What's the problem of being an incel beyond social pressure?

[PersonaPimp]

Do you really want sex that much? We can dedicate our lives to studies, to knowledge, with so much information that we have today.


You can talk about married life, but even for chads this has become something complicated.


and if the incels crisis, it's not about sex, but a crisis in community life

 

[IncelCatechumen]

I completely agree with you. The problem is not sexelesness, the problem is that we live in a regime of sexual compulsion that makes sense the norm which then turns the sexless to be "abnormal." It is this feeling of abnormality the root of all our problems.

The community life crisis is important as well, but the incel crisis should not be reduced to that (since you are still identifying the issue with sexlesness to a certain extent, i.e., i have no sex bc social ties are weak). Although it might be possible to affirm that there is a crisis of loneliness (including male friends), which might be a possibility but then we are not talking about just incels but rather society at large,.

 

[PersonaPimp]

I completely agree with you. The problem is not sexelesness, the problem is that we live in a regime of sexual compulsion that makes sense the norm which then turns the sexless to be "abnormal." It is this feeling of abnormality the root of all our problems.

The community life crisis is important as well, but the incel crisis should not be reduced to that (since you are still identifying the issue with sexlesness to a certain extent, i.e., i have no sex bc social ties are weak). Although it might be possible to affirm that there is a crisis of loneliness (including male friends), which might be a possibility but then we are not talking about just incels but rather society at large,.

We live under the dictatorship of the nymphomaniacs
Anyone who does not have such a vocation is dehumanized


Right here in this forum I guarantee that we can meet many brilliant and talented minds, who are overshadowed and marginalized by an inhuman and sick society.

 

[IncelCatechumen]

We live under the dictatorship of the nymphomaniacs
Anyone who does not have such a vocation is dehumanized


Right here in this forum I guarantee that we can meet many brilliant and talented minds, who are overshadowed and marginalized by an inhuman and sick society.

Yes. We need to thanks the queers of Stonewall.

The weird thing is that in first world societies there are counter-forces have an appearance of promoting sexual restraint while simultaneously promoting and turning sex into some casual event (affirmative consent laws in US universities are example of this), which creates an schizophrenic situation that is hard to navigate.

I wrote an article discussing this topic: https://incels.is/threads/the-only-solution-to-inceldom-compulsory-asexuaility.319363/