Experiment What was your Father like?

[Deleted member 17984]

Do you think it had any bearing on your development or relationship with foids?
I think having a male role model makes a big impact on everything in life for all men but I'm not sure if theres a correlation between a shit male role model (or absent) and failing to obtain a foid

 

[Deleted member 18214]

He was helicopter parent tbh ngl

 

[singleplayercel]

I think you're onto something.... there are many studies that correlate inceldom with an absent father figure
my father died when I was a teenager, he was really cool... my mother is pretty okay too, but she had to raise me all by herself

 

[Deleted member 17984]

He was helicopter parent tbh ngl

Do you think that changed who you are at all?
most incels seem to have had shit fathers or no father figure at all so I'm interested in your perspective

 

[Giegue]

Abusive

 

[Deleted member 19971]

He was a good father imo, he hit me sometimes when I was young when I misbehaved.
He has a very short temper and I think I inherited that from him.
Other than that I'm a very obedient person so I never get into fights with him so we had a good relationship overall.

 

[Deleted member 17984]

I think you're onto something.... there are many studies that correlate inceldom with an absent father figure
my father died when I was a teenager... So my mother raised me

single mother raising you makes a lot of sense, sorry about your Father

 

[JestER]

Abusive and left later on, he went to go knock up more foids

 

[Personalityinkwell]

should be multiple options for absent from the start and abusive

 

[Deleted member 17984]

Abusive

Do you resent him for it? Would you ever want to be a Father yourself if you had the chance?

He was a good father imo, he hit me sometimes when I was young when I misbehaved.
He has a very short temper and I think I inherited that from him.
Other than that I'm a very obedient person so I never get into fights with him so we had a good relationship overall.

Reckon the temper is something that holds you back though? Or is it just something you have and deal with?

should be multiple options for absent from the start and abusive

I'll edit

Abusive and left later on, he went to go knock up more foids

fuck man, apologies for the shit father figure

 

[Deleted member 18214]

Do you think that changed who you are at all?
most incels seem to have had shit fathers or no father figure at all so I'm interested in your perspective

Maybe a bit since I was inside all the time but bones are destiny.

 

[universallyabhorred]

Abusive father, beat me, verbally and emotionally abused me. Also was absent a lot when growing up, because he was busy working, so I spent more time with my mom. Sometimes used to helicopter parent like doing some of my projects for me but only because they cared more about my grades rather than me learning the material. Always used to feel afraid of him, now I don't anymore, since I am stronger than him. My mom was also pretty bad, but less physically abusive for obvious reasons.

 

[Deleted member 19971]

Reckon the temper is something that holds you back though?

What do you mean>?

 

[Deleted member 24081]

Absent. Parent split up when I was young.

 

[Deleted member 21908]

normal father just shitty genes

 

[TheGambler2]

alcoholic and abusive,which contributed to my already bad mental state

 

[Deleted member 23820]

Abusive because of his alcoholism. He doesn't care about me and we only see each other every few months.

 

[Deleted member 24081]

normal father just shitty genes

Based avi

 

[Deleted member 17984]

Maybe a bit since I was inside all the time but bones are destiny.

Bones are indeed destiny

What do you mean>?

can you make friends or talk to strangers at all without anger?

Annoying

Absent. Parent split up when I was young.

apologies ngl, the answers so far are somewhat depressing

 

[Deleted member 23712]

Angry asian

 

[muharremabi]

He used to beat me to death when i was a kid. I hate him so much.

 

[LittleDarkAge]

He was a good father imo, he hit me sometimes when I was young when I misbehaved.
He has a very short temper and I think I inherited that from him.
Other than that I'm a very obedient person so I never get into fights with him so we had a good relationship overall.

Your relationship with your dad sounds similar to mine

 

[Deleted member 24081]

apologies ngl, the answers so far are somewhat depressing

No need to apologise friend. My dad was a Chad in his younger days, he never wanted to be a father until it was too late. I’ve lived without him most of my life and it has affected me.

 

[Deleted member 17984]

normal father just shitty genes

same

No need to apologise friend. My dad was a Chad in his younger days, he never wanted to be a father until it was too late. I’ve lived without him most of my life and it has affected me.

Depressing to see so many lads without Dads, I know you can't change your bones but theres so many mentalcels that might have been created by their shit upbringing

 

[TINMAN]

my father didn't really interact with me or my siblings until we were adults

 

[KilluminoidBR]

I dont even know my father.

 

[Deleted member 24166]

Absent from a young age. I was not affected particularly negatively by it though.

 

[Deleted member 17984]

my father didn't really interact with me or my siblings until we were adults

I dont even know my father.

I wanted to make a poll about mothers after this to compare but this whole thread is depressing so maybe I won't

 

[FrustratedWhiteMale]

Greatest Generation (1919 - 2004)
Most fathers were good back then.
Unwed mothers were very rare.
In my school, only 2 / 40 kids had divorced parents.
None born out of wedlock.

