The elephant in the room is that women do not like men that much.
That's why women find the majority of men unattractive.
That's why feminism/misandry is so popular.
That's why women have a list of a million different icks.
That's why women have a very strong in-group bias.
That's why women initiate the majority of breakups/divorces.
That's why in relationships, the man is almost always the more attached party.
That's why men are far more likely to experience depression and suicidal ideation after a breakup or divorce.
>"no ur wrong cuz women liek Chad!"
Yes yes, we all know women like very attractive men. But think of it this way. If you're only willing to eat your favorite meal at a 5 star restaurant, and only if it's cooked the right way otherwise you dont want to eat anything...then you're just not hungry. Meanwhile men are HUNGRY. We're like a bunch of homeless dudes fighting over a half eaten burger from the dumpster.
I'd go as far as to say men are more attracted to sub3 women than women are attracted to 8+/10 men. I did a lot of dating website experiments and everything I've seen confirms exactly that. Obviously I got lots of messages when I used a pic of a pretty boy, but when I made a female account using a picture of an obese middle aged woman and put down that I was a single mom, I not only got MORE messages than the pretty boy, but the guys who messaged wrote longer messages, replied faster, and grew attached instantly. Me replying to them (with the obese middle aged single mom account) was like winning the lottery to them.