Experiment whats the longest you've had your onetises?

[catfishman23]

Well back in high school I used to crush on a girl for 6 months straight.

After I got older it started to dwindle down.

Now when I see a girl I just dont even bother to garner any feelings knowing ill get put in the friendzone.

What about you all?

 

[NoMoreSlaving]

Never got that

 

[randomcel92]

4 months

 

[StormlitAqua]

I still regularly think about my last one, and it's been more than two years since I've seen her. I liked her for about a year or more before than, making it about 3 or so. I am far too blackpilled now to likely ever have another one, so I will never grow or move past this woman. Like when a family dog dies, you get a new one. I can't get a new one, so I will lament her for a while, at least until I ascend... if I ever do.

She's likely miscegenated since I've seen her, probably no longer virgin. Probably left the Faith and no longer has interest in being a mother. That may be a cope though, for having missed a chance at such a valuable girl. She wasn't interested though.

 

[Inceldo]

Dont have oneitis

But i've had my imaginary gf for around 10-11 years

 

[ShadowMonk]

It's been 10 years since my last oneitis.
I only had 3 in my lifetime. They all lasted aproximate 3 months.

 

[Angryatsociety]

I had one for two years it was a the hardest thing to let go everytime she didint want me talking to her for no reason I'd go to the side of the building and cry the worst part of it was that she's was my looksmatch and had a mental thing so I would have hoped she would have understood my asphergers. Being denied from her was a big blow to everything I thought I had going for me, after that I tried to find purpose in other things like reserching killers and news events to just have my brain clouded out from my depression and emptyness and from Elliot Rodger I eventually found the blackpill and took it. Now here I am on a fourm thinking wheather or not I should off myself soon coming up or deal with the never ending barrage of mishaps and disappointments along with unfulfilled needs.

 

[StaroRavager]

I had one throughout the duration of high school

 

[nxdismycope]

when i was 18 i had (my first) female friend. i was legit crazy for her she was nice and cute af. after 4~5 months of talking daily and sending pics (she had bf so it was all as "friends") one day i went banana on her.
i guess i was just mad cuz i knew im not so important to her. i had her and like 5-6 male friends while she had tons of male and female friends + a bf. she legit had at least 20-30 male friends because everyone wanted to talk to her.
after we argued we stopped talking (also HS was over so i didnt saw her anymore after the last day of school.)
anyway, for the next 14-16 months i legit thought about her HOURS everyday.
imagined she's in my room and shit. was legit very close to roping couple of times. once i even took a bus i thought she will be in just to see her (she wasnt there and i got off after 1 station.).
that shit was like 3-4 years ago and still everytime she upload a pic to her fb (every couple of months) i get some of those feels back.
moral of the story - DONT FUCKING EVER HAVE ONEITIS. it was the worst period of my life.

 

[Grotesque]

I've had my current oneitis since July 2016. She hates me. I hate her.

The longest was a 4/10 girl that played tennis with me and was nice to me a few times. That lasted from like 2001-2006. I think she's still available, which continues to haunt me.

 

[ValiantThor2]

My current one has been since late 2017. Although she doesnt know I exist so i might have to kill her. P.S look at the number of my messages when I made this post.

 

[PersonalityChad]

Never had one. Feels good.

 

[Clock Tower]

one full year

 

[Insomniac]

Never because I'm not a cuck.

 

[Guest2]

Never because I'm not a cuck.

Same tbh. Attraction turns straight into anger and hatred for me.

 

[Father_Gascoigne]

Never because I'm not a cuck

 

[SchrodingersDick]

10 years. Since I was 15. High school oneitis. She was a good girl in high school. But I later found out she was getting fucked a parties by random guys, drinking cum, and doing anal. Still though, I wish I could go back and make her my gf and then maybe she wouldn’t have become public property and I wouldn’t have been sad and alone.

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

A couple of years.

 

[catfishman23]

I still regularly think about my last one, and it's been more than two years since I've seen her. I liked her for about a year or more before than, making it about 3 or so. I am far too blackpilled now to likely ever have another one, so I will never grow or move past this woman. Like when a family dog dies, you get a new one. I can't get a new one, so I will lament her for a while, at least until I ascend... if I ever do.

She's likely miscegenated since I've seen her, probably no longer virgin. Probably left the Faith and no longer has interest in being a mother. That may be a cope though, for having missed a chance at such a valuable girl. She wasn't interested though.

Yea mine was pretty bad, literally had the biggest crush on her basically broke down cried for a day.

Shit was horrible

 

[IronMike]

My first oneitis was back in 2nd grade. I liked her until 4th. So about 2 years

 

[Deleted member 6470]

Never because I'm not a cuck.

This.

 

[ICanOnlyFapToBDSM]

I had a oneitis for about 9-10 years. To this day i still feel she was NAWALT but its stupid to think about because shes probably getting anal fucked by some asshole with sleeve tattoos right now.

 

[Reprobus]

Only when I was in highschool and I talked to a girl that ended up moving and didnt like me as it turned out. I still felt for her for a while

 

[Ryo_Hazuki]

I've had 3 in my life. One in middle school (and a little after) one in high school, and one just after high school.

Shortest was 2 years, longest was almost 4. Haven't had a oneitis in over a decade now though.

