Discussion Why are families so focused on "when will you get a girlfriend?"

[Keulut]

Family visit, uncle asks, when will you get a girlfriend. Same shit from the aunt. Same shit from the grandmother and grandfather.

"Yeah sooner or later". Yeah but you need to speed up your golden years are soon over. (Thanks for reminding me)

Can't even get a girl to talk to me how I'm supposed to get a gf.

I just stay away from those visits or won't go to them in the first place. Every meet is a door open for a disappointing day.

 

[twisted]

its a way of making conversation + their time was different they see it abnormal if u don't have a partner just goes to show how much things have gone to shit because of foids freedoms

 

[HomicidalSuicidal88]

They must want to know when they will have gran kids like wants to go out of there way to have them when shit will get expensive to take care and provide not everyone is finainaly stable only dumbass nomries do that for subhuman it different we don't think twice or even concider it

 

[antisocialcel]

I always say NEVER the same with wife and kids, at this point it's too much hate against society

 

[smegma producer]

humans want their bloodline to continue. Not just once with their own child, but their child's child, child's child's child and so fourth

Simple they wanna nag you into continuing THEIR bloodline

 

[lifeisfucked215]

I never get asked really but they tell me I look like a movie star

 

[Friezacel]

Because sex/procreation is the purpose of life

 

[outerdarkness]

They never bring that up to me.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

To them, life is: school > job > girlfriend > marriage > kids. They don’t realize that for some people, that script is completely unrealistic. They pressure you because they’re worried you won’t follow their pre-written path—parents and relatives nag about this because they want to see a continuation of the family line, not because they care about your struggles.

 

[TheHungariancel]

To them, life is: school > job > girlfriend > marriage > kids. They don’t realize that for some people, that script is completely unrealistic. They pressure you because they’re worried you won’t follow their pre-written path—parents and relatives nag about this because they want to see a continuation of the family line, not because they care about your struggles.

Exactly what I wanted to write. OP shouldn't be at all surprised about his family asking about when will he get a girlfriend and stuff. Most people operate on a script you've described, so marriage and kids are the default for them and anyone who don't have those are seen as unusual.

This type of nagging could be really annoying though, especially if it comes from boomers, who have absolutely zero understanding of the blackpill or inceldom or any of these things. Just the concept of inceldom alone is incomprehensible for them.

 

[ItsOverMan]

Because they don't want THEIR genetic lineage ending with you. Also your Mom wants grandkids so she can cuddle cute babies again.

 

[ItsOverMan]

I never get asked really but they tell me I look like a movie star

 

[Antorian]

They are completely out of touch not only with the state of modern society but also with their descendants struggles.

 

[TheCatMan]

My family used to pester me about it but now they either know it's over or they think I'm gay.

 

[Thugs-5-Less]

Because sex/procreation is the purpose of life

 

[lifeisfucked215]

They're gaslighting me no joke

 

[Fraud Mortal]

It's a stupid-ass question anyway, "when will you get a girlfriend" how in God's name would I know that? I'll get a girlfriend whenever I get lucky and find a girl who wants to date me. It's like giving someone a 20 sided dice, telling them to roll it a few times and asking them "when will you roll a 17?" It's so retarded.

 

[Fraud Mortal]

My family used to pester me about it but now they either know it's over or they think I'm gay.

My mom thought I was gay until I got in trouble for hitting on a doctor when I was 17 (it was just a random doctor at the doctor's office, not my family doctor)

 

[Failed Pullout]

They want to see their genes proliferate my mom doesn't bother asking.