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Why do I feel the need to apologize?

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Gbh2121

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I live in a college house with a foid, she’s hot as fuck but she has a boyfriend and we never talk, she never even looks at me. Every time her boyfriend comes over she screams like a banshee while they fuck, and our walls are thing. Especially when they shower together or if she leaves he bathroom door open it’s like we’re in the same room. Then she comes down and I reflexively apologize for if I’d been too loud earlier (while they were fucking). Why am I conditioned to be like this? She should have to apologize to me! I’m tired of society making us feel below this roasties who just want Chad’s cock
 
Society really likes to gaslight us and make us feel like we are in the wrong for being undesirable males.
 
Many incels got into submissive habits after years of bullying and abuse, that’s why.
 
Exactly. OP needs to man up and idgafmaxx

Many incels got into submissive habits after years of bullying and abuse, that’s why.
 
LMFAO
inferiority complex
Society really likes to gaslight us and make us feel like we are in the wrong for being undesirable males.
The worst is seeing him walk around in my kitchen afterwards. Half the time he's shirtless, I just want to beat his fucking face in with a golf club
 
Especially when they shower together or if she leaves he bathroom door open it’s like we’re in the same room. Then she comes down and I reflexively apologize for if I’d been too loud earlier (while they were fucking).

Should have joined them
 
Next time go into the bathroom when they leave the door open and quietly masturbate , sit on the toilet and make strong eye contact with them while they fuck in the shower .
 
The worst is seeing him walk around in my kitchen afterwards. Half the time he's shirtless, I just want to beat his fucking face in with a golf club
If you're in the US, you can get away with shooting a man dead if he comes at you with a knife. I assume he'd occasionally hold a knife in the kitchen, and who can say who attacked who first if you are the only surviving witness?
 
Next time go into the bathroom when they leave the door open and quietly masturbate , sit on the toilet and make strong eye contact with them while they fuck in the shower .
We all have our own personal bathrooms in our rooms, but I could play porn in my bathroom or something
 
Many incels got into submissive habits after years of bullying and abuse, that’s why.

A habit is something you build up after years of choosing, I cannot feel sorry for men like OP

It doesn't take effort to stop being pathetic, one's disgust for their current self must merely exceed their comfort that their submission affords them, and if you are more comfortable than disgusted with yourself, that's because you somewhat enjoy your current life state and have no problem with things continuing as they are

How the fuck am I supposed to feel bad for such a man, a man like that should just kill himself
 
If you're in the US, you can get away with shooting a man dead if he comes at you with a knife. I assume he'd occasionally hold a knife in the kitchen, and who can say who attacked who first if you are the only surviving witness?
Any gun to recommend?
 
A habit is something you build up after years of choosing, I cannot feel sorry for men like OP

It doesn't take effort to stop being pathetic, one's disgust for their current self must merely exceed their comfort that their submission affords them, and if you are more comfortable than disgusted with yourself, that's because you somewhat enjoy your current life state and have no problem with things continuing as they are

How the fuck am I supposed to feel bad for such a man, a man like that should just kill himself

Yeas of abuse can turn a man into a submissive bitch. Have some compassion for a fellow cel.
 
You were traumatized into submission
 
Yeas of abuse can turn a man into a submissive bitch. Have some compassion for a fellow cel.

What abuse?

Was he sexually assaulted as a child for years?

That's the only abuse that's outside of your control during that time of your life, but being "bullied" at school is not abuse that is "inescapable", at any moment you could have made it clear to your bullies you are not to be fucked with, could have waited till after school with a bat, a piece of metal pipe, something, and beat the fuck out of your bully, would have gotten suspended for a month or so if you weren't too brutal, but you would have made it a public issue, parents would have gotten involved, you'd have revealed him to be your bully, and the school would be forced to sweep the issue under the rug else risk negative exposure

If you got stuffed into a locker for years and years that was a choice, I could never imagine shit like that happening where I was born, literally nobody I knew of took this shit, even the kids that were bullied fought back, no "bully" would even try to take anyones lunch money because they knew no weaker could would even agree, being beaten was preferred over letting yourself get cucked

Sorry, no excuses

You know what you're saying is BS, because you know full well if we replace "bully" with "rape" like magic OP would gain some fighting spirit, and that shows that HE WAS ALRIIGHT WITH BEING BULLIED, if his bullies had try to rape him, I guarantee you somebody would have gotten stabbed by him, and that's what I'm talking about, you guys don't see someone taking advantage of you as something "that bad", you accept it, if you saw it as something like rape, you would never make these excuses, you'd die over getting raped, why isn't the same with bullying?
 
because you are a cuck
 
Crap after reading these replies I realized being submissive to women (which I am) is a horrible thing, man why do I have to be like this lol.
 
