Serious What's One Life Advice that you Could Give to a Fellow Brocel

[Hombre]

I know that we sometimes discuss how life is meaningless, that nothing really matters, and that it's over. However, there are still some ways in which one could improve one's situation. It doesn't have to be just with regards to relationships, but in any other aspect of life.

I was wondering if you have one life advice, something valuable that you have learned in life that might help someone in need.

 

[0fflinemode]

dont be a fucking door mat

 

[Koruga]

On the other side of the ocean is freedom, is what I always thought, but what awaits us on the other side of the ocean, are millions of enemies. Tell me, if we kill all our enemies, will we finally be free?
-Eren Jaeger.

 

[Deleted member 776]

I'll take a stab at this. I'm an oldcel.

Don't ever get attached to a oneitis. You give her a ridiculous amount of power and ultimately she is a cheap whore just like every other woman. She will use you and then throw you away. In my opinion it isn't worth it. That said unless you get burned, how will you ever respect fire. Do not ever SIMP for women. They think you're pathetic even though they are happy to use you for convenience.

Get off online dating. Even a lot of Chad-lites are starting to have difficulties. Most of the women on them are bot accounts. You will literally drive yourself insane doing it. I nearly did 5+ years ago what do you think it's like now?

You should find a job. I was NEET for a time when i was a young man. It was awful. Work isn't always a breeze but it's better than being sat around rotting all day. Take it from me as someone who has done both.

Honestly i don't know how many of you on here have friendships with women and are friendzoned but i would recommend cutting off all female relationships and relying on male ones. I've been that guy and i'm better off now for having cut that shit out. I have a few male friends and that is enough. Women are a fucking cancer. They can't ever be calm about things, they always need to create some kind of drama. When i was 17 i had a very rude awakening to what female centric environments get like. It was a bitch fest.

You should seek to master skills so you can rely on yourself. For many many years long before the incelisphere of today would be recognised i was mastering new skills. Everything from electronics, computers, Linux, car repair, firearms. As a low income-cel i often have to rely on my own skills to get me through problems. I work in a technical job but i repair cars as a sort of hobby. I do electronics as a hobby to. Years ago i built myself an electric bike. I mess around with Arduinos and Raspberry Pi's. I do wood working. I'm going to build my own drone next year and get into flying those. Thanks to the internet it has never been easier to access information and learn new skills.

Cars are a great cope. Get a shitbox, learn to maintain it yourself. Nothing better than cruising around in your ride.

Motorbikes are also a great cope. Every guy should ride motorbikes. They really get the testosterone flowing.

Guns. Every guy should shoot guns. They are a great skill to master. Or do archery.

Everyone needs to do some physical exercise. Humans are not designed to vegetate. I ride a bike. I swim.

Go on holiday - solo travel. I can recommend it. As a solo male traveller you can have some insane adventures. I have. Several years ago now i drove around Norway in my rusty old shitbox to the very north and to the Russian border and spent the night camping on a glacier north of the arctic circle. I slept in my car one night. I camped in negative temperatures for several others. You know what kind of holidays you'll have with a woman? Going to some shitty Mediterranean resort where she makes you take loads of pictures of her posing for Instagram. Solo-travelling gets you WAY outside your comfort zone and breeds resilience. You learn to rely on yourself instead of feeling helpless and paralysed. I go camping at least once a year. I quite enjoy camping.

Cut down on your intake of degenerate mainstream culture. Everything we are exposed to is a controlled form of informational warfare. Especially what the algorithms on social media feed you. Not only are these services designed to be addictive they literally have a financial interest in making you feel a certain way so they can feed you ads. Get off Facebook and Twatter or at the very least strictly limit your exposure. Don't watch 99% of TV. Don't watch ads. Seriously most of you guys have no idea what kind of shit media does to you. Same thing with mainstream media - it's literally controlled information warfare designed to feed certain narratives to you that have been decided up on due to decisions taken in a corporate board room somewhere.

You need to read more books. I read history. I read economics and i even read some philosophy. Philosophy is a very useful tool to understand the world. I'm very fond of the concept of stoicism. You see the thing is, many of us are in pain to some degree but when you're emotional you short circuit your higher brains ability to reason and go straight to an emotional response. What you need is to remain cool. You need to be mindful and try to always take a step back at a situation. He is kind of annoying but Stefan Molymeme on YouTube is quite good at doing that. He considers himself a philosopher. Some great economists are philosophers. Thomas Sowel while i disagree with him on many things i find has a near superhuman ability to cut through the bullshit constructs of normies. He is hard to get through but Hayek in many ways was also skilled at that.

Above all i do recommend escortceling. You know most of you guys are obsessed with sex because you have never had it and are missing out on a key part of the adult experience. I have banged so many hookers i can't remember all their names. Most of them were a great lay. You wear a bag. Your chances of catching an infection are significantly lower than trying to pick up tinder sluts and chances are the sex is better in a lot of cases. Most girls just lie there starfish at least some escorts work hard to please you. For many men in many cultures throughout history their introduction to sex likely came in a brothel and the idea of romantic love was almost non existent.

Fact is a lot of you (myself included when i was young) have pussy on the brain. Banging some hookers gets it out of your system. Once you have had sex you realise its not that big of a deal (a realisation you only come to once you have had it ironically) and it will get easier the older you get. Your testosterone will start to drop once you get into your 30's. You don't have the same sex drive you used to have. A lot of you have internalised a cultural narrative that sex is special and you do it with someone you love. This is BULLSHIT. It's some narrative sold to women mainly but it also spills over to us from Disney movies and shitty romance novels that read worse than most fan fiction. Fact is men are the romantics but we're rational enough to be pragmatists about it. Women? Women are the pragmatists who pretend to be romantic. You're nothing but a mark to them. Many of you are in your 20's.