The longest was a 4/10 girl that played tennis with me and was nice to me a few times.

Yeah, two out of the three oneitises I had were, objectively speaking, 4/10. I think this is a common thing for men in general, but especially incels. It's partially the illusion of attainability.

The last oneitis I had was a chubby girl with acne. She was in the same social circle as me, and unlike almost every other girl i've shared a social circle with, she was actually nice to me and willing to talk to me. Pretty much every other girl i've shared a social circle with completely ignored me at best, or actively tried to push me out of the group at worst. So naturally having a girl in the same social circle as me actually be nice to me and talk to me led me to falling in love with her.

She got a lot (and I mean A LOT) of attention from guys so I wasn't even going to bother asking her out until a friend convinced me to. Needless to say, she rejected me. Shortly after that she got with a 8/10 guy with rich parents and last I heard they got married.

 

[thePhantom]

5 years.

 

[StormlitAqua]

Never because I'm not a cuck.

This.

Low IQ post. Having a oneitis is symptom of being human i.e. no one was born with the blackpill.

Agreed. Terribly low intelligence quotient to say that you are a cuck if you have had a oneitis in the past. I wasn't blackpilled until around 20 or 21, leaving me with 2 decades of bluepilled hiostory. I know most people here are kids/college aged at best, and I'm happy these people have seen the light so soon, but some of us were not so lucky.

IMO there are also a few remote good reasons to have oneitises, even with a proper blackpill understanding. For example, a virgin woman.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

extremely long time, many years

the only cure is seeing them fat and old on fb or something

 

[InsanityIsThisWorld]

Since may. No cure for it. I hate her so much but its hard. I know she never will date me so its fine

 

[Sparrow's Song]

The longest I'll run a simulation through the software is about 14 seconds, a vast a majority are discarded within 1.6 seconds.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

IMO there are also a few remote good reasons to have oneitises, even with a proper blackpill understanding. For example, a virgin woman.

agreed, also a girl that only had 2 LTRs and no one night stands is basically a virgin in 2018

 

[Cuyen]

>having onetises

 

[Remyx]

Never got that

 

[BeefRamen]

3 months. Luckily I haven't crushed on girls since my teenage years. It's the worst fucking feeling.

 

[ordinaryotaku]

5 years.

 

[TINMAN]

I had a oneitis for 3-4 years back when I was still completely oblivious.

 

[incels.REEEE]

Well back in high school I used to crush on a girl for 6 months straight.

After I got older it started to dwindle down.

Now when I see a girl I just dont even bother to garner any feelings knowing ill get put in the friendzone.

What about you all?

12 years

 

[texascurrycel]

Met a white girl in central Texas back in 2012. I will never stop thinking about her until the day I die.

 

[Weeee]

never had a crush tbh

 

[quinn24]

none because 3D foids are not worth that

 

[Mainländer]

My longest one lasted 4 years, from 2012 to 2016. After that it slowly faded.

 

[Blackpilled-cel]

I've had my current oneitis since July 2016. She hates me. I hate her.

The longest was a 4/10 girl that played tennis with me and was nice to me a few times. That lasted from like 2001-2006. I think she's still available, which continues to haunt me.

Imagine trying to get with a girl for years and years and never getting her ahahahahahahhaha no no over just rope FUCK FUCK, this is why I never developed a oneitis since elementary school fuarkkk

 

[Templarcel421]

Oneitis is the biggest curse on the planet. Mainly because it causes you to conjure up an image or personality of that person that isn’t the real them. So you fantasize about this perceived person you want to be with. Then, inevitably, they do something that shatters that image (like bang a bbc or get a boyfriend) and you are left with two choices.

Either you continue to cope and tell yourself big lies like “maybe they aren’t actually having sex”’and “ maybe this relationship won’t last” or you have to mourn the loss and try to move past, depressed beyond belief that you will not acquire oneitis and that she isn’t what you thought. This can lead to a spiral where you doubt yourself and begin pushing others away.

 

[YungCell]

I remember in middle school I had oneitis for almost a year, luckily I never pursued though. I had a couple of crush-lites here and there in highschool, I remember one was around 3-5 months and the rest were a month or two at most. I think I've had 4 in my entire life.
>Never had one after I became officially blackpilled, not sure how I could tbh.

 

[Yuhuhu]

I had one. She was beautiful and above all, nice to me. It was back in 8th grade and when everyone used to mock me and stuff for being autistic, she didn't.

I mean, it probably was basic human decency but still...she later got caught making out with three dudes in a party and got expelled. And the last time I met her she didn't recognize me.

This is the power women have over men. They can talk for a minute with one of them over a month period and leave a sea-deep impression. While women never really get those impressions on their minds.

 

[Sadist]

2-3 years in HS.

 

[1984cel]

Never had one. Feels good.

lol at op not including a no option

 

[catfishman23]

lol at op not including a no option

You always have a oneitis its fact

 

[anon]

I had a crush on a few girls back in elementary school, never for more than a few months. I stopped getting crushes in high school. Why? Because in elementary/middle school, a girl I had a crush on got a boyfriend. I felt cucked and I just stopped caring. I didn't want to continue being a cuck.

 

[TheRealChincel]

You always have a oneitis its fact

No...I would think about multiple females.