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Discussion What was your upbringing like?

Wimpycel

Wimpycel

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It seems alot of my guys including myself have had shitty upbringings growing, mine for exalple is the main cause of my inceldom.For me was Prioritizing my younger brother, bi-polar mom and I wasn't allowed to hang out with friends or use the internet.

Although it wasn't that bad compared to other guys, it sucked ass pretty bad, yet I still feel nostalgia
 
Poorfag upbringing
 
Wimpycel
 
Not the worst, not the best. I believe that genes and natural tendencies count more than upbringing in the outcome of your life. I know successful people with worse families than mine, and losers whose parents did everything they could.
 
It was kind of shit but it wasn't completely bad.
 
Raised on the internet tbh. I learned, loved, was heartbroken, exposed to everything on there.
 
Lower middle class
Dad was an alcoholic (he came to the hospital drunk when I was born), he worked in a shipyard where he lost his thumb in an accident before I was born , mom was a retarded becky who worked in clothes design (quit her job cuz she couldn't get along with her coworkers, then became a carer at some clinic, then she quit that job too cuz she couldn't get along with coworkers, now she works as a janitor in a highschool, complains about coworkers to this day.

Some of my earliest memories were of my parents arguing, we were driving in a car somewhere they argued about some bullshit, I don't know I can't remember, we go back home and they argue again. I go to sleep and they argue, I try to play and they argue, I eat lunch and they argue. My mom tells me that we're going to our grandparent's home cause we can't live with dad anymore. Then it was kinda peaceful, but one day we had to go back to his house to get something, he was drunk and angry, they argue again. Now back then (the 2000s) I didn't have internet so I TVmaxxed. They eventually decided to separate and dad went into rehab. Life was pretty alright, my dad stopped drinking and I got to visit him every once in a while, he had a computer and I enjoyed coping on it even though I didn't know much english. I hated kindergarten cuz all of the kids ignored me and the nannies were abusive, plus I was sensitive and prone to crying.

In the first few years of elementary school I got along with my classmates, made some friends etc, but I was sensitive and prone to crying so that was a problem, but I liked elementary school tbh. Then in the 5th grade I had to go to another school, I was alienated again, dad became an alcoholic again, I grew out my hair and looked like a girl. Eventually I got along with the new classmates but I didn't have friends like I had in early elementary, whatever not much interesting things happened during this time, life stabilised and dad stopped drinking again, I did become addicted to the internet as I had gotten a computer as a gift from my aunt, I discovered porn, learned english etc. In the sixth grade I made a friend, he was a nerd with glasses but we weren't bullied, the classmates were quite good compared to other schools, we never had a drug incident.

Yea then I went to a traffic highschool but I don't consider that as a part of my upbringing as I was already grown by then and it was much different from elementary school, I was openly bullied and everyone hated me.
 
Your question is very beautiful. We were raised to become incels. Not all of us were born incels through genetic determinism, but we were led to be this as society shaped us.
 
Lower middle class
Dad was an alcoholic (he came to the hospital drunk when I was born), he worked in a shipyard where he lost his thumb in an accident before I was born , mom was a retarded becky who worked in clothes design (quit her job cuz she couldn't get along with her coworkers, then became a carer at some clinic, then she quit that job too cuz she couldn't get along with coworkers, now she works as a janitor in a highschool, complains about coworkers to this day.

Some of my earliest memories were of my parents arguing, we were driving in a car somewhere they argued about some bullshit, I don't know I can't remember, we go back home and they argue again. I go to sleep and they argue, I try to play and they argue, I eat lunch and they argue. My mom tells me that we're going to our grandparent's home cause we can't live with dad anymore. Then it was kinda peaceful, but one day we had to go back to his house to get something, he was drunk and angry, they argue again. Now back then (the 2000s) I didn't have internet so I TVmaxxed. They eventually decided to separate and dad went into rehab. Life was pretty alright, my dad stopped drinking and I got to visit him every once in a while, he had a computer and I enjoyed coping on it even though I didn't know much english. I hated kindergarten cuz all of the kids ignored me and the nannies were abusive, plus I was sensitive and prone to crying.

In the first few years of elementary school I got along with my classmates, made some friends etc, but I was sensitive and prone to crying so that was a problem, but I liked elementary school tbh. Then in the 5th grade I had to go to another school, I was alienated again, dad became an alcoholic again, I grew out my hair and looked like a girl. Eventually I got along with the new classmates but I didn't have friends like I had in early elementary, whatever not much interesting things happened during this time, life stabilised and dad stopped drinking again, I did become addicted to the internet as I had gotten a computer as a gift from my aunt, I discovered porn, learned english etc. In the sixth grade I made a friend, he was a nerd with glasses but we weren't bullied, the classmates were quite good compared to other schools, we never had a drug incident.

Yea then I went to a traffic highschool but I don't consider that as a part of my upbringing as I was already grown by then and it was much different from elementary school, I was openly bullied and everyone hated me.
Excellent correlation between your social class and your permanent virginity.
 
Lower middle class
Dad was an alcoholic (he came to the hospital drunk when I was born), he worked in a shipyard where he lost his thumb in an accident before I was born , mom was a retarded becky who worked in clothes design (quit her job cuz she couldn't get along with her coworkers, then became a carer at some clinic, then she quit that job too cuz she couldn't get along with coworkers, now she works as a janitor in a highschool, complains about coworkers to this day.

Some of my earliest memories were of my parents arguing, we were driving in a car somewhere they argued about some bullshit, I don't know I can't remember, we go back home and they argue again. I go to sleep and they argue, I try to play and they argue, I eat lunch and they argue. My mom tells me that we're going to our grandparent's home cause we can't live with dad anymore. Then it was kinda peaceful, but one day we had to go back to his house to get something, he was drunk and angry, they argue again. Now back then (the 2000s) I didn't have internet so I TVmaxxed. They eventually decided to separate and dad went into rehab. Life was pretty alright, my dad stopped drinking and I got to visit him every once in a while, he had a computer and I enjoyed coping on it even though I didn't know much english. I hated kindergarten cuz all of the kids ignored me and the nannies were abusive, plus I was sensitive and prone to crying.

In the first few years of elementary school I got along with my classmates, made some friends etc, but I was sensitive and prone to crying so that was a problem, but I liked elementary school tbh. Then in the 5th grade I had to go to another school, I was alienated again, dad became an alcoholic again, I grew out my hair and looked like a girl. Eventually I got along with the new classmates but I didn't have friends like I had in early elementary, whatever not much interesting things happened during this time, life stabilised and dad stopped drinking again, I did become addicted to the internet as I had gotten a computer as a gift from my aunt, I discovered porn, learned english etc. In the sixth grade I made a friend, he was a nerd with glasses but we weren't bullied, the classmates were quite good compared to other schools, we never had a drug incident.

Yea then I went to a traffic highschool but I don't consider that as a part of my upbringing as I was already grown by then and it was much different from elementary school, I was openly bullied and everyone hated me.
Very well articulated
 
Poor, boring, without a toilet
 
Ugly helicopter parents, the father being alcoholic
Enough said
 
Not the worst, not the best. I believe that genes and natural tendencies count more than upbringing in the outcome of your life. I know successful people with worse families than mine, and losers whose parents did everything they could.
 
I was raised to be a slave pussy oofy doofy jester. Im glad I discovered the BP.
 
Better than It could have because I managed to do friends early in elementary but I struggled everywhere else
 

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