A lot of you are still young, but that Becky you were obsessed with as a teenager and you fapped to every night? Well chances are by now she got fat and Tyrone left her with some mulatto mutts. She was an alpha widow at 14 and thinks of Chad and Tyrone every time she gets on her back for Billy Beta.

 

[Hombre]

I'll take a stab at this. I'm an oldcel.

Don't ever get attached to a oneitis. You give her a ridiculous amount of power and ultimately she is a cheap whore just like every other woman. She will use you and then throw you away. In my opinion it isn't worth it. That said unless you get burned, how will you ever respect fire. Do not ever SIMP for women. They think you're pathetic even though they are happy to use you for convenience.

Get off online dating. Even a lot of Chad-lites are starting to have difficulties. Most of the women on them are bot accounts. You will literally drive yourself insane doing it. I nearly did 5+ years ago what do you think it's like now?

You should find a job. I was NEET for a time when i was a young man. It was awful. Work isn't always a breeze but it's better than being sat around rotting all day. Take it from me as someone who has done both.

Honestly i don't know how many of you on here have friendships with women and are friendzoned but i would recommend cutting off all female relationships and relying on male ones. I've been that guy and i'm better off now for having cut that shit out. I have a few male friends and that is enough. Women are a fucking cancer. They can't ever be calm about things, they always need to create some kind of drama. When i was 17 i had a very rude awakening to what female centric environments get like. It was a bitch fest.

You should seek to master skills so you can rely on yourself. For many many years long before the incelisphere of today would be recognised i was mastering new skills. Everything from electronics, computers, Linux, car repair, firearms. As a low income-cel i often have to rely on my own skills to get me through problems. I work in a technical job but i repair cars as a sort of hobby. I do electronics as a hobby to. Years ago i built myself an electric bike. I mess around with Arduinos and Raspberry Pi's. I do wood working. I'm going to build my own drone next year and get into flying those. Thanks to the internet it has never been easier to access information and learn new skills.

Cars are a great cope. Get a shitbox, learn to maintain it yourself. Nothing better than cruising around in your ride.

Motorbikes are also a great cope. Every guy should ride motorbikes. They really get the testosterone flowing.

Guns. Every guy should shoot guns. They are a great skill to master. Or do archery.

Everyone needs to do some physical exercise. Humans are not designed to vegetate. I ride a bike. I swim.

Go on holiday - solo travel. I can recommend it. As a solo male traveller you can have some insane adventures. I have. Several years ago now i drove around Norway in my rusty old shitbox to the very north and to the Russian border and spent the night camping on a glacier north of the arctic circle. I slept in my car one night. I camped in negative temperatures for several others. You know what kind of holidays you'll have with a woman? Going to some shitty Mediterranean resort where she makes you take loads of pictures of her posing for Instagram. Solo-travelling gets you WAY outside your comfort zone and breeds resilience. You learn to rely on yourself instead of feeling helpless and paralysed. I go camping at least once a year. I quite enjoy camping.

Cut down on your intake of degenerate mainstream culture. Everything we are exposed to is a controlled form of informational warfare. Especially what the algorithms on social media feed you. Not only are these services designed to be addictive they literally have a financial interest in making you feel a certain way so they can feed you ads. Get off Facebook and Twatter or at the very least strictly limit your exposure. Don't watch 99% of TV. Don't watch ads. Seriously most of you guys have no idea what kind of shit media does to you. Same thing with mainstream media - it's literally controlled information warfare designed to feed certain narratives to you that have been decided up on due to decisions taken in a corporate board room somewhere.

You need to read more books. I read history. I read economics and i even read some philosophy. Philosophy is a very useful tool to understand the world. I'm very fond of the concept of stoicism. You see the thing is, many of us are in pain to some degree but when you're emotional you short circuit your higher brains ability to reason and go straight to an emotional response. What you need is to remain cool. You need to be mindful and try to always take a step back at a situation. He is kind of annoying but Stefan Molymeme on YouTube is quite good at doing that. He considers himself a philosopher. Some great economists are philosophers. Thomas Sowel while i disagree with him on many things i find has a near superhuman ability to cut through the bullshit constructs of normies. He is hard to get through but Hayek in many ways was also skilled at that.

Above all i do recommend escortceling. You know most of you guys are obsessed with sex because you have never had it and are missing out on a key part of the adult experience. I have banged so many hookers i can't remember all their names. Most of them were a great lay. You wear a bag. Your chances of catching an infection are significantly lower than trying to pick up tinder sluts and chances are the sex is better in a lot of cases. Most girls just lie there starfish at least some escorts work hard to please you. For many men in many cultures throughout history their introduction to sex likely came in a brothel and the idea of romantic love was almost non existent.

Fact is a lot of you (myself included when i was young) have pussy on the brain. Banging some hookers gets it out of your system. Once you have had sex you realise its not that big of a deal (a realisation you only come to once you have had it ironically) and it will get easier the older you get. Your testosterone will start to drop once you get into your 30's. You don't have the same sex drive you used to have. A lot of you have internalised a cultural narrative that sex is special and you do it with someone you love. This is BULLSHIT. It's some narrative sold to women mainly but it also spills over to us from Disney movies and shitty romance novels that read worse than most fan fiction. Fact is men are the romantics but we're rational enough to be pragmatists about it. Women? Women are the pragmatists who pretend to be romantic. You're nothing but a mark to them. Many of you are in your 20's.

