Blackpill Why do Incels assume that woman are equally keen to be in a relationship as men?

[jet112]

woman avoid relationships like fire

 

[Weightcel]

Cope. Women find relationships preferable but most can't get one with who they actually want (Chad).

 

[BlackPillUNC]

Cope. Women find relationships preferable but most can't get one with who they actually want (Chad).

This seems true to me.

 

[StormlitAqua]

Cope. Women find relationships preferable but most can't get one with who they actually want (Chad).

Wrong. OP is right. Women prefer to share the top men then enter a relationship with a middle-of-the-road man.

 

[Weightcel]

Wrong. OP is right. Women prefer to share the top men then enter a relationship with a middle-of-the-road man.

Bluepilled.

 

[Hunter]

they only desire relationships for chad. they only have relationships with normies to settle. its kind of like going to macdonalds only to find out they are serving breakfast meals at current time so they go for a breakfast meal since its the best they can do at the time.

 

[EthnicelNL]

You are all coping.

Men in the west have absolutely no say anymore in the reason for the relationship. The femoid decides everything...you wanna claim her or argue? She will be sucking Chads cock that same night to "get her mind clear from all the issues you're causing" BE CHAD OR BE CUCKED BOYOS ITS FUCKING OVER

 

[StormlitAqua]

Bluepilled.

Top 20% theory is one of the pillars of the blackpill mate.

 

[Robo Sapien]

Women need men for resources. If they didn't they would never agree to a relationship. They wouldn't have the need to.

 

[EthnicelNL]

Top 20% theory is one of the pillars of the blackpill mate.

Its heading to top 1% in urban areas

Women need men for resources. If they didn't they would never agree to a relationship. They wouldn't have the need to.

How cucked is that

 

[TrueAlphaMale]

Women prefer to keep the same guy for a while because they can't risk fucking someone who can't get them to orgasm. Sex is the first step. The second step is that the sex is good so that she keeps you. Getting a gf in 2018 is harder than becoming a millionaire. That's why I opt for sex slaves.

 

[StormlitAqua]

Its heading to top 1% in urban areas

How cucked is that

It's getting there. That one recent tinder study has it at about top 17% right now.

 

[Weightcel]

Top 20% theory is one of the pillars of the blackpill mate.

Yes and apparently you don't fully understand it, hence you're bluepilled. Just because women share the top 20 doesn't mean they'd prefer to be sharing them. Why the fuck would a woman prefer to share a man and his resources with other women? Like I said, they want relationships but only with Chad, but only top tier women can snag a Chad long-term, thus most of them settle for sharing him or getting pumped & dumped. Blackpill 101.

 

[WithoutMe]

C O P E. Foids love 2 things: cock carousel (chad) and beta providers (you).

 

[StormlitAqua]

Yes and apparently you don't fully understand it, hence you're bluepilled. Just because women share the top 20 doesn't mean they'd prefer to be sharing them. Why the fuck would a woman prefer to share a man and his resources with other women? Like I said, they want relationships but only with Chad, but only top tier women can snag a Chad long-term, thus most of them settle for sharing him or getting pumped & dumped. Blackpill 101.

Nope. The woman's highest preference is sharing the Chad (multiple Chads ideally), because increasing her N-count increases her value as a woman. A woman has more value if she's fucked 10 chads as compared to if she's only fucked 3 chads. If she locks down one chad, she loses out on potential value.

 

[Weightcel]

Nope. The woman's highest preference is sharing the Chad (multiple Chads ideally), because increasing her N-count increases her value as a woman. A woman has more value if she's fucked 10 chads as compared to if she's only fucked 3 chads.

Cope. Literally makes no sense from a biological standpoint.

 

[jet112]

Cope. Women find relationships preferable but most can't get one with who they actually want (Chad).

you are deluded my dude.
i see constantly on dating app's beautiful woman that are 27+, sometimes even 35 that are looking for relationship.
how much "looking" can you possibly do? they are not really looking, its just for attention and validation

 

[Robo Sapien]

Nope. The woman's highest preference is sharing the Chad (multiple Chads ideally), because increasing her N-count increases her value as a woman. A woman has more value if she's fucked 10 chads as compared to if she's only fucked 3 chads. If she locks down one chad, she loses out on potential value.

Sharing Chad means sharing resources. No woman wants to share resources. They optimally want full and exclusive access to said resources. Not being able to get a man to commit ensures that she can't have access to these resources.

you are deluded my dude.
i see constantly on dating app's beautiful woman that are 27+, sometimes even 35 that are looking for relationship.
how much "looking" can you possibly do? they are not really looking, its just for attention and validation

Women are always looking for the next best deal even if they are "happy".

 

[Weightcel]

you are deluded my dude.
i see constantly on dating app's beautiful woman that are 27+, sometimes even 35 that are looking for relationship.
how much "looking" can you possibly do? they are not really looking, its just for attention and validation

@StormlitAqua

They are looking for a relationship (especially at that age), it's just their ridiculous standards that prevent them from being in one. Some of you newcomers seem to be confused and still slightly bluepilled. I suggest you edumacate yourselves a little.

http://pillse.bol.ucla.edu/Publications/Pillsworth&Haselton_ARSR.pdf

Read that. The whole thing. It's a comprehensive blackpill study, and then when you've fully understood it (and only when you do) you can step back in the ring.

 

[jet112]

Women need men for resources. If they didn't they would never agree to a relationship. They wouldn't have the need to.

woman don't need men for resources. on median salaries woman outearn men, woman are less unemployed than men
also woman have the cream of the crop bullshit jobs like PR manager or Flower Stylist

 

[StormlitAqua]

Sharing Chad means sharing resources. No woman wants to share resources. They optimally want full and exclusive access to said resources. Not being able to get a man to commit ensures that she can't have access to these resources.

