My mother is only willing to be generous to me when she’s pushing a topic on me and she’s only generous because she expects something in return. It’s taught by wise people that just because someone is generous does not mean you can sum them up as good so you always have to process the reason as to why someone is generous.
When ever I decline one of her offers she keeps pushing me in to accepting the offer and when I politely ask her to stop she gets really annoyed at me for example she asks me what I’m having for dinner and when I decline fast food she has a go at me for it it’s like she can’t handle someone politely telling her not to bother them she takes offense to it. It’s basic common sense that when someone politely declines an offer you don’t go on to push them in to accepting.
When ever it’s evident they’re is a problem my mother disregards it for example she’s seen me topless and I do have a gynocomastia problem so when she offered me a holiday I said I wanted gyno surgery and then she just completely Denys I even have gyno and says no doctor will pay for it so I’m ok with the fact that she’ll never financially help me with gyno surgery yet she will offer me a holiday it’s like she wants to be bossy about what she offers to people.
I am abit chubby my body is soft and flabby I’m sixty five kilos when I weighed my self in hospital when breaking my arm my mum said I was skinny when it’s obvious I’m abit chubby what is wrong with her she just wants to deny evident problems and create more problems to tell me off for. It only gets worse as I go on this rant.
I was driving my mother to see a lawyer and in the car she says to me “ what do you remember about your father ?” . I never really liked my father that much he was quite horrible to me so I brought up a memory about how my father beat me up for not being able to tell the time when I was a kid so my mother gaslights me and says it’s a false memory. That is a horrible way to respond to someone about something horrible that happened.
When ever I decline one of her offers she keeps pushing me in to accepting the offer and when I politely ask her to stop she gets really annoyed at me for example she asks me what I’m having for dinner and when I decline fast food she has a go at me for it it’s like she can’t handle someone politely telling her not to bother them she takes offense to it. It’s basic common sense that when someone politely declines an offer you don’t go on to push them in to accepting.
When ever it’s evident they’re is a problem my mother disregards it for example she’s seen me topless and I do have a gynocomastia problem so when she offered me a holiday I said I wanted gyno surgery and then she just completely Denys I even have gyno and says no doctor will pay for it so I’m ok with the fact that she’ll never financially help me with gyno surgery yet she will offer me a holiday it’s like she wants to be bossy about what she offers to people.
I am abit chubby my body is soft and flabby I’m sixty five kilos when I weighed my self in hospital when breaking my arm my mum said I was skinny when it’s obvious I’m abit chubby what is wrong with her she just wants to deny evident problems and create more problems to tell me off for. It only gets worse as I go on this rant.
I was driving my mother to see a lawyer and in the car she says to me “ what do you remember about your father ?” . I never really liked my father that much he was quite horrible to me so I brought up a memory about how my father beat me up for not being able to tell the time when I was a kid so my mother gaslights me and says it’s a false memory. That is a horrible way to respond to someone about something horrible that happened.