A lot of you are still young, but that Becky you were obsessed with as a teenager and you fapped to every night? Well chances are by now she got fat and Tyrone left her with some mulatto mutts. She was an alpha widow at 14 and thinks of Chad and Tyrone every time she gets on her back for Billy Beta.

I read everything. Thanks for replying, seriously. It is refreshing hearing advice that goes beyond the conventional is over or rope. I like your opinion on mainstream media, which, in my opinion, is extremely damaging both physically and mentally. I like to say that the internet is the best and the worst that was invented. I also like that you provide many activities that do not necessarily rely on validation from others or romantic relationships. Also, being independent, as you say, is really important.

 

[Deleted member 776]

I read everything. Thanks for replying, seriously. It is refreshing hearing advice that goes beyond the conventional is over or rope. I like your opinion on mainstream media, which, in my opinion, is extremely damaging both physically and mentally. I like to say that the internet is the best and the worst that was invented. I also like that you provide many activities that do not necessarily rely on validation from others or romantic relationships. Also, being independent, as you say, is really important.

It really is important to be independent as much as one can be. You're on your own in this life and really you have to accept that and move on from there. Even many people who seem quite socially active and even those that are married. The second they have a reversal of fortune they will be on their own. There might only be one or two people you can count on in this life and it sure as shit won't be a woman. Unless maybe you're related to her and even then its doubtful. Women have evolved to jump from one advantageous situation to the next. They have no fucking concept of loyalty.

I think there are serious issues with the way men are socialised today. My understanding is many of the young people today don't even go outside when growing up. That they just stay inside playing computer games with each other online. You know back in my day if we were going to play computer games we would go over someones house to do it even when xbox live first started to be a thing. I had many fun hours playing Halo or Halo 2 with friends but we did plenty of other stuff. We played sports, climbed trees, did tricks on our bikes. We shot airguns, catapults. Played with fire and fireworks. Messed about in the woods. Got in gang fights with other kids. Hid in the bushes. Cut out of class. It did breed a degree of resilience into us. Fear was a frequent companion.

Most traditional societies had a coming of age ritual where men would go off and do some ridiculously dangerous thing on their own and learn to depend on themselves. These sorts of things are seen in various ape species as well as primitive human cultures. When i was a kid i did some ridiculously dangerous things and got into some dangerous situations and a a guy i went to school with tried to kill me. What do we have today? Fuck all. I mean can you see why so many Muslims went to Syria to fight and play football with the severed heads of Syrian soldiers? Most of those guys were already borderline criminals when they got recruited by people at their mosques. The people who don't understand are the weak soylets crying for free stuff from the goobermint.

Back then i still had living male family members like my grandfathers, great uncle and a great grandfather who had all seen combat in the world wars. I grew up hearing stories of Douglas Baader flying spitfires with his tin legs. Guy Gibson bombing the Rhur dams. My great grandfather won the military medal for bravery in the battle of Amiens. One of my grandfathers won one for bravery at El Alamein. He told me crazy stories about the time him and some chums went AWOL (without the armies knowledge funnily enough) and spent several weeks sailing on the Nile in an improvised boat or some of the crazy shit he got up to in France in 1944 or raiding German munitions factories in 1945 and trying to round up German scientists and wine stashes. To my shame its only as i got older that i realised the value of these kind of experiences and the independent attitude one can develop from them and honestly despite the risks involved it really is one way to make a man out of you and breed a sense of calm and confidence.

When i was a young man i read this great book - Seven Pillars of Wisdom by TE Lawrence. The events of the film Lawrence of Arabia are roughly based on it. This young guy Lawrence being an expert in the middle east basically manages to rouse a guerrilla war by the Arabs against their Turkish masters. He truly did live on the edge for many years fighting and living with an alien people and could have died or been killed any number of times. Honestly his experiences always stick with me. The ability to depend on ones self at all costs.

My problem was i consumed to much modern degenerate main stream culture. In our modern culture god is dead (and i can't really say much as a life long atheist) but the "church" today is effectively the sort of left wing woke culture and in my opinion god is pussy. Everything is subservient to it be it power, money or culture. We worship pussy. Great men of the past wouldn't worship pussy. They would get some filthy tart to suck their cock when they felt like it and some Becky to have his children back home. I rejected leftism and the cult of woke pretty quickly but it took me until my late 20's to reject pussy.

Women are only a very small part of life and they are nothing more than a temporary amusement these days and frankly the ones we have today are fucking trash. You know my grandmas could both cook and they both knew how to make a home and raise a family. What can modern whores do? Most probably couldn't even microwave a fucking curry or load a dishwasher. Most have had so many partners from such a young age they probably lost their ability to pair bond at 16.

I mean we all need to drain our balls into a woman every now and again, but that is what hookers are for.

Fact is we all need to live on the edge a little and get outside of our comfort zone. The sedentary life does us no good.

 

[Deleted member 1983]

its important to sleep for atleast 7 hours

 

[Deleted member 22549]

@commander_zoidberg
God damn, you're as based as it gets. You wrote down almost everything piece of advice i would give, and more. Mods should pin this thread, i'm dead serious. But i still wanted to give one more piece of advice, especially for those of you who are new to the community, especially the lurkers.

Accept things as they are. I know it's sad and unfair that we never experienced intimacy, that we lost out on teen love, that we missed important developmental milestones, and that most of us will never have a serious relationship, marry, have children and all of that, but there is no reason for you to be irrationally pissed about it day in and day out for the remainder of your life.