Potential betabuxxers she can string along via the possibility of sex.

Cope. Literally makes no sense from a biological standpoint.

Women can get all their resources require through a multitude of top 20% men as opposed from one man in the 21st century. They fill their emotional resource needs through orbiters and social media.

 

[jet112]

They are looking for a relationship (especially at that age), it's just their ridiculous standards that prevent them from being in one. Some of you newcomers seem to be confused and still slightly bluepilled. I suggest you edumacate yourselves a little.

http://pillse.bol.ucla.edu/Publications/Pillsworth&Haselton_ARSR.pdf

Read that. The whole thing. It's a comprehensive blackpill study, and then when you've fully understood it (and only when you do) you can step back in the ring.

we can do this all day, bud.
im telling you woman are not fucking interested at all. this is why they only want a men that checks all the boxes in their grocery list.
if the perfect man comes along, sure why not. but anything else is not worthy of a relationship. we have the same idea but your'e thinking about it in the wrong way

 

[Robo Sapien]

woman don't need men for resources. on median salaries woman outearn men, woman are less unemployed than men
also woman have the cream of the crop bullshit jobs like PR manager or Flower Stylist

You're not looking at it from an evolutionary perspective. This wasn't always the case. Women originally needed men to survive. There wasn't a massive welfare state reallocating them goodies at men's expense.

Women can get all their resources require through a multitude of top 20% men as opposed from one man in the 21st century. They fill their emotional resource needs through orbiters and social media.

Most men aren't going to commit resources to a woman that isn't theirs.

 

[masterwizard]

Cope, women go insane without having some kind of a relationship with a man. Its just that the nature of relationship has changed, they no longer need full on marriage or even just going steady. FWB is fine for many until they hit 30, AS LONG AS ITS CHAD.

 

[Leucosticte]

Cope. Women find relationships preferable but most can't get one with who they actually want (Chad).

Femoids don't like to downgrade to a lesser man once they've had a "relationship" with Chad (even if they were just Chad's fuck-buddy, while there's a nice beta wanting to marry them). Also, their relationship instability increases as they have more relationship failures. They lose their ability to bond and they invest less in their relationships, under the assumption that they're probably gonna break up eventually anyway, so why bother. Therefore we see a lot of single girls.

they only desire relationships for chad. they only have relationships with normies to settle. its kind of like going to macdonalds only to find out they are serving breakfast meals at current time so they go for a breakfast meal since its the best they can do at the time.

They're not necessarily gonna stay with the beta, though. It's kind of like the guy who wants lunch but orders breakfast from McDonald's because that's all that's available, and then just picks at his food and throws most of it in the trash. He's used to having something better, and doesn't want to downgrade.

These girls marry a beta because they want to have that experience of having a wedding and being married, and make all the people who are asking, "When are you gonna get married??" finally shut up. They're still gonna cheat on their hubby whenever they have the opportunity to spread their legs for a higher-value man, though, and there's a good chance that eventually they'll frivorce him for not being Chad.

They fill their emotional resource needs through orbiters and social media.

Yeah, pretty much. Just like rapetopia would be men's dream come true, girls are presently living in a cucktopia (but it doesn't make them happy, so it's actually dystopian for everyone).

 

[LostAllHope]

I think women are rly keen on relationships w/ chad or chadlite but the common idea that they "hook up w/ chad at every corner" is fucking stupid. MEN want to fuck everything, not women. BELIEVE me that they'd much rather practise abstinence than have sex with the hottest guy in the room if he's under 8/10

 

[StillBitter]

woman avoid relationships like fire

With us not chad

 

[chudur-budur]

I think women are rly keen on relationships w/ chad or chadlite but the common idea that they "hook up w/ chad at every corner" is fucking stupid. MEN want to fuck everything, not women. BELIEVE me that they'd much rather practise abstinence than have sex with the hottest guy in the room if he's under 8/10

THIS.

They actually don't hook-up just for the sake of it, deep down a hook-up is a primary step of locking down a chad, since chad never commits, a hook-up stays a hook-up, not a relationship. And chad fucks everything from 1/10 to 9/10, chads don't give a shit about standards. We incels are the only morons who dwell over standard.

These girls marry a beta because they want to have that experience of having a wedding and being married, and make all the people who are asking, "When are you gonna get married??" finally shut up.

Yup women are conformists, they get crazy over such comments about "not having kids" and stuffs. Even some women want to have kids just because her friends are having kids. Also they have strong competition among them about whose kid is more cute, this is another reason why they only fuck chads.

 

[monkeyman]

Great question.This is my biggest point of contention with red pilled men, as I dont see any evidence that foids actually care about relationships. Monogamy is a mating practice instituted by men and only valued by men.

Being a part of Chad's harem is all a woman needs to be happy. They don't care whether or not he commits.

 

[kappo0]

woman avoid me liek fire so i dont know

 

[CopingGymcel]

Women love being in relationships. They want to have a boyfriend at any time.

 

[Leucosticte]

Women love being in relationships. They want to have a boyfriend at any time.

At the same time, the ones with lower self-esteem prefer the guys who don't give a fuck about them. So I guess in those cases, it's more like they just want to be the sociopath's fucktoy who is allowed to do what she wants because the dude just doesn't care what happens to her.

 

[monkeyman]

Women love being in relationships. They want to have a boyfriend at any time.

The social pressure to pair bond comes from men...average men who otherwise couldn't have sex.