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While not PUA, this guy makes a good argument about approaching in public, and online dating is a fail for incels

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He is realistic in saying that if you aren't Hollywood attractive you may be considered creepy, but he also says lurking on the internet and never approaching is a road to loneliness. The think I take from it is you never know who may be attracted to you, and if you don't try you can never win.

 
I think for average looking guys this advice is great and all, but if you're an ugly incel this advice isn't really going to help much. True, we have a much better chance in person than on Tinder or OKCupid, but for us we're just doubling our already miniscule chance of success, while an average looking guy is doubling meh chances to something good.
Maybe us incels can find the unicorn that fit us despite how unattractive we may be, but it's such a longshot that it's not worth the effort and energy it takes to consider.
 
Cold approach can be and is good, but this guy is right if you are some depressed and sub-Chad idiot don't bother

sounds cliche and shit but you got better yourself first before you try any of that shit
 
What you really need is to be at least normie but with good dick. If your dick isn't good, you can reach sex, but will you pass it?
 
The problem with PUA is 99 percent women whom you approach already have a bf .

And it is stupid to think that they will go for some stranger guy when they already have a dick to suck
well you obviously must support it in some way, given your name and avi
 
The problem with PUA is most women whom you approach already have a bf .

And it is stupid to think that they will go for some stranger guy when they already have a dick to suck
They MAYBE will only if you're way better than her bf
 
No even if you better , women do not trust strangers . It is natural for people to avoid strangers.
I agree. So, is this about being socialised Chad to always be in some socio-sircles to have chicks that know you "a little bit more than one day" (kek)?
 
99.9999 percent of girls fuck guys whom they meet in their social circle or online dating.
Cold approach is the biggest scam .

Cold approach worked in the past but only in bars and clubs .But those were for tall chads .
Now even that have stopped working due to tinder.
How can we be a part of some social sircle after school and uni? (except work place) It's pretty retarded question from me but i don't understand how to make new acquaintances. Maybe i should just go with the flow?
 
That isn't true Mystery. Why do you think chicks walk around with their butt cheeks out? To get picked up by chad and rich guys.

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It is extremely difficult . People make new friends through old friends. I don't have any friends either , so I can't tell you how .

Normal men jump from one gf to another since they are in school and those people have a very big social circle of girls as they get to know many girls through their past gfs , so for them finding new gf is not a problem .

And women date only those guys who already have gf or have just broken up with their gf.
Fuck, i actually maybe could make more "comrades", but most of them are somewhat stupid and not interesting as people (at least when we are steel teens). I'm not sure i can force myself to do this. It's easier in virtual not in real life.
 
That isn't true Mystery. Why do you think chicks walk around with their butt cheeks out? To get picked up by chad and rich guys.

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Ajajaja, is this porn lol? I abstain from it, but i want to see wtf is this. From comment below, seems like bf get caught his gf fucking another guy by facetime?
 
Yea it's a Mexican cuck porn of a wife getting fucked while talking to her husband on the phone. The third comment is funny.

Mystery, we might not be chad, but if we lose weight and dress nice and get some cash, we can get laid easier. If you go to a third world country you can be a escortcel on the cheap.
 
Yea it's a Mexican cuck porn of a wife getting fucked while talking to her husband on the phone. The third comment is funny.

Mystery, we might not be chad, but if we lose weight and dress nice and get some cash, we can get laid easier. If you go to a third world country you can be a escortcel on the cheap.
Why lose weight if you're skullbonecel
 
How can we be a part of some social sircle after school and uni? (except work place) It's pretty retarded question from me but i don't understand how to make new acquaintances. Maybe i should just go with the flow?

It's easy to make friend if you're a chad.

In my country for instance we have non-religious facebook groups (morocco) where a lot of people meet IRL (bars/coffeeshops) including some hot girls. But only the chads get all the pussies.
 
Life is so complicated especially at 2018. Because some years ago you could be more socially active because there were no internet and games, and anime kek
 
What you really need is to be at least normie but with good dick. If your dick isn't good, you can reach sex, but will you pass it?
Only if she can't do better.
 
attraction is natural. if you cant pickup girls on tinder then dont bother trying irl. game doesnt fix somebody it just makes things happen sooner.
 
attraction is natural. if you cant pickup girls on tinder then dont bother trying irl. game doesnt fix somebody it just makes things happen sooner.
I don't agree 100% with that. Not every girl is looking to fuck on the first date. That is what tinder is. It is close to backpage in my opinion. The payment on Tinder is looks.
 
I don't agree 100% with that. Not every girl is looking to fuck on the first date. That is what tinder is. It is close to backpage in my opinion. The payment on Tinder is looks.



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Even hard core sluts who want a relationship won't put out on the first date. At least the second or third. What fucking guy in his right mind would date or marry a girl who puts out so fast. Unless they want to be in the MGTOW club.
 
Cope.

JFL if women aren't approaching YOU.
 
If you're truecel this is a sure fire method to strip you of all hope and put you deeper into depression
 
The payment on Tinder is looks.

Nailed it once again!

If you're truecel this is a sure fire method to strip you of all hope and put you deeper into depression

At least you can say that you tried if you put yourself out there and repeatedly failed. Better to know for certain that you are undesirable to 100% of women than to deal with regret later in life. I won't have any such regrets because I know there isn't a damn thing I could have done differently. I looksmaxxed, studymaxxed, careermaxxed, locationmaxxed, you name it. Nothing worked. At some point you just have to cut your losses.
 
cold approaches rarely work if you're sub 7 tbh
 

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