Blackpill rage is something real, i see it as part of the process of "Taking the Blackpill", and it definitely has it's importance in the rebuild of your blackpilled self, but staying stuck in this specific phase of the process takes a huge toll on one's mental health, and can even make you return to the bluepill as an attempt of coping with the rage, or roping in the worst case scenario.

But you gotta accept that it's over for you, you lost that battle the day you were born, and there is NOTHING you can do about that, being enraged about it just shows your immaturity, as you can't let things go and move on with the rest of your life. As zoidberg stated previously, women nowadays are not that important, because your cute christian chaste tradwife that is loyal, will give you children and be faithful for the rest of their lives DOES NOT EXIST ANYMORE, so now they're nothing more than amusement. You still have a ton of stuff to do, so go ahead and live your life the way you want.

Blackpill rage is the last phase of your blackpill journey, when you get over it, you will finally know that you're fully and irreversably blackpilled. Now that you completely expunged the bluepill from your system, and are free of your irrational delusions and your blinding rage, you will feel free to choose what to do with your life. Maybe you see no purpose in life as a subhuman that will never reproduce, and just go rope or LDAR, and maybe you'll see that you will die alone sooner or later, so why hurry things up, and instead you will appreciate the other parts of your life, the ones that aren't over anyway.

TL;DR: Commander_zoidberg is based, and you gotta take the fucking blackpill already and accept that it's over for you (it never began tbh), stop being upset all the time, and make a decision on what you're going to do with your life.

 

[StormWind]

>no simping
>no oneitus
>don't trust anyone
>don't allow advice unless it's generic or it's from someone whose in your shoes, find out how YOU can cope or possibly ascend

 

[San Salvador]

dont be a fucking door mat

 

[TruestBlackCel]

Always respect yourself and put yourself first, always do what will make you happy and content in life. Also watch peoples actions, not what they say, especially foids.

 

[Deleted member 21908]

I'll take a stab at this. I'm an oldcel.

Don't ever get attached to a oneitis. You give her a ridiculous amount of power and ultimately she is a cheap whore just like every other woman. She will use you and then throw you away. In my opinion it isn't worth it. That said unless you get burned, how will you ever respect fire. Do not ever SIMP for women. They think you're pathetic even though they are happy to use you for convenience.

Get off online dating. Even a lot of Chad-lites are starting to have difficulties. Most of the women on them are bot accounts. You will literally drive yourself insane doing it. I nearly did 5+ years ago what do you think it's like now?

You should find a job. I was NEET for a time when i was a young man. It was awful. Work isn't always a breeze but it's better than being sat around rotting all day. Take it from me as someone who has done both.

Honestly i don't know how many of you on here have friendships with women and are friendzoned but i would recommend cutting off all female relationships and relying on male ones. I've been that guy and i'm better off now for having cut that shit out. I have a few male friends and that is enough. Women are a fucking cancer. They can't ever be calm about things, they always need to create some kind of drama. When i was 17 i had a very rude awakening to what female centric environments get like. It was a bitch fest.

You should seek to master skills so you can rely on yourself. For many many years long before the incelisphere of today would be recognised i was mastering new skills. Everything from electronics, computers, Linux, car repair, firearms. As a low income-cel i often have to rely on my own skills to get me through problems. I work in a technical job but i repair cars as a sort of hobby. I do electronics as a hobby to. Years ago i built myself an electric bike. I mess around with Arduinos and Raspberry Pi's. I do wood working. I'm going to build my own drone next year and get into flying those. Thanks to the internet it has never been easier to access information and learn new skills.

Cars are a great cope. Get a shitbox, learn to maintain it yourself. Nothing better than cruising around in your ride.

Motorbikes are also a great cope. Every guy should ride motorbikes. They really get the testosterone flowing.

Guns. Every guy should shoot guns. They are a great skill to master. Or do archery.

Everyone needs to do some physical exercise. Humans are not designed to vegetate. I ride a bike. I swim.

Go on holiday - solo travel. I can recommend it. As a solo male traveller you can have some insane adventures. I have. Several years ago now i drove around Norway in my rusty old shitbox to the very north and to the Russian border and spent the night camping on a glacier north of the arctic circle. I slept in my car one night. I camped in negative temperatures for several others. You know what kind of holidays you'll have with a woman? Going to some shitty Mediterranean resort where she makes you take loads of pictures of her posing for Instagram. Solo-travelling gets you WAY outside your comfort zone and breeds resilience. You learn to rely on yourself instead of feeling helpless and paralysed. I go camping at least once a year. I quite enjoy camping.

Cut down on your intake of degenerate mainstream culture. Everything we are exposed to is a controlled form of informational warfare. Especially what the algorithms on social media feed you. Not only are these services designed to be addictive they literally have a financial interest in making you feel a certain way so they can feed you ads. Get off Facebook and Twatter or at the very least strictly limit your exposure. Don't watch 99% of TV. Don't watch ads. Seriously most of you guys have no idea what kind of shit media does to you. Same thing with mainstream media - it's literally controlled information warfare designed to feed certain narratives to you that have been decided up on due to decisions taken in a corporate board room somewhere.