 

[TINMAN]

I wanted to make a poll about mothers after this to compare but this whole thread is depressing so maybe I won't

It's over for toodepressedtopostcels

 

[Deleted member 20536]

Only cared about religion and school

 

[WageyInACagey]

He would hit me over the head with his trusty wrench. I remember the nights when he would make me sleep in the cold garage with not blankets on a cold winter's night. Every muscle in my body ached. I can still taste the sparse crumbs that were absentmindedly dropped under the dining room table, serving as my supper for every evening. Mice served as my only friends, for no other kids could be allowed to see my home life, but even they would meet their end in heinous traps of medieval design. My father was an unforgettable man.

 

[Deleted member 17984]

At my school (late 90's early 2000's) there were few parents still together, even fewer were married, so many kids didn't know their Dads
it seems to be getting worse

we all know the damage foids can do when single mothers yet it just keeps on happening

He would hit me over the head with his trusty wrench. I remember the nights when he would make me sleep in the cold garage with not blankets on a cold winter's night. Every muscle in my body ached. I can still taste the sparse crumbs that were absentmindedly dropped under the dining room table, serving as my supper for every evening. Mice served as my only friends, for no other kids could be allowed to see my home life, but even they would meet their end in heinous traps of medieval design. My father was an unforgettable man.

 

[Deleted member 20811]

I have a great Dad ngl.

 

[Deleted member 17984]

I have a great Dad ngl.

me too brother, glad to hear some of us at least weren't fucked up by our Fathers or lack thereof

 

[Napoleon de Nascar]

Simple casual man who wanted me to be simple man and and betabuxx. All good in childhood, but later - only conflict, no support, no inspiration

 

[WawelDragon1683]

My parents got divorced when i was really young so i barely ever seen him. When i did he would always treat mew like shit. I'm glad i don't speak to him anymroe.

 

[Deleted member 17984]

Simple casual man who wanted me to be simple man and and betabuxx. All good in childhood, but later - only conflict, no support, no inspiration

he wanted you to betabuxx? why?

My parents got divorced when i was really young so i barely ever seen him. When i did he would always treat mew like shit. I'm glad i don't speak to him anymroe.

Over for divorcedparentscels ngl

 

[Napoleon de Nascar]

he wanted you to betabuxx? why?

For becoming "normal grown up man"

 

[Deleted member 17984]

For becoming "normal grown up man"

normal men betabuxx
that's it
it is truly TRULY over for many men

 

[Incellectual]

he was good but not great. Had a lot of flaws for sure but over time he got better.

 

[Deleted member 17984]

he was good but not great. Had a lot of flaws for sure but over time he got better.

At least he tried with you, that says something about the calibre of man he is I think
Doesn't fix the shit genetics he unknowingly gave you though

 

[Incellectual]

At least he tried with you, that says something about the calibre of man he is I think
Doesn't fix the shit genetics he unknowingly gave you though

I'm adopted so I don't have his genetics at all.

 

[Deleted member 17984]

I'm adopted so I don't have his genetics at all.

Oh shit, well yours would be quite interesting if we all thought that shit Father figures=mentalcels, adopted parents are something I completely forgot to include

 

[Deleted member 19971]

can you make friends or talk to strangers at all without anger?

Yes but every little thing that someone does that I dislike angers me a lot.

 

[Deleted member 17984]

Yes but every little thing that someone does that I dislike angers me a lot.

I understand that.
Could badboy/criminalmaxx by being violent thug ngl

 

[Itsover4maymaycels]

My father was good but couldn't give me any useful social advice, he was a chadpreet in his prime and as such never needed good social skills that he should've conditioned me into from an early age, which made the situation worse combined with the shitty looks i inherited on my mother's part.

PS: Abusive or absent father shouldn't have anything to do with inceldom unless mentalcel

 

[Deleted member 17984]

My father was good but couldn't give me any useful social advice, he was a chadpreet in his prime and as such never needed good social skills that he should've conditioned me into from an early age, which made the situation worse combined with the shitty looks i inherited on my mother's part.

social advice seems to change so much that what your father may have found useful will no longer be applicable honestly
still sucks though

 

[Itsover4maymaycels]

social advice seems to change so much that what your father may have found useful will no longer be applicable honestly
still sucks though

It doesn't relatively suck that much tbh, for some reason there seems to be a disproportional amount of people here with an absent/abusive father (probably because of a combination of members with either being more likely to click this thread, and mentalcels) and that is just a hell of a bad childhood, then soyhood and then harsh blackpilling when combined with inceldom, the main reason i became blackpilled and not a soyboy so easily despite low T is probably due to having a strong father figure, he definitively was not blackpilled, but never saw him simping either, whereas with soyboys there's a heavy correlation with a father who was either absent or also a soyboy.

 

[Deleted member 17984]

It doesn't relatively suck that much tbh, for some reason there seems to be a disproportional amount of people here with an absent/abusive father (probably because of a combination of members with either being more likely to click this thread, and mentalcels) and that is just a hell of a bad childhood, then soyhood and then harsh blackpilling when combined with inceldom, the main reason i became blackpilled and not a soyboy so easily despite low T is probably due to having a strong father figure, he definitively was not blackpilled, but never saw him simping either, whereas with soyboys there's a heavy correlation with a father who was either absent or also a soyboy.

theres a lot of factors
If i had the time/patience I'd try and look into this properly but I do not so I will wait for someone else to do it