely good girl, whose nice and cares about me, and respects me, but it seems like girls don't want the same in a guy. What gives?

Because it doesn't exude power. Nikolas Cruz and James Holmes killed people but still received fan mail and nudes from random females.
 
Because they prefer dark traid men
 
Foids go for the rough guy no the nice
 
If the guy is truly nice, he won't be high T and warrior like in appearance which is sexually dimorphic and attractive. High T makes you prone to aggression, violence, recklessness and being an asshole in general.
Like @wereqryan said, "real men" have higher T levels. I notice that a lot of nice guys are more effeminate and probably have more estrogen. Girls think nice guys are cucks who won't be able to "defend" them.

Also, when girls say they want nice guys they're talking about a nice Chad.
Yes this. High T neanderthal caveman warrior Chad >>>> gentleman. Women don't want their men to be gentle.

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These are your answers, OP. Nice guys and good guys are seen as weak pussies. She needs that high T aggressive male, because he will protect her and her children.
 
Girls like nice Chads, they like bad boy Chads, they like nerdy Chads, they like athletic Chads, they like introverted Chads, they like loud Chads

You get the point...

Well, if you took two Chads who were twins, identical in looks in every way, but with opposed personalities, she'd pick the one with the bad personality.
 
Be a kind guy, not a nice guy
 
They do, as long as he meets the three 6 requirements. 6ft, 6/10, 6 figures. Only then is he eligible to subsidize her lifestyle.
 
girls like nice chads
Well, if you took two Chads who were twins, identical in looks in every way, but with opposed personalities, she'd pick the one with the bad personality.
cope
 
The guys who have to be nice are ugly.

They've been fed lies by people like IT who insist foids are into confident, kind, sweet :soy: men.
As a result foids now attribute niceguys as being ugly.
 
i have heard lots of chicks fantasize about the "nice" guy, i just dont beleive them. i think saying they want a nice guy is part of the strategy to attract a 50 shades chad
 
If you're nice to women they immediately perceive you as beneath them. They'll still settle for a soyboy Chad regardless
 
They do, but only if they are attractive.
 
Nice guys dont make their vagina tingle
 
Its called mate guarding. Greater the mate guarding potential (measured in terms of biomarkers of perceived fighting success such as height, frame, jaw, etc), greater the sexual dimorphism and attractiveness.

Cope. Nice Chads slay a lot too.
 
By a nice guy I mean a legitimately nice guy and overall gentleman that will treat her well, care about her, and respect her. You never hear women fantasizing about a guy like that. Instead they fantasize about the 50 Shades of Gray relationship dynamic. I don't get it? As a guy, I want a genuinely good girl, whose nice and cares about me, and respects me, but it seems like girls don't want the same in a guy. What gives?
Just because I’m a feminine boy does not mean I won’t beat the shit out of chad for disrespecting me. I would fight a 6 ft 4 bodybuilder chad if it mean preserving my honor.
 
Even if the nice guy is normie looking not incel, hole will still not like him because holes, when are fertile, prefer aggressive, violent and narcissistic men(chad mostly obviously) because they show signal of high T and masculinity which fertile holes like.
 
Just because I’m a feminine boy does not mean I won’t beat the shit out of chad for disrespecting me. I would fight a 6 ft 4 bodybuilder chad if it mean preserving my honor.

You would get beat up by the 6'4 Chad though. Then she'll be disgusted by you.
 

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