You need to read more books. I read history. I read economics and i even read some philosophy. Philosophy is a very useful tool to understand the world. I'm very fond of the concept of stoicism. You see the thing is, many of us are in pain to some degree but when you're emotional you short circuit your higher brains ability to reason and go straight to an emotional response. What you need is to remain cool. You need to be mindful and try to always take a step back at a situation. He is kind of annoying but Stefan Molymeme on YouTube is quite good at doing that. He considers himself a philosopher. Some great economists are philosophers. Thomas Sowel while i disagree with him on many things i find has a near superhuman ability to cut through the bullshit constructs of normies. He is hard to get through but Hayek in many ways was also skilled at that.

Above all i do recommend escortceling. You know most of you guys are obsessed with sex because you have never had it and are missing out on a key part of the adult experience. I have banged so many hookers i can't remember all their names. Most of them were a great lay. You wear a bag. Your chances of catching an infection are significantly lower than trying to pick up tinder sluts and chances are the sex is better in a lot of cases. Most girls just lie there starfish at least some escorts work hard to please you. For many men in many cultures throughout history their introduction to sex likely came in a brothel and the idea of romantic love was almost non existent.

Fact is a lot of you (myself included when i was young) have pussy on the brain. Banging some hookers gets it out of your system. Once you have had sex you realise its not that big of a deal (a realisation you only come to once you have had it ironically) and it will get easier the older you get. Your testosterone will start to drop once you get into your 30's. You don't have the same sex drive you used to have. A lot of you have internalised a cultural narrative that sex is special and you do it with someone you love. This is BULLSHIT. It's some narrative sold to women mainly but it also spills over to us from Disney movies and shitty romance novels that read worse than most fan fiction. Fact is men are the romantics but we're rational enough to be pragmatists about it. Women? Women are the pragmatists who pretend to be romantic. You're nothing but a mark to them. Many of you are in your 20's.

A lot of you are still young, but that Becky you were obsessed with as a teenager and you fapped to every night? Well chances are by now she got fat and Tyrone left her with some mulatto mutts. She was an alpha widow at 14 and thinks of Chad and Tyrone every time she gets on her back for Billy Beta.

great advice man

 

[Ap0calypse]

silence is the biggest indicator of rejection

 

[Billowel]

I know that we sometimes discuss how life is meaningless, that nothing really matters, and that it's over. However, there are still some ways in which one could improve one's situation. It doesn't have to be just with regards to relationships, but in any other aspect of life.

I was wondering if you have one life advice, something valuable that you have learned in life that might help someone in need.

I will always be called a coper in this forum but here is my advice.Find god for only he can save you.You can cope all your life but let's be honest no amount of coping can fix our lifes.It's just like putting a bandaid on a 7 inch wound.It's not going to work.You will go from drink to drink,drug to drug,prostitute to prostitute,from new cope to new cope.In all of those activities,no matter what you do you you will feel a sense of emptiness.No women can ever encapsulate all that is beautiful in this world(though she is a great beauty by herself).No woman will ever save you from death,disease,stupidity,poverty,humiliation etc etc.Man longs for that which is eternal but he also longs for that which is perfect.God is perfect.He has perfect intelligence,perfect goodness,perfect justice etc etc.I know that making your first step to god is hard(before believing i hated god and everything to do with him with ever fibre of my body),but you are simply deluding yourself if you think you can live a fulfilling life without that which is perfect.I am a catholic btw.

 

[0fflinemode]

A lot of you have internalised a cultural narrative that sex is special and you do it with someone you love. This is BULLSHIT. It's some narrative sold to women mainly but it also spills over to us from Disney movies and shitty romance novels that read worse than most fan fiction. Fact is men are the romantics but we're rational enough to be pragmatists about it. Women? Women are the pragmatists who pretend to be romantic. You're nothing but a mark to them. Many of you are in your 20's.

holy this is the smartest shit ive ever read. good comment

 

[Deleted member 776]

@commander_zoidberg
God damn, you're as based as it gets. You wrote down almost everything piece of advice i would give, and more. Mods should pin this thread, i'm dead serious. But i still wanted to give one more piece of advice, especially for those of you who are new to the community, especially the lurkers.

Accept things as they are. I know it's sad and unfair that we never experienced intimacy, that we lost out on teen love, that we missed important developmental milestones, and that most of us will never have a serious relationship, marry, have children and all of that, but there is no reason for you to be irrationally pissed about it day in and day out for the remainder of your life.

Blackpill rage is something real, i see it as part of the process of "Taking the Blackpill", and it definitely has it's importance in the rebuild of your blackpilled self, but staying stuck in this specific phase of the process takes a huge toll on one's mental health, and can even make you return to the bluepill as an attempt of coping with the rage, or roping in the worst case scenario.

But you gotta accept that it's over for you, you lost that battle the day you were born, and there is NOTHING you can do about that, being enraged about it just shows your immaturity, as you can't let things go and move on with the rest of your life. As zoidberg stated previously, women nowadays are not that important, because your cute christian chaste tradwife that is loyal, will give you children and be faithful for the rest of their lives DOES NOT EXIST ANYMORE, so now they're nothing more than amusement. You still have a ton of stuff to do, so go ahead and live your life the way you want.

Blackpill rage is the last phase of your blackpill journey, when you get over it, you will finally know that you're fully and irreversably blackpilled. Now that you completely expunged the bluepill from your system, and are free of your irrational delusions and your blinding rage, you will feel free to choose what to do with your life. Maybe you see no purpose in life as a subhuman that will never reproduce, and just go rope or LDAR, and maybe you'll see that you will die alone sooner or later, so why hurry things up, and instead you will appreciate the other parts of your life, the ones that aren't over anyway.

TL;DR: Commander_zoidberg is based, and you gotta take the fucking blackpill already and accept that it's over for you (it never began tbh), stop being upset all the time, and make a decision on what you're going to do with your life.