What abuse?

Was he sexually assaulted as a child for years?

That's the only abuse that's outside of your control during that time of your life, but being "bullied" at school is not abuse that is "inescapable", at any moment you could have made it clear to your bullies you are not to be fucked with, could have waited till after school with a bat, a piece of metal pipe, something, and beat the fuck out of your bully, would have gotten suspended for a month or so if you weren't too brutal, but you would have made it a public issue, parents would have gotten involved, you'd have revealed him to be your bully, and the school would be forced to sweep the issue under the rug else risk negative exposure

If you got stuffed into a locker for years and years that was a choice, I could never imagine shit like that happening where I was born, literally nobody I knew of took this shit, even the kids that were bullied fought back, no "bully" would even try to take anyones lunch money because they knew no weaker could would even agree, being beaten was preferred over letting yourself get cucked

Sorry, no excuses

You know what you're saying is BS, because you know full well if we replace "bully" with "rape" like magic OP would gain some fighting spirit, and that shows that HE WAS ALRIIGHT WITH BEING BULLIED, if his bullies had try to rape him, I guarantee you somebody would have gotten stabbed by him, and that's what I'm talking about, you guys don't see someone taking advantage of you as something "that bad", you accept it, if you saw it as something like rape, you would never make these excuses, you'd die over getting raped, why isn't the same with bullying?

Bullying IS abuse because not everyone has the physical capacity to fight off bullies. A framecel manlet will not stand a chance against someone who is twice his size and strength. This is just basic physics. Going full ER on bullies is not always an option because children aren't fully blackpilled, they still have hopes in life and worry about the consequences.

A few years back, I had co-worker who was basically a borderline midget, he had a squeaky stuttering voice, he flinched whenever somebody moved too fast, he literally was apologizing for everything. I cannot even begin to imagine what kind of horrific abuse he went through in his lifetime, especially during childhood. Have some sympathy, bro. Seriously.

I get your point about going ER on bullies, but you are failing to recognize that not everyone is built for that. After all, I don't believe much in free will.
 
Many incels got into submissive habits after years of bullying and abuse, that’s why.
This OP. You just have to stop being a cuck. I’d recommend starting problems every time he comes over so it might become less frequent.
 
Because you were taught that your existence is problematic, and now you're apologizing for it any chance you get.

I'm so glad I never dormed in college, sounds suifuel from what you guys say here, having to listen to Stacie's moaning as she gets inseminated by some Theta Chad mogging me in my own room, pure suifuel.
 
We all have our own personal bathrooms in our rooms, but I could play porn in my bathroom or something
This would just embarrass you more. He’s already fucking Stacy in your house, just to now hear you pathetically masturbate like a lonely incel does.
 
Because you were taught that your existence is problematic, and now you're apologizing for it any chance you get.

I'm so glad I never dormed in college, sounds suifuel from what you guys say here, having to listen to Stacie's moaning as she gets inseminated by some Theta Chad mogging me in my own room, pure suifuel.
It seems I didn't do enough to lay out the geography of the house. It's kinda like a town home but everyone is college kids, She upstairs and I'm downstairs and we share a kitchen. Each have our own bathrooms. I got randomly assigned to live with her.

I never went after her it just sucks having the reminder
This would just embarrass you more. He’s already fucking Stacy in your house, just to now hear you pathetically masturbate like a lonely incel does.
This OP. You just have to stop being a cuck. I’d recommend starting problems every time he comes over so it might become less frequent.
Any suggestions then? This guy would deck me if I said "stop having sex." I already leave the kitchen and entry way a mess to try to deter him
 
It seems I didn't do enough to lay out the geography of the house. It's kinda like a town home but everyone is college kids, She upstairs and I'm downstairs and we share a kitchen. Each have our own bathrooms. I got randomly assigned to live with her.


I never went after her it just sucks having the reminder


Any suggestions then? This guy would deck me if I said "stop having sex." I already leave the kitchen and entry way a mess to try to deter him
The only thing you can do is verbally berate him. Yes, it heightens the possibility of physical conflict greatly. But nothing else but direct confrontation and aggression will be enough to minimize his desire to be in the house. The Stacey will eventually get sick of dealing with it too.
Talk shit and be an issue to them both at every opportunity when he is there, so they can make the connection that it is his presence.
 
Because thats what comfortable to a beta. Betas dont want any escalation or probelms with anyone else. Theyd rather feel belittled or humiliated. Stop doing this to yourself.
 
After all, I don't believe much in free will.

