When you fail, you need to look back on how you could have done things differently

[Harvester]

And realize how inevitable it was that you fail due to luck and genetics, how chads and successful people didn't have to go through the same struggles, how if you looked at it objectively your failure was inevitable due to things that you can't change such as genetics and luck.

You can realize your genetics are worse, but can do nothing to change them.

You can realize your luck is worse, that it's consistently worse, but can't do anything to change it because it's absurd.