Every half asian female or male I've come across in person (mostly in college) seemed to hate their dads, and this was 10 years ago.
Same goes for online. Seems they all hate the dad.
I don't see any hapa holding back of shaming their family because they already fucking hate their family.
Wow, you hit a nerve dude. I'm Hapa, Japanese Mom, and American ethnic Euromutt on my Dad's side. I pretty much feel the same way. I could give you along list of personal grievances, but there would be no point being boring. What I think is happening is low tier normies or narcissists seek out what they percieve to be racially inferior, and submissive women so they can use them in as many ways as possible. The father treats the mother, and kids deplorably because he is an infantile narcissist, and wins the hatred of his "Possesions", or immediate family.
My situation in a nutshell. My dad is a freaking narcissist with the EQ of a toddler. He married a White lady, proceeded to cheat on her after being verbally, and psychologically abusive of her. She divorced him. He met my Mom, and more or less has been the same tool, but since she is Japanese it is justified in his mind. He has been in competition with me my whole life, and sabotages me deliberately. Socialization was an incredible challenge for me as a high functioning sperg, and I have always tried to talk to women in my feeble way. I remember once talking to a girl at an REI, and engaging in good conversation. She worked there, and it would likely never go anywhere ever, but it was still good practice. What does my dad do? Walk over, inject himself into the conversation, turn it into bragging about himself with no regard for the pre existing context in someone else's successful conversation, which is a big deal for me with women, and lays on the charm. I literally did a 90, and walked off. My brother from his first marriage tells me he was a charismatic womanizer. But, of course he didn't have any advice to give with regards to socialization, and women when it would have helped. My take, White chicks won't put up with his BS, so hook a naive, good hearted Asian. Worst part is he has tried to sabotage me at work (I had a great career doing what I loved vs him hating work because he is lazy), emotionally, a million other ways because he is a low IQ, insecure, mediocre loser. Prob TMI, and maybe projection, but it would not surprise me if the low tier narc with victim mindset is finding a passive victim, and feels justified due to narcissism, and racism being a reasonable template for why Hapas hate their fathers almost universally. I'm pissed just writing this.
As far as violence, and not caring about family shame, my father's parents were remarkable, talented, and good people. Also Asians tend to be very concerned about this. While I experienced hell from my father, my grandparents on his side, and all the family on my Mother's side were genuinely loving, and I could never harm them or their memories by misconduct. I suspect that most people with Asian blood would feel this way.