You are a retard then

You don't seem to see the irony in saying you don't believe in free will, yet invoking will to disagree with me, if you don't believe in free will then just agree and STFU, its a ridiculous stance, makes no sense at all, if you have no free will you should not be of free mind to have your own opinions or justifications

Humans are not like worker bees or ants, were not a hive mind, we obviously have free will, trying to argue that you don't have free will IS IRONICALLY AN EXPRESSION OF YOUR FREE WILL, or argument is self defeating, the best argument for not having free will is to ironically agree with people who say you have free will and just go along with what they say
 
It seems I didn't do enough to lay out the geography of the house. It's kinda like a town home but everyone is college kids, She upstairs and I'm downstairs and we share a kitchen. Each have our own bathrooms. I got randomly assigned to live with her.
I see makes a bit more sense, cancer nonetheless.

Any suggestions then? This guy would deck me if I said "stop having sex." I already leave the kitchen and entry way a mess to try to deter him
You could try to slash Chad's tires or something, check to see if there are cameras in your lot before doing so, just keep epically pranking him. Problem is once this Chad can't be bothered to come over because of insane inkwell, she'll find a new Chad by the hour on Tinder to fuck her, so it's a tough spot to be in.
 
You could try to slash Chad's tires or something, check to see if there are cameras in your lot before doing so, just keep epically pranking him. Problem is once this Chad can't be bothered to come over because of insane inkwell, she'll find a new Chad by the hour on Tinder to fuck her, so it's a tough spot to be in.
That could work. They also smoke a lot while he's here but so do I so if I reported them I'd get kicked
 
Being nice is genetic. We're supposed to be second class eunuchs with a drive to "help" and comfort the stacys and chads. Like gray ducks.
 
You are a retard then

You don't seem to see the irony in saying you don't believe in free will, yet invoking will to disagree with me, if you don't believe in free will then just agree and STFU, its a ridiculous stance, makes no sense at all, if you have no free will you should not be of free mind to have your own opinions or justifications

Humans are not like worker bees or ants, were not a hive mind, we obviously have free will, trying to argue that you don't have free will IS IRONICALLY AN EXPRESSION OF YOUR FREE WILL, or argument is self defeating, the best argument for not having free will is to ironically agree with people who say you have free will and just go along with what they say

Your body (and therefore your mind) is a collection of subatomic particles that behave in a pre-determined manner (DNA) in response to the external stimuli (environment). Disagreement is a part of the equation, not an expression of free will.
 
Your body (and therefore your mind) is a collection of subatomic particles that behave in a pre-determined manner (DNA) in response to the external stimuli (environment). Disagreement is a part of the equation, not an expression of free will.

1. You are deciding to disagree though, there is nothing forcing you to disagree

2. Do you not see the irony in thinking that disagreement is part of the equation, but not considering that free will is part of the equation

Are you not constructing these sentences yourself, again to argue against free will requires will, your argument is a self defeating one

There is nothing forcing you to respond to me in this back and forth, you are choosing to do so
 
1. You are deciding to disagree though, there is nothing forcing you to disagree

2. Do you not see the irony in thinking that disagreement is part of the equation, but not considering that free will is part of the equation

Are you not constructing these sentences yourself, again to argue against free will requires will, your argument is a self defeating one

There is nothing forcing you to respond to me in this back and forth, you are choosing to do so

LOL. This is getting out of hand, dude. Nobody is forcing us to do anything. Should I've been in a different state of mind today, maybe I wouldn't have continued this discussion. All I am saying that what we call 'free will' is a result of millions of natural factors that influence our perception, thought processes, decision-making, etc. That's all there is to it.
 
cuz u is a cuck, son
 
LOL. This is getting out of hand, dude. Nobody is forcing us to do anything. Should I've been in a different state of mind today, maybe I wouldn't have continued this discussion. All I am saying that what we call 'free will' is a result of millions of natural factors that influence our perception, thought processes, decision-making, etc. That's all there is to it.

Dude saying you don't have free will is like playing a video game and saying you don't have control, what you are describing is the simulation and the variables that exist within it, that's completely seperate from ones ability to be self aware of the simulation and make decisions based on these variables (that's what free will is)

You are falsely conflating - "A simulation exists" with "nobody has free will within the simulation"

All these millions of natural factors are completely separate from what we do based on those factors, how can you not understand something this simple

You used the right word when you said PERCEPTION

PERCEPTION IS KNOWLEDGE NOT CHOICE

YOU ARE CONFLATING PERCEPTION WITH CHOICE, AND ASSERTING THAT DECISIONS ARE AUTOMATICALLY MADE FOR US (WHILE WERE UNAWARE) DUE TO PERCEPTION
 
Dude saying you don't have free will is like playing a video game and saying you don't have control, what you are describing is the simulation and the variables that exist within it, that's completely seperate from ones ability to be self aware of the simulation and make decisions based on these variables (that's what free will is)

You are falsely conflating - "A simulation exists" with "nobody has free will within the simulation"

All these millions of natural factors are completely separate from what we do based on those factors, how can you not understand something this simple

You used the right word when you said PERCEPTION

PERCEPTION IS KNOWLEDGE NOT CHOICE

YOU ARE CONFLATING PERCEPTION WITH CHOICE, AND ASSERTING THAT DECISIONS ARE AUTOMATICALLY MADE FOR US (WHILE WERE UNAWARE) DUE TO PERCEPTION

It's good that mentioned self-awareness, because self-awareness is fundamentally rooted in sensory input from the physical world. It's not a separate entity, just like a computer software doesn't exist separately from the hardware. It's a fun subject though. Neuroscience is still far from having a clear picture on this one.
 