Thank you for the complement kind sir.

Yes. Above all. ONE CANNOT LIVE A LIE. One needs solid foundations to build ones life on.

The reason many people who begin the black pill journey are in distress is that some simply do not have the capability to process such horrifyingly existential concepts as the black pill entails. I have been grappling with an existential crisis from a fairly young age but didn't start to get into philosophy in order to help with processing it until a few years ago. I'm technically inclined and think like an engineer so admittedly it doesn't come naturally to me.

It reminds me of a line from Dune by Frank Herbert

"My father told me once that respect for the truth came close to being the basis for all morality. Something cannot emerge from nothing he would say. This is profound thinking if you understand how unstable the truth can be."

If you cannot see the truth of the world then how can you ever understand it or live an effective life? Without accepting the absolute truth of what we call the black pill we would be awash in a sea of subjectivity, that is the average person. Just like our friends at cuck tears. These people who constantly try and shame us and devote most of their free time to mocking and stalking us. You know why? Because most of them are miserable and we defy categorisation and understanding because of our world view. Think about the typical normie on cucktears. What is the highest IQ there? Maybe 110? Average about 100-105. The average on Incels is probably more like 130 (ironically why so many of us have been or are miserable, but thats another topic).

Most of them at cucktears have liberal arts education, a mediocre 9-5 admin job. Their heads got filled with some serious tripe when they were in college/university - critical theory and endless left wing blathering by professors. They read things into situations that do not exist to support their false world view. Critical facets of their world view are simply false and are not based on evidence. Honestly i have to question how old some of them are. I mean it only took me about 6 months when i was a teenager to realise SIMPing doesn't work and a lot of male feminists are creeps with a lot of pent up frustration. Many of these people should have learned better years ago. Which means they either don't know or do know but have cynically doubled down on their failed tactics. To change tactics would challenge their world view. They have never known anything different and either are incapable or scared to deal with larger existential questions. Most of them are probably miserable and on SSRi's. The data for SSRi use in the west is pretty devastating. I was on them myself for a time and i question the humanity of anyone who can remain on them long term.

Now the average real life normie is to an extent just as ignorant as cucktears but without a liberal arts education and an IQ in the 90's they live on in blissful ignorance never fully processing what is going on around them. They drift from situation to situation never fully processing what is happening to them or their life choices. You see this in their choice of partner, their management of money, the unprotected sex they had in highschool. In some ways we both see the worlds in very similar ways not reading into things that aren't there. They also would be quick to identify how pathetic cuck tears are but large existential questions of existence and forward thinking are way out of their wheel house.

My sister is the exact kind of person who would be on cucktears. She is a normie of mediocre intelligence married to a chad-lite, I'm probably the only person who has ever called her out in her life. They both swallowed the filth fed to them in university and yet they have virtually no useful skills, even as adults. My sister in particular is one who cares more about being politically correct and culturally conformist than factually correct and would rather believe the simple stories fed to her by mass media than examine the nuance in issues. My brother in law is actually somewhat more intelligent than she is but he is definitely one of those who ultimately steps back because he can't deal with admitting his world view is wrong. He is also very left wing - again partly due to his lack of useful skills. There is a quote from Thomas Sowell where he basically points out the pointlessness in arguing with these people.

"How often the angry man rages against what he knows to be true."

Basically we happen to exist at a critical juncture in human history. We were born in the death throes of industrial society and are now living to see the post industrial. The future is now. This is as greater paradigm shift as the end of agrarian society and the industrial revolution around 1750. Before that the last major shift in human civilisation was probably the invention of agriculture which allowed the civilisations of antiquity and the middle ages. I could spend hours listing all the downright insane trends we are seeing at the moment. From economics, geopolitics, social and sexual.

Monogamy might have been a characteristic of the previous paradigms but it won't be a characteristic of the post industrial - except for the rump of the middle class - such as what is left of it. Many of you here are clinging to the hope that it's all just a bad dream. I'm sorry to say that it isn't.

Basically gentleman the flight plan your boomer parents gave you is kaput. You are now improvising a new mission. I suggest you deal with it.

Some of you deal with it by retreating into video games, anime and porn and not leaving your basement. Maybe thats ok for you. Maybe you are in serious emotional distress. I certainly know what that is like. That said there is plenty of time left to live and form new experiences.

 

[FIVETHREEBALDCEL]

Don't ever help anyone at your expense, no one can build up gratitude for uglies, they will only see you as a desperate doormat if you do so

 

[Mylo]

On the other side of the ocean is freedom, is what I always thought, but what awaits us on the other side of the ocean, are millions of enemies. Tell me, if we kill all our enemies, will we finally be free?
-Eren Jaeger.

no you will be enslaved to boredom instead.

 

[Saysitsover]

That it’s over

 

[ItsOver4cel]

its important to sleep for atleast 7 hours

can confirm

 

[FinnCel]

You should value yourself and not serve others

 

[Sad_Eunuch]

Think pretty much everything was already said above, but totally agree that you should work and be independent. Living on your own knowing you're self sufficient is a step up from being incel and relying on your parents. Also totally agree with trying an escort. If you get to 25 and the virgin thing still bothers you and consumes you, get an escort at least once just to get the monkey off your back.

