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Serious Why do so many incels torture themselves?

Robo Sapien

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I know that life sucks and it's difficult. I'm not making this thread to minimize anyone's experience, but why do you guys keep torturing yourself? I see constant threads about being angry about seeing stuff. I keep thinking to myself, why does this person keep doing shit they hate? I guess can't relate because most of my life I spent organizing it to avoid the shit I hate.
 
Nothing better to do with their lives ?
 
You must be new.

This is like asking a starving person why they are angry about not having food.
 
I dont know man maybe because reality doesnt stop...

you can only delude yourself for so long...
 
I don't know.

Eventually I learned that it isn't useful. Raging at the world, my memories, and other people to change is not only useless, it's counterproductive and damaging to the individual that harbors the anger.
 
If you're a normie , ask Eminem how hurting yourself makes you feel better.
 
You must be new.

This is like asking a starving person why they are angry about not having food.
Not even close. I'm asking a person with a full pantry why they continue to buy Oreo cookies if they fucking hate them? Why not just not buy them?
 
I don't know.

Eventually I learned that it isn't useful. Raging at the world, my memories, and other people to change is not only useless, it's counterproductive and damaging to the individual that harbors the anger.
Not if they get away with it.
 
It works like this, you live which reminds you what a disgusting subhuman pathetic creature you are and it gives you anger and stress. Either this gonna result in violance and self harm or you are going to empty it by writing or doing other incel hobbies.
 
what are you even talking about?
I'm saying if people are kissing at a park you like going to, go to another park where people aren't kissing. If you hate seeing families and kids when you go grocery shopping, why not shop at night? If thots keep coming to your gym, why not go to another one?

Why keep doing the same shit that makes you hate yourself?
 
I'm saying if people are kissing at a park you like going to, to go to another park where people aren't kissing. If you had seeing families and kids when you go grocery shopping, why not shop at night? If thots keep coming to your gym, why not go to another one?

Why keep doing the same shit that makes you hate yourself?
is this a joke? this shit happens everywhere, that is the state of society. it’s not like there are “kissing parks” and “no-kissing parks”. you walk around, going about your business, and you see public displays of affection. what should one do, just “why not just never leave your house”? just living is enough to make an incel feel like shit.
 
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It works like this, you live which reminds you what a disgusting subhuman pathetic creature you are and it gives you anger and stress. Either this gonna result in violance and self harm or you are going to empty it by writing or doing other incel hobbies.
After awhile you move on. Honestly the only thing that pisses me off is to have to pay taxes for whores and their mistakes.
 
cant quite make it whether this is the lowest iq thread of all time or most hihg iq
 
is this a joke? this shit happens everywhere, that is the state of society. it’s not like there are “kissing parks” and “no-kissing parks”. you walk around, going about your business, and you see public displays of affection. what should one do, just “why not just never leave your house”?

For example, I go to a forest preserve. Hardly anyone shows up there. I shop for clothes during the work week, and I grocery shop at night. You can't get rid of all these things, but can't we at least agree that we can minimize it?
 
angry about seeing stuff
Anger is not necessarily a negative emotion- I feel good (as in substance abuse kind of good) when I'm angry and envious of others.
 
Humans do stupid shit that's why
 
Let me tell you.
Feminism is a toxic mixture thats been a century in the making.
It is very complex thats why you have to break it down.
Incels are on the map, all that is needed is one little nudge to change the national dialogue.
But things take time you know.
Time be the final judge.
 
Let me tell you.
Feminism is a toxic mixture thats been a century in the making.
It is very complex thats why you have to break it down.
Incels are on the map, all that is needed is one little nudge to change the national dialogue.
But things take time you know.
Time be the final judge.

You can't stop feminism, nor will it be stopped. It's too entrenched in the Halls of power. However, you can regulate your life to make sure as few whores exist in it as possible. We still have the right to freedom of association, life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.


Why bother yourself with things that just make you miserable and that you have no control over?
 
Even though we all deny it, deep inside we all love the pain..
 
Even though we all deny it, deep inside we all love the pain..
And this was the point I'm trying to make. A lot of guys like feeling pain. They don't want to fix their lives. They like feeling miserable.
 
I get it anon, but you aren't changing shit without a coup or collapse. Either way the only thing you can do now is protect you against whores.
 
> They don't want to fix their lives
Cucc
 
You can't turn off obsession.
You can't turn off obsession.
You can't turn off obsession.




YOU CAN'T TURN OFF OBSESSION
 
Because I'm blackpilled and I know it's over.
 
Not even close. I'm asking a person with a full pantry why they continue to buy Oreo cookies if they fucking hate them? Why not just not buy them?
Kek. An incels pantry is empty. They buy oreo cookies because they cant afford real food.
 
Can't avoid public
 
I know that life sucks and it's difficult. I'm not making this thread to minimize anyone's experience, but why do you guys keep torturing yourself? I see constant threads about being angry about seeing stuff. I keep thinking to myself, why does this person keep doing shit they hate? I guess can't relate because most of my life I spent organizing it to avoid the shit I hate.
Very low self esteem makes me subconsciously want to experience the shame in a fucked up way. My brain wants the subhuman reminder once in a while, cant turn it off either
 
I'm trying to build up my sui fuel so one day i can finally rope.
 
