"Loser." Is what the entire world and every aspect of your existence will scream at you until the day you die. Just because you were born with a touch of social awkwardness, just because you can't look at people in the eyes without feeling anxiety, just because you look a bit effeminate, just because you were born with genetics that make you obese and riddled with acne, just because you were born with an Autism Spectrum Disorder...
You get nothing.
Other peers will ostracise and deprive you of all of the joys and natural pleasures of life that they get to experience. You're just a bit different? Oh no, that means you have to be quarantined and left out of all of the social groups in school. You're forced to eat your lunch in the bathroom, alone. You're not invited to that kid's birthday party. Girls shriek and physically recoil at the slightest thought of wanting to share any intimacy with you. Very few people will ever understand the sheer magnitude of how powerful and devastating social ostracization in one's most formative years of life (adolescence) can truly be. Simply because the vast majority of people are mindless zombies and do not care.
For people who just learning about Inceldom and are searching through our forum right now, and who are not mindless zombies (though that would be very few of you); please, I implore you to read this book by Dr. Brian Gilmartin. Shyness & Love: Causes, Consequences, and Treatment. It's a 1987 publication that offers a very insightful look into the plights and social stigma of those who are involuntarily celibate.
Here's a download link: www.love-shy.com/gilmartin_book/download.php?downloadbook=true
You get nothing.
Other peers will ostracise and deprive you of all of the joys and natural pleasures of life that they get to experience. You're just a bit different? Oh no, that means you have to be quarantined and left out of all of the social groups in school. You're forced to eat your lunch in the bathroom, alone. You're not invited to that kid's birthday party. Girls shriek and physically recoil at the slightest thought of wanting to share any intimacy with you. Very few people will ever understand the sheer magnitude of how powerful and devastating social ostracization in one's most formative years of life (adolescence) can truly be. Simply because the vast majority of people are mindless zombies and do not care.
For people who just learning about Inceldom and are searching through our forum right now, and who are not mindless zombies (though that would be very few of you); please, I implore you to read this book by Dr. Brian Gilmartin. Shyness & Love: Causes, Consequences, and Treatment. It's a 1987 publication that offers a very insightful look into the plights and social stigma of those who are involuntarily celibate.
Here's a download link: www.love-shy.com/gilmartin_book/download.php?downloadbook=true
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