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ADHD_cel
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The more I think about my past the more I feel like breaking all contacts with them except my mom, kek
Ngl I don’t really miss anyone in life because nobody has really treated me well. Well my mom kinda spoiled me but at the same time she was an enabler for my abusive dad. Now I send her messages wishing my dad’s family to die out from time to time. She becomes instantly pissed but will beg me for replies if I ignore her for days, kekdo you mean not having contacts with parents?
i don't and the last time i saw them was a year ago, it dosen't feel good to do something like this but i don't miss them a lot in fact i feel some kind of releif that i left them and went my own way
releif
Yes. When I was a young child, I'd get into arguments with my half-cousins due to their "favoritism". I once criticized my half-cousin after we visited my half-uncle's apartment in downtown Milwaukee. Her mother said this:
"Hey, Intellau!, Well, you know what? You can leave!"
I was licking a battery as she said it.
JFL...Mother asked me to pander to my intellectually-disabled younger half-cousin...His dyslexic Mother is too incompetent to teach him basic knowledge.
They were openly denigrating myself and Mother whenever I'd visit. It was never voluntary.
"Intellau's mother is a leech"
"Intellau's mother is a cow"
"Intellau's mother sits around all day doing nothing" (Except for the cooking, cleaning, spending time with her mother, buying things for her mother...)
"I'll go inside" (Intellau decided to go fetch his mother since he realized how selfish and impatient his half-relatives were)
"Intellau's mother is always sick. Maybe she should stop visiting restaurants"
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Yes...very unfortunate.
Myself(30X Whole Genome Sequencing):
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Mother(Genotyping):
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https://www.ahajournals.org/doi/10.1161/CIRCGEN.118.002192
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Lol I will break all contact with my immediate family including my mom, stepsiblings, stepmom, and dad after how they treated me all these years.The more I think about my past the more I feel like breaking all contacts with them except my mom, kek
I think I shouldnt completely cut them off but I still need to leech off them for money occasionally so I just ignore them for a long period of time.It's a personal choice. It should be the last measure you take. If you feel like your parents don't add anything good to your life and only bring negatives, it's not that bad to cut them off. Or at least don't interact with them for prolonged periods of time.
Theyre tired of hearing about my nose so they havent texted me in like 15 days now or soThe more I think about my past the more I feel like breaking all contacts with them except my mom, kek