I dont know man maybe because reality doesnt stop...

you can only delude yourself for so long...
Not everyone can stay home all day.
is this a joke? this shit happens everywhere, that is the state of society. it’s not like there are “kissing parks” and “no-kissing parks”. you walk around, going about your business, and you see public displays of affection. what should one do, just “why not just never leave your house”? just living is enough to make an incel feel like shit.
 
I don't need to, the world does it for me.
 
Just don't see/hear/think theory.
 
I know that life sucks and it's difficult. I'm not making this thread to minimize anyone's experience, but why do you guys keep torturing yourself? I see constant threads about being angry about seeing stuff. I keep thinking to myself, why does this person keep doing shit they hate? I guess can't relate because most of my life I spent organizing it to avoid the shit I hate.
The problem is that you can't shut off things like seeing happy couples, femoids, normies or chads in public. Everytime you go out you are reminded and confronted of how low value you are as an incel.
 
It's all because of hope that our condition is not terminal. It is of course, but no scientific test can prove it, so you hang to that possibility you might be normal deep inside.
 
same reason people cut themselves. it takes our mind off from the unsolvable problems. such as the hole that we are in which our looks and in general inferior genes put us in. I mean fuck, why are you here? if you can cultivate that mindset "who cares" and move on with your life, there is literally no reason to be here, everything is fine for you. even there are hardships, hey there's no reason to torture myself over it so move on right?
 
The problem is that you can't shut off things like seeing happy couples, femoids, normies or chads in public. Everytime you go out you are reminded and confronted of how low value you are as an incel.

Can't you minimize this though? I mean some guys are getting it in this thread and others aren't. You can do shit so that you can avoid 90% of the things that bring you pain. The other 10% I would agree is unavoidable.
Not everyone can stay home all day.

I don't stay home either. I have a job. I work. I have a mortgage to pay, and property taxes that go to whores and their children. The point is, for the past 5 years I've either worked at night or from home. I shop at night when I'm off or during the week when everyone is at work. I jog in the forest. I mean dude, it's a lot of shit you can do to avoid unnecessary rage.
Very low self esteem makes me subconsciously want to experience the shame in a fucked up way. My brain wants the subhuman reminder once in a while, cant turn it off either

Yep, a lot of guys like torturing themselves. That's the point in my thread. You don't have to torture yourself. You can accept your subhumanity and move on. Accepting something doesn't mean you have to like it. It just means you understand the truth.
 
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It is a coping mechanism
 
Can't you minimize this though? I mean some guys are getting it in this thread and others aren't. You can do shit so that you can avoid 90% of the things that bring you pain. The other 10% I would agree is unavoidable.


I don't stay home either. I have a job. I work. I have a mortgage to pay, and property taxes that go to whores and their children. The point is, for the past 5 years I've either worked at night or from home. I shop at night when I'm off or during the week when everyone is at work. I jog in the forest. I mean dude, it's a lot of shit you can do to avoid unnecessary rage.
Just avoid families and children bro! Go grocery shopping at 2AM when you have to get up for work at 6! Quit going to the gym closest to you and go to another one just like it, of course it won't have the same kinds of customers! Just quit watching every movie and TV show in existence! And just don't look at the family photos your co-workers have put all over their desks!

Can someone please ban this fool? He's just trolling at this point.
 
Accepting something doesn't mean you have to like it. It just means you understand the truth.
Understanding the truth - is admitting that things are the way they are and can't, mostly, if we talk about looks, be changed.
Are you angry, depressed or something, knowing the truth, or not so much, is another question, so accepting =/= understanding.
 
Just avoid families and children bro! Go grocery shopping at 2AM when you have to get up for work at 6! Quit going to the gym closest to you and go to another one just like it, of course it won't have the same kinds of customers! Just quit watching every movie and TV show in existence! And just don't look at the family photos your co-workers have put all over their desks!

Can someone please ban this fool? He's just trolling at this point.

You can't get a different job? There aren't multiple gyms near your fucking house? If you're a locationcel I get it. But no fucking metropolitancel should be griping about shit when most shit is open 24 hours, and there are several options to avoid shit. If you're not a locationcel then you're a masochist that likes fucking torture. And for the record, what the fuck is there to watch on tv exactly? It's all fucking femoidist bullshit and gay propaganda. If you still watch regular tv you're fucking cucked.
 
Understanding the truth - is admitting that things are the way they are and can't, mostly, if we talk about looks, be changed.
Are you angry, depressed or something, knowing the truth, or not so much, is another question, so accepting =/= understanding.

I'm not angry about anything. I just accept it. Once you know the truth, what else can you do other than accept it and work around it?

Proudincelstani aren't you a teenager dude? I'm still questioning exactly why you're own this website if you are.
 
Once you know the truth, what else can you do other than accept it and work around it?
What else can you do knowing the truth? Remain depressed because of it, obviously. Accepting is harder, you must not have any emotional impact at that point, only raw logical ways.
 

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