When I feel great and "confident", people threat me completely differently

[Inceljoe]

Is this just coping or am I on to something here?

The very few days, maybe once a month, where I feel very good about myself. Driven, "confident", assertive and just "on point", people threat me so good, both men and women. They smile, look me in the eyes, threat me with respect, like I am somebody of worth.

But all the other days, when I feel depressed and like a low status monkey, just low mood, people want absolutely nothing to do with me, men and women.

What is going on here?

 

[lightskin2thousand0]

subconscious signals none of us can notice influence how normies act, they are beasts of instinct, while we can only see face value of people’s actions, they can see through people, i think it’s pheromones

 

[Giegue]

Is this bait

 

[Inceljoe]

subconscious signals none of us can notice influence how normies act, they are beasts of instinct, while we can only see face value of people’s actions, they can see through people, i think it’s pheromones

I think this is true. cause I cannot fake this.

On the days I feel shitty, I cannot fake feeling good, no one buys into it, they look at me like im some weirdo.

But when I feel on top of the hill, its like people just gravitate and wanna be in my presence, its weird as fuck. Is it some primal status-signal thing going on, with neurotransmittors or whatever?

 

[Kiko12]

Is this just coping or am I on to something here?

The very few days, maybe once a month, where I feel very good about myself. Driven, "confident", assertive and just "on point", people threat me so good, both men and women. They smile, look me in the eyes, threat me with respect, like I am somebody of worth.

But all the other days, when I feel depressed and like a low status monkey, just low mood, people want absolutely nothing to do with me, men and women.

What is going on here?

Nothing , its true that if your confident and assertive people will precive you in a diffrent way ... but to this to work in a romantic situation you have to add minimal look ( normie) ... but i could be wrong here that just my opinion from observations

 

[Inceljoe]

Nothing , its true that if your confident and assertive people will precive you in a diffrent way ... but to this to work in a romantic situation you have to add minimal look ( normie) ... but i could be wrong here that just my opinion from observations

yes Im not talking in romantic ways now, just how all kinds of people threat you.

 

[lightskin2thousand0]

I think this is true. cause I cannot fake this.

On the days I feel shitty, I cannot fake feeling good, no one buys into it, they look at me like im some weirdo.

But when I feel on top of the hill, its like people just gravitate and wanna be in my presence, its weird as fuck. Is it some primal status-signal thing going on, with neurotransmittors or whatever?

yes, importantly it’s proof that “work on your personality” simply doesn’t work,

 

[Inceljoe]

yes, importantly it’s proof that “work on your personality” simply doesn’t work,

yes, its just brain chemicals, maybe drugs can help with this, or SSRIs or anabolic steroids or something

 

[Deleted member 18214]

Its a placebo

 

[Kiko12]

That why i advoce people here to look at those stacys in the eyes when you talk to them or interact in someway with them .. i doesnt matter if she hes not attracted to you .. you will earn respect by submitting her feminime mind to your musculine presence .. hold your ground ..always

 

[WawelDragon1683]

If i act confident everybody goes out of their way to bring me down by mocking me. That's why i barely speak anymore. It's better to be ignored by everyone than ruthlessly mocked.

 

[Deleted member 1042]

I made a similar thread a while back. After intense working out, exercise, I find ppl treat me better. It's honestly confusing. Everyone thinks it's cope. Could be a delusion. Dunno.

 

[Ellsworth]

Girls still don’t want to fuck you.

 

[sub8male]

Is this just coping or am I on to something here?

The very few days, maybe once a month, where I feel very good about myself. Driven, "confident", assertive and just "on point", people threat me so good, both men and women. They smile, look me in the eyes, threat me with respect, like I am somebody of worth.

But all the other days, when I feel depressed and like a low status monkey, just low mood, people want absolutely nothing to do with me, men and women.

What is going on here?

You are just perceiving the same behavior differently. It’s just a way of coping by your mind percieveing things differently. “Confidence” won’t cause foids to fuck you though.

 

[Inceljoe]

I made a similar thread a while back. After intense working out, exercise, I find ppl treat me better. It's honestly confusing. Everyone thinks it's cope. Could be a delusion. Dunno.

