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I know there's a lot of us here who are socially successful (lol), but where are my fellow friendless folx?

Not a single real friend (only a few online people I talk to occasionally and classmates who I talk to only at school) here.
Completely alien in a society where everyone knows everyone and the only thing they talk about is
a : "Hey I did X with Y last night"
b : "Wow, Y's a bit of a dick though, remember when he did Z a few weeks ago?"
a : "Yeah, but I was out with E doing Q and then C decided to invite D over because we we're out drinking etc."
c : "Yeah man, last night was awesome! We did J, G, and you know the shit W did was so lit"

How the fuck do you even enter that convo? Just say "Yeah, I drink sometimes too..." and then everyone stares at you like you're a rapist.
 
This place is the only social interaction I get
 
This place is the only social interaction I get

It's seeming to be that way for me as well. I find it extremely difficult to adapt to any new social setting and I just end up leaving.
 
I see my friends twice a year at best.

Every other weekend consists of rottint
 
It's seeming to be that way for me as well. I find it extremely difficult to adapt to any new social setting and I just end up leaving.
yeah I can’t even make friends at uni because it’s too late
 
In the same boat as OP exactly. Talk to some old classmates on facebook occasionally. I know nobody IRL and have zero accquaintances. Talk to family once in a while
 
In the same boat as OP exactly. Talk to some old classmates on facebook occasionally. I know nobody IRL and have zero accquaintances. Talk to family once in a while

And there's people who say "Just talk to people", never alluding the fact that they have 10+ people they hang out with regularly and have known each other since childhood LOL.

Just as Chads don't understand how we don't get womynz, they'll never understand how we can't get friends and as a result will just spew useless shit that only works for them.
 
I can,t make friends with normies
 
I know there's a lot of us here who are socially successful (lol), but where are my fellow friendless folx?

Not a single real friend (only a few online people I talk to occasionally and classmates who I talk to only at school) here.
Completely alien in a society where everyone knows everyone and the only thing they talk about is
a : "Hey I did X with Y last night"
b : "Wow, Y's a bit of a dick though, remember when he did Z a few weeks ago?"
a : "Yeah, but I was out with E doing Q and then C decided to invite D over because we we're out drinking etc."
c : "Yeah man, last night was awesome! We did J, G, and you know the shit W did was so lit"

How the fuck do you even enter that convo? Just say "Yeah, I drink sometimes too..." and then everyone stares at you like you're a rapist.

My general week is work on weekends part time, quickly get groceries, rest of week i'm at home...that's it.

I have been trying to get more exercise so been walking my dog a night for past month and started last week biking in the morning

I have a large family but don't really speak with them often, closest friend is a co-worker. Not really unhappy about it, I like having free time, having friends would mean going out more and I think I have agoraphobia (fear going out in public places) because I plan the times i go out to when there's hardly anyone out like 10pm is when i walk dog, 6am is when i go biking. Part time work is just me alone basically

Lastnight when going out to walk my dog some car passes by with a bunch of teens and they said "FUCK YOU" ....I don't even know anybody but my physical appearance is repulsive people are offended so I get comments like that.
 
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No I do not have any friends.
 
I haven't had any social experiences outside my family since 2009. I haven't had regular social interactions outside my family since 2005.
 
i will live and die alone
 
I know there's a lot of us here who are socially successful (lol), but where are my fellow friendless folx?

Not a single real friend (only a few online people I talk to occasionally and classmates who I talk to only at school) here.
Completely alien in a society where everyone knows everyone and the only thing they talk about is
a : "Hey I did X with Y last night"
b : "Wow, Y's a bit of a dick though, remember when he did Z a few weeks ago?"
a : "Yeah, but I was out with E doing Q and then C decided to invite D over because we we're out drinking etc."
c : "Yeah man, last night was awesome! We did J, G, and you know the shit W did was so lit"

How the fuck do you even enter that convo? Just say "Yeah, I drink sometimes too..." and then everyone stares at you like you're a rapist.
I feel the exact same way now. Worse, I don't drink or smoke. Worst, I'm in uni.
 
yeah no friends irl here too. im not an anti-social person, not socializing for years had me felt disconnected from a lot of people, socializing is not natural for me anymore. im kind of already used to being this alone...

in-conjunction to being introverted by nature.

there are incels that extroverted by nature or some are extroverted, but stuck inside of their own shells.

I haven't had any social experiences outside my family since 2009. I haven't had regular social interactions outside my family since 2005.
brutal
 
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Haven't had a friend since 14.
 
fuck, this is too relatable. I only have worthless acquaintances
 
I have zero irl friends,I have avoided social interactions since pre-k, so I can not talk to other humans or make friends.
 
If we don't have friends we are almost guaranteed to never have a girlfriend as few foids would not want to be with a loner
 
I have no real friends, only people I occasionally talk to in my class though I'm too scared to ask them to hang out outside of college.
 
Get a job, ive made most of my good friends there. Try to find some common ground (even fake being interested in what they like) dont push for friendship though itll come soon enough
 
Get a job, ive made most of my good friends there. Try to find some common ground (even fake being interested in what they like) dont push for friendship though itll come soon enough
noooo
 
My only ever real friend cut it off when we started going through puberty, he developed into a chad, and I became a subhuman lol
Miss him tbh
 
I have “friends” at work, who I make small talk to. I only do this as it decreases my chances of being fired for being an incel. Usually these conversations are extremely awkward, as they reveal my severe lacking of social skills.
 

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