 

[Deleted member 23712]

I will always be called a coper in this forum but here is my advice.Find god for only he can save you.You can cope all your life but let's be honest no amount of coping can fix our lifes.It's just like putting a bandaid on a 7 inch wound.It's not going to work.You will go from drink to drink,drug to drug,prostitute to prostitute,from new cope to new cope.In all of those activities,no matter what you do you you will feel a sense of emptiness.No women can ever encapsulate all that is beautiful in this world(though she is a great beauty by herself).No woman will ever save you from death,disease,stupidity,poverty,humiliation etc etc.Man longs for that which is eternal but he also longs for that which is perfect.God is perfect.He has perfect intelligence,perfect goodness,perfect justice etc etc.I know that making your first step to god is hard(before believing i hated god and everything to do with him with ever fibre of my body),but you are simply deluding yourself if you think you can live a fulfilling life without that which is perfect.I am a catholic btw.

Find the real god within your soul.

 

[bignose]

never be a betabux and never have children

 

[Hombre]

I forgot to give an advice, so it is this:

Do you see yourself visiting this forum in 5 or 10 years with the same constancy that you do today?

If you answer that question sincerely, the answer is my life advice.

 

[Billowel]

Thanks, man. I like this advice. Irrespective of what many users think here, I know that what you state is the only way to solve some of the metaphysical problems that affect not only incels but the majority of people today.

Everyone here likes to cope by imagining that chad is living the perfect life when he is simply having a modicum of happiness in comparison with the angels and god.Even a morsel of food the starved man willl idealize and fantasize of eating it.I don't blame them,especially considering that i am a great sinner.

 

[Mylo]

Everything is but a fleeting dream. Don't take it seriously.

 

[Napoleon de Jizzbal]

Tfu on roasties

 

[Hombre]

Everyone here likes to cope by imagining that chad is living the perfect life when he is simply having a modicum of happiness in comparison with the angels and god.Even a morsel of food the starved man willl idealize and fantasize of eating it.I don't blame them,especially considering that i am a great sinner.

I'm a sinner too, man. I'm currently Ina journey of trying to find God. I know that this life is unfair, that looks reign Supreme, and many other things. However, I want to explore religion and see how it can direct my life to more positive things. I'm just being objective nothing else.

 

[Stalin]

I have banged so many hookers i can't remember all their names.

based.

Blackpill rage is the last phase of your blackpill journey, when you get over it, you will finally know that you're fully and irreversably blackpilled. Now that you completely expunged the bluepill from your system, and are free of your irrational delusions and your blinding rage, you will feel free to choose what to do with your life.

Yes it feels like those who rage the most are always half blue half black pilled. Still can't stand the facts and reality - that's what the trouble is.

 

[Billowel]

I'm a sinner too, man. I'm currently Ina journey of trying to find God. I know that this life is unfair, that looks reign Supreme, and many other things. However, I want to explore religion and see how it can direct my life to more positive things. I'm just being objective nothing else.

check out my sig.I think you would be most impressed by a case for christ and the last superstition.You should also read this book
https://archive.org/details/faithexplained00tres/mode/2up.it's a really decent explanation of the catholic faith.

 

[Hombre]

check out my sig.I think you would be most impressed by a case for christ and the last superstition.You should also read this book
https://archive.org/details/faithexplained00tres/mode/2up.it's a really decent explanation of the catholic faith.

Thank you. I will take a look at them.

 

[Billowel]

Thank you. I will take a look at them.

edward feser(the guy who wrote the last superstition) has a bunch of videos online on the question if god exists,if you don't feel like reading.

 

[Deleted member 22904]

postmaxxing will set you free

 

[Hombre]

edward feser(the guy who wrote the last superstition) has a bunch of videos online on the question if god exists,if you don't feel like reading.

Thanks, once again.

 

[Deleted member 23712]

I'm a sinner too, man. I'm currently Ina journey of trying to find God. I know that this life is unfair, that looks reign Supreme, and many other things. However, I want to explore religion and see how it can direct my life to more positive things. I'm just being objective nothing else.

See

Find the real god within your soul.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

Tfu on roasties

based

I forgot to give an advice, so it is this:

Do you see yourself visiting this forum in 5 or 10 years with the same constancy that you do today?

If you answer that question sincerely, the answer is my life advice.

Probably , if i’m alive and the site is alive

 

[Koruga]

no you will be enslaved to boredom instead.

When all the desires are fulfilled, there is no more, the shadow of boredom is present, the astio, the loss of meaning of life, everything.

I did not expect someone to give a good answer to that. Tell me your warrior name.

 

[Yerberito]

its important to sleep for atleast 7 hours

 

[TheGambler2]

Whenever someone is acting nice to you,think about what you have that they might need from you.

 

[FunkyMonk]

I'll take a stab at this. I'm an oldcel.

Don't ever get attached to a oneitis. You give her a ridiculous amount of power and ultimately she is a cheap whore just like every other woman. She will use you and then throw you away. In my opinion it isn't worth it. That said unless you get burned, how will you ever respect fire. Do not ever SIMP for women. They think you're pathetic even though they are happy to use you for convenience.

Get off online dating. Even a lot of Chad-lites are starting to have difficulties. Most of the women on them are bot accounts. You will literally drive yourself insane doing it. I nearly did 5+ years ago what do you think it's like now?

You should find a job. I was NEET for a time when i was a young man. It was awful. Work isn't always a breeze but it's better than being sat around rotting all day. Take it from me as someone who has done both.

Honestly i don't know how many of you on here have friendships with women and are friendzoned but i would recommend cutting off all female relationships and relying on male ones. I've been that guy and i'm better off now for having cut that shit out. I have a few male friends and that is enough. Women are a fucking cancer. They can't ever be calm about things, they always need to create some kind of drama. When i was 17 i had a very rude awakening to what female centric environments get like. It was a bitch fest.