What abuse?

Was he sexually assaulted as a child for years?

That's the only abuse that's outside of your control during that time of your life, but being "bullied" at school is not abuse that is "inescapable", at any moment you could have made it clear to your bullies you are not to be fucked with, could have waited till after school with a bat, a piece of metal pipe, something, and beat the fuck out of your bully, would have gotten suspended for a month or so if you weren't too brutal, but you would have made it a public issue, parents would have gotten involved, you'd have revealed him to be your bully, and the school would be forced to sweep the issue under the rug else risk negative exposure

If you got stuffed into a locker for years and years that was a choice, I could never imagine shit like that happening where I was born, literally nobody I knew of took this shit, even the kids that were bullied fought back, no "bully" would even try to take anyones lunch money because they knew no weaker could would even agree, being beaten was preferred over letting yourself get cucked

Sorry, no excuses

You know what you're saying is BS, because you know full well if we replace "bully" with "rape" like magic OP would gain some fighting spirit, and that shows that HE WAS ALRIIGHT WITH BEING BULLIED, if his bullies had try to rape him, I guarantee you somebody would have gotten stabbed by him, and that's what I'm talking about, you guys don't see someone taking advantage of you as something "that bad", you accept it, if you saw it as something like rape, you would never make these excuses, you'd die over getting raped, why isn't the same with bullying?
Tough guy victim blaming.

  • Most kids aren't capable of beating someone with a bat.
  • The bully is the delinquent, not the victim. Often if you try to fight back, even if you perform decently, the bully will return with his thug friends and beat the shit out of you.
  • The bully is usually stronger and larger than the victim, which makes fighting back a fools endeavor.
 
Okay all, thanks for the advice. Next time he comes I'll slash his tires and see what happens. Wish me luck
 
its over for mentalcels
 
Society really likes to gaslight us and make us feel like we are in the wrong for being undesirable males.
Exactly.
But it will disappear soon as you realize that you did nothing wrong. You gonna feel thirst for revenge
 
Yikes bro, wtf. Unaccteptable.
 
Tough guy victim blaming.

  • Most kids aren't capable of beating someone with a bat.
  • The bully is the delinquent, not the victim. Often if you try to fight back, even if you perform decently, the bully will return with his thug friends and beat the shit out of you.
  • The bully is usually stronger and larger than the victim, which makes fighting back a fools endeavor.

1. Most kids are capable, they just don't see bullying as that big of a deal to do something like that

2. Yes the bully is a delinquent, just like if someone was trying to rape you, they are the criminal, by that logic just bend over and take it, don't fight back, because you are the law abiding citizen, it isn't your role to act violently, you know full well what you're saying is BS, turn a bully scenario into a rape scenario and magically everyone is willing to defend themselves

Like I said, its just that you guys don't see being taken advantage of as a big deal, so you let it happen, if your bully was trying to make you suck his dick, you'd magically be able to fight him

3. Someone being stronger than you only makes a difference if you are trying to "defeat" or "beat" them, if you are trying to hospitalize or kill them, size doesn't matter, anybody can throw sand in someones eye and knee them in the groin, then stomp on them while they are on the ground

You will say a child doesn't have the mind for that sort of thing, well there are other options



Less Violent Path:
You could have made it a public issue that nobody could look past, contact the bullies parents and report the issue to the principal and teachers, go to his house with your parents and let them know what he's doing, if they don't make him stop, have your parents involve the police and make it a legal issue, but no you guys just did nothing

That's what angers me about those children who get bullied

Too much of a coward to fight back
Yet too much pride to truly ask for help

So they just existing in a purgatory of self caused suffering

TAKE A FUCKING STANCE

Do the bullies have parents?

Obviously yes, so Involve them

Do the parents do nothing and support the bully?

Ok, then shame them publicly on social media

That's the kind of shit you can do these days easily, if a child is getting bullied today, they are really stupid, you can get your bully expelled with a few tweets and have his parents socially ostracized, society only turns a blind eye when it isn't in their face, but if you make it public, for the sake of virtue signalling people in society will make a scene about it
 

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