Serious Which kind are you?

[Iercel]

So since many guys here are infact teenagers or in their early-mid twenties, i would be interested in your "way".

Did you tried to approach women and the rejections turned you into the blackpill or are you just ldar cause u think its over for you.

I have seen a lot of "oldcels" here hating on younger people for this reason.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

I tried a good amount in college tbh

 

[0fflinemode]

Did you tried to approach women and the rejections turned you into the blackpill or are you just ldar cause u think its over for you.

both. i think the one that did me in was when i tried to talk to a girl back in highschool, but she literally ran away from me. havent talked to a female since and i dont plan on it every happening

 

[WizardofSoda]

One thing I tried was trying to legit get to know girls and become friends. Then my plan was if we did get along maybe we could date, or at least I would have a friend that was a girl. So then I would have another friend to do stuff with & talk to, and also might meet other girls through her.

Alas on paper this was a good plan, but it requires girls giving more than one word answers when you try to talk to them, and then the girl quickly having to leave and never coming back.

 

[Deleted member 24293]

I never really tried to begin with. I'm 22 and I never asked a girl out. Before you throw shit at me I need you to read my comment in order to understand why.

I've always been mistreated by girls and from a very early age on (pre-teens even) I noticed their behavior towards other guys to be different, especially towards my brother who is the exact opposite of me and attracts numerous women. This was the first blackpill I swallowed.

Now there has never been a girl that had any interest in me and most of them were actually disgusted by me for some reason so I never really tried. I couldn't take a rejection and deep down I don't want an ugly woman. It's over. (no, not even ugly women/girls treated me like a human, they all hate me)

 

[Feargin]

I'll never forget the physical repulsion, the "eww" uttered out of the roasties lips after the teacher paired her up with me for a project.

 

[Deleted member 19236]

I've never successfully approached a foid in the PUA sense.

 

[Deleted member 25274]

I’m 17 and I never actually asked out a girl because I knew the response was 100% was going to be no. No female has ever shown the slightest interest in me and most showed physical disgust if I just happened to walk past them. I remember if we had to work in groups everyone would just avoid eye contact with me and act like I didn’t exist. However, I have talked to multiple girls on snapchat, but every single time I sent a pic after talking for a couple days they would just so happen to ghost me or just straight up say “ew” and block me. Funny how before I sent a pic they would say “I bet you aren’t even that ugly” or “Lol theres no way a guy like you is ugly”

 

[Deleted member 19546]

I simped, typical simping.

I wouldn’t say orbit though because I do not go above my looksmatch or for women with orbiters.

 

[Admiral_Arkantos]

I never actually asked out a girl because I knew the response was 100% was going to be no.

Same tbh
Also I'm very high inhib irl so I can't imagine myself even having to courage to even approach them

 

[Lebensmüder]

So since many guys here are infact teenagers or in their early-mid twenties, i would be interested in your "way".

Did you tried to approach women and the rejections turned you into the blackpill or are you just ldar cause u think its over for you.

I have seen a lot of "oldcels" here hating on younger people for this reason.

Early twenties. Tried to ask girls out a couple of times but was rejected. Girls made fun of me during my teenage years and bullied me severly. Tried looksmaxxing for years. I lost weight and gained some muscles. Still women rejected me. They only payed attention to me whenever they needed help with something but afterwards they didn't even thank me. I am not interested in Betabuxxing, but wouldn't make the cut for it anyway. I am not a neet because my parents would hate me for becoming one. I still work/study but with little to no enthusiasm and mediocre results. I have little to no interests/perspectives in life.


My opinion on gatekeeping due to age: When you reach a certain age you know that it's definetely over, but even prior to reaching that age you can accurately estimate how your life is going to turn out.

 

[Yerberito]

Im not a oldcel

 

[Iercel]

ok some brutal rejections ngl, but to how would you all cope. Especially the youngcels.

There will come a time when the new video game isnt enough and looking at porn doesnt do it anymore.
At the same time you are exposed to people which are having more "fun" than you will ever have through social media.

How can someone still work/live his life when he reaches such state.

 

[cryptic__egg]

I has an attempt at socializing with foids normally, waiting for an opportunity to get close enough for dating. Dating was never the explicit reason for the friendship, but I was trying to give myself a chance. I quickly realized that foids rejected me instantly even on a platonic level. None of them had any interest in any closeness with me.

 

[Deleted member 18193]

I was pretty low inhib back then - i just didnt get why i was being rejected until i figured out i was ugly