You should seek to master skills so you can rely on yourself. For many many years long before the incelisphere of today would be recognised i was mastering new skills. Everything from electronics, computers, Linux, car repair, firearms. As a low income-cel i often have to rely on my own skills to get me through problems. I work in a technical job but i repair cars as a sort of hobby. I do electronics as a hobby to. Years ago i built myself an electric bike. I mess around with Arduinos and Raspberry Pi's. I do wood working. I'm going to build my own drone next year and get into flying those. Thanks to the internet it has never been easier to access information and learn new skills.

Cars are a great cope. Get a shitbox, learn to maintain it yourself. Nothing better than cruising around in your ride.

Motorbikes are also a great cope. Every guy should ride motorbikes. They really get the testosterone flowing.

Guns. Every guy should shoot guns. They are a great skill to master. Or do archery.

Everyone needs to do some physical exercise. Humans are not designed to vegetate. I ride a bike. I swim.

Go on holiday - solo travel. I can recommend it. As a solo male traveller you can have some insane adventures. I have. Several years ago now i drove around Norway in my rusty old shitbox to the very north and to the Russian border and spent the night camping on a glacier north of the arctic circle. I slept in my car one night. I camped in negative temperatures for several others. You know what kind of holidays you'll have with a woman? Going to some shitty Mediterranean resort where she makes you take loads of pictures of her posing for Instagram. Solo-travelling gets you WAY outside your comfort zone and breeds resilience. You learn to rely on yourself instead of feeling helpless and paralysed. I go camping at least once a year. I quite enjoy camping.

Cut down on your intake of degenerate mainstream culture. Everything we are exposed to is a controlled form of informational warfare. Especially what the algorithms on social media feed you. Not only are these services designed to be addictive they literally have a financial interest in making you feel a certain way so they can feed you ads. Get off Facebook and Twatter or at the very least strictly limit your exposure. Don't watch 99% of TV. Don't watch ads. Seriously most of you guys have no idea what kind of shit media does to you. Same thing with mainstream media - it's literally controlled information warfare designed to feed certain narratives to you that have been decided up on due to decisions taken in a corporate board room somewhere.

You need to read more books. I read history. I read economics and i even read some philosophy. Philosophy is a very useful tool to understand the world. I'm very fond of the concept of stoicism. You see the thing is, many of us are in pain to some degree but when you're emotional you short circuit your higher brains ability to reason and go straight to an emotional response. What you need is to remain cool. You need to be mindful and try to always take a step back at a situation. He is kind of annoying but Stefan Molymeme on YouTube is quite good at doing that. He considers himself a philosopher. Some great economists are philosophers. Thomas Sowel while i disagree with him on many things i find has a near superhuman ability to cut through the bullshit constructs of normies. He is hard to get through but Hayek in many ways was also skilled at that.

Above all i do recommend escortceling. You know most of you guys are obsessed with sex because you have never had it and are missing out on a key part of the adult experience. I have banged so many hookers i can't remember all their names. Most of them were a great lay. You wear a bag. Your chances of catching an infection are significantly lower than trying to pick up tinder sluts and chances are the sex is better in a lot of cases. Most girls just lie there starfish at least some escorts work hard to please you. For many men in many cultures throughout history their introduction to sex likely came in a brothel and the idea of romantic love was almost non existent.

Fact is a lot of you (myself included when i was young) have pussy on the brain. Banging some hookers gets it out of your system. Once you have had sex you realise its not that big of a deal (a realisation you only come to once you have had it ironically) and it will get easier the older you get. Your testosterone will start to drop once you get into your 30's. You don't have the same sex drive you used to have. A lot of you have internalised a cultural narrative that sex is special and you do it with someone you love. This is BULLSHIT. It's some narrative sold to women mainly but it also spills over to us from Disney movies and shitty romance novels that read worse than most fan fiction. Fact is men are the romantics but we're rational enough to be pragmatists about it. Women? Women are the pragmatists who pretend to be romantic. You're nothing but a mark to them. Many of you are in your 20's.

A lot of you are still young, but that Becky you were obsessed with as a teenager and you fapped to every night? Well chances are by now she got fat and Tyrone left her with some mulatto mutts. She was an alpha widow at 14 and thinks of Chad and Tyrone every time she gets on her back for Billy Beta.

Solid advice. I wish I had the same motivation I had 4 years ago. I just can't enjoy anything anymore other than video games. I used to enjoy going places alone but it just got boring. When I was NEET, I had more energy and drive to do things but now as a wagecuck I just feel drained.

As for fellow cels, just focus on yourself and your family (if they like you).

 

[Pennywise]

You should try to get money together to buy copes. More money, more copes, better copes. Copes are the most important thing to have in incel life.

 

[ShadowTheEdgehog]

I know that we sometimes discuss how life is meaningless, that nothing really matters, and that it's over. However, there are still some ways in which one could improve one's situation. It doesn't have to be just with regards to relationships, but in any other aspect of life.

I was wondering if you have one life advice, something valuable that you have learned in life that might help someone in need.

Jump high, hang low.

 

[WØLF]

LARPs me

 

[tulasdanslos]

LARPs me

Wait, he was a LARP? Damn, fuck these guys. And here I thought he was a brocel from SA.

 

[WØLF]

Wait, he was a LARP? Damn, fuck these guys. And here I thought he was a brocel from SA.

That's the reason OP got banned i'm pretty sure