1) Good chance they're miserable if they're a wage slave in a shithole American city, land of degeneracy and feminist liberalism
2) If they're male then they're actively discriminated against and the victim of negative propaganda at pretty much all levels of society
3) If they're male and part of the "normal" or lower class group then we go back to #1 -- they probably don't have a good life and they may be approaching levels of misery that we have. What can I say, it makes you bitter and resentful towards your "fellow man"
4) If they're women, well, women are disgusted by most men and thus will be and cold to you as a default if you're "most men"
5) We're a highly politicized culture in the US where the each half of the population secretly (or not so secretly these days) wants to eradicate the other half from existence to create their utopia. If they even catch a whif you're slightly to the right or left or whatever of their side they hate you and consider you an imbecile (one group is more correct and objective than the other as we know, but the point is still there).
If you want to see people be kind to each other you basically have to go out to the rural country here with small ethnically homogenous low crime communities where everybody knows everybody, everyone shares the same worldview and the same values, where everybody is married with kids, and where everyone owns their own land and produces something valuable for their community by the sweat of their brow.
Cities are evil shitholes full of evil unhappy people and modern feminist liberalism, the destruction of the nuclear family structure, the labeling of men as oppressors, etc etc -- it's all terrible and a failed ideology. And our politicians cart in immigrants who wind up on gibs for the rest of their life because they're an ole reliable voting block that will increase the governments power (or they erroneously hope they'll start working and prop up social security with our aging population pyramid what retards

). I would move back to the country right now if I could get a remote job, but no -- instead I have to live in this pigsty with these bluepilled propagandized NPCs (who can't drive for shit by the way -- side note, the road is a microcosm for the character of a person just like the shopping cart analogy is -- any driver who runs red lights, cuts people off in traffic, doesn't signal, etc you just know is a degenerate faggot with no character, but I digress).
There's a lot in between this step, but Boomers selling out their small family businesses and making everyone work for monopolistic mega corporations who don't care whether you live or die is another problem. But hey, they got theirs right?