Same here. Its not even about faking, you cannot fake it, its literally your brain chemicals making your every little movement a way where people like you more

 

[sub8male]

I made a similar thread a while back. After intense working out, exercise, I find ppl treat me better. It's honestly confusing. Everyone thinks it's cope. Could be a delusion. Dunno.

 

[lightskin2thousand0]

yes, its just brain chemicals, maybe drugs can help with this, or SSRIs or anabolic steroids or something

yes, i think that’s a possible way

 

[Inceljoe]

How is it amongs other primates etc? Amongs monkeys, if you give them neurotransmitters, or change their brain chemicals, do other apes threat them differently?

 

[Deleted member 1042]

You are just perceiving the same behavior differently. It’s just a way of coping by your mind percieveing things differently. “Confidence” won’t cause foids to fuck you though.

It's not perception. Ppl do treat me better. You know in my other threads I talk about ppl ignoring me or frowning. People literally do the opposite. Nothing to do with sex. Just the way ppl treat you.

 

[sub8male]

It's not perception. Ppl do treat me better. You know in my other threads I talk about ppl ignoring me or frowning. People literally do the opposite. Nothing to do with sex. Just the way ppl treat you.

Do foids smile at you?

 

[Deleted member 1042]

Do foids smile at you?

When I am confident and exude happiness, genuinely of course. I cannot fake properly.

 

[Hail The Bloatlord]

it might be their reaction to your behaviour, it might be just how you see things when not depressed. We can't really know what reality is like...

 

[Inceljoe]

Maybe this explains why I see foids and other men being nice to ugly guys I know too, but those ugly guys are happy and feel good, while me, I feel shit.

Ofcourse they wont fuck them, but they threat them like human beings and a part of the group. Me? Im never part of the group, only once in a blue moon when I feel great, people threat me good and wanna talk to me, are nice to me etc.

We are truly screwed, this is much deeper than our appearance, its in our brains, our chemicals.

 

[The Abyss]

Pheromones, facial expressions & body language, eye contact? Stuff that goes over the head of your average Autist.

 

[Ropemaxx]

OBVIOUSLY people are going to react different to you if you feel good, positive and happy rather than depression, anxiety and introversion. We feel what others feel.

However this is not about attraction like puas want you to believe. A clown makes people feel good, but they are not sexy.

 

[Inceljoe]

OBVIOUSLY people are going to react different to you if you feel good, positive and happy rather than depression, anxiety and introversion. We feel what others feel.

However this is not about attraction like puas want you to believe. A clown makes people feel good, but they are not sexy.

alright, yeah im not talking about being sexy here, just acknowledged and respected like a human being

 

[Deleted member 19546]

Yes I see this too.

Only applies to men though, we are not allowed to be sad or depressed.

Foids on the other hand, cut themselves and threaten suicide and only get more attention.

 

[Inceljoe]

Yes I see this too.

Only applies to men though, we are not allowed to be sad or depressed.

Foids on the other hand, cut themselves and threaten suicide and only get more attention.

yep. Depressed foid? Everyone comes to the rescue. Depressed male? Fucking loser, they spit at you.

Males need to be upbeat and confident 24/7, cuz when they arent, people are disgusted by them.

 

[Antisocialloner]

It's in your head. People still wouldn't go out of their way to include you....or me.

 

[Inceljoe]

It's in your head. People still wouldn't go out of their way to include you....or me.

I dont think I agree.

 

[Deleted member 21883]

Freudian slip in the title.

 

[starystulejarz]

Its a placebo

 

[zombie]

Everyone treats me well except for girls

 

[Deleted member 11032]

That why i advoce people here to look at those stacys in the eyes when you talk to them or interact in someway with them .. i doesnt matter if she hes not attracted to you .. you will earn respect by submitting her feminime mind to your musculine presence .. hold your ground ..always

Just hold frame bro lol.

 

[needsolution]

my jaw too narrow to be confident

 

[PM_ME_STRIPPERS]

COPE

 

[Deleted member 16624]

Is this bait