When did you verdict that you're incel?

[kantero]

It's obvious, that some factors make people thinking from childhood or teens that they're kinda "not good enough" and after years they realise that they're incels. But at what age you can be sure for 120% that u won't "hit puberty", "grow", "broaden clavicles" etc?

 

[Enigmatic]

At birth

 

[Deleted member 2119]

16

 

[Kointo1]

Once I had the cognitive ability to remember and think.

 

[opsec]

cope

 

[Deleted member 3129]

16

 

[Deleted member 3129]

but i knew since about... 11

 

[kantero]

cope

What do u exactly mean by this? How it considered to be cope if there's nothing to?

 

[opsec]

What do u exactly mean by this? How it considered to be cope if there's nothing to?

o shit i replied to the wrong thread lelz.

idk, bascially everything ever is major cope bc its over anyway

 

[TheRealChincel]

I was 14, that’s when I knew it was over.

 

[kantero]

I was 14, that’s when I knew it was over.

What happened to you and what's your age now, if u don't mind?

 

[kantero]

but i knew since about... 11

u really knew this since 11?

 

[Deleted member 3129]

u really knew this since 11?

yes cause of my underbite i knew i was lower than everyone else

 

[TheRealChincel]

What happened to you and what's your age now, if u don't mind?

I’m 30+, when I was 14, this group of senior girls fauxflirted (mock flirted) with me, one girl said my name seductively and kept on biting her lip. I knew it was BS due to being built like this:

 

[kantero]

I’m 30+, when I was 14, this group of senior girls fauxflirted (mock flirted) with me, one girl said my name seductively and kept on biting her lip. I knew it was BS due to being built like this:

In terms of chad theory and being sexually succesfull at 2018 ur not "hot", but man, from my perspective, u are pretty average overall. U don't have wide hips (it doesn't look like that at clothes for me), ur neck is pretty ok. It's just your longish midface and it's better to have wider shoulders and bones maybe (if analyzed in parts). But i'm not fem anyway...

 

[TheRealChincel]

In terms of chad theory and being sexually succesfull at 2018 ur not "hot", but man, from my perspective, u are pretty average overall. U don't have wide hips (it doesn't look like that at clothes for me), ur neck is pretty ok. It's just your longish midface and it's better to have wider shoulders and bones maybe (if analyzed in parts). But i'm not fem anyway...

That’s not me in the pic just what my build was like.

 

[kantero]

That’s not me in the pic just what my build was like.

This frame is pretty average for that age, if u meant that. But yes, there is always bigger fish with better build.

 

[TheRealChincel]

This frame is pretty average for that age, if u meant that. But yes, there is always bigger fish with better build.

Well, I handled it as I did and am a truecel for life, oh well.

 

[_incelinside]

I knew me and females will be extremely unlikely to work since I was like 10

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

When I realized I was too ugly in my teens. And this is further reinstated by females avoiding me in public when I'm just walking down the street. It's over.

 

[TheVman]

When I went through my entire sixth form being complete ignored by girls there.

except for the occasional ones calling you cute and that romanian girl touching you and getting matches on tinder like you always brag on discord?

 

[kantero]

What do u mean by "girls avoid me"? They don't answer when u question them about smth or they just bypasses while walking?

 

[ICanOnlyFapToBDSM]

i cant call myself anything but an incel without looking like im coping or lying to myself for being a 21 year old virgin

 

[TheVman]

She wasn’t touching me. She was tidying up my collar because I’m too autistic to dress myself properly

Stop trying to twist what actually occurred

dawwwww

 

[GaelicIrish]

Around 16, it actually is easier when you accept who you are rather than trying to be cool like when I was 14/15, it was stressful. Of course when you look back you could think you could have tried harder to be normal but it wasn't in my genes to be normal,

 

[jackbud]

when I was like 14

 

[theultimate341]

After high school second year of college

 

[grayjedi90]

It's obvious, that some factors make people thinking from childhood or teens that they're kinda "not good enough" and after years they realise that they're incels. But at what age you can be sure for 120% that u won't "hit puberty", "grow", "broaden clavicles" etc?

I would say to know if you are a truecel you must try improving yourself until you are about 25. If by then you still struggle it's obvious that you are doomed to be incel.

 

[Deleted member 3900]

13 all my friends and i mean all my friends at least dated a girl while i did nothing
ITS OVER

 

[nigger]

Most people find out during puberty, it makes or breaks you.

 

[itsOVER]

19

 

[Braincel14w]

I would say to know if you are a truecel you must try improving yourself until you are about 25. If by then you still struggle it's obvious that you are doomed to be incel.

100% this.
I always delayed realising it was over through my teens because of achne ("once my achne goes away I'll be a slayer") then in my twenties being unemployed and overweight ("once I get a job and get in shape I'll be a slayer"). Overcame all those things but it didn't help at all and so I knew it was over. In my 30s now grey and balding so not so easy to delude myself that it'll get better.