Lv99_BixNood
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View: https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1iba67r/what_to_do_when_i_feel_uncomfortable_around_my/
I (20F) work in retail, and recently we had a new employee come in. I don't know for sure how old he is, but I assume he is in his late 30s-40s. He does his job like he is supposed to do, so it's not about that. However he does small things that make me really uncomfortable. For the context, I can't 100% feel comfotable around older men other than my family members due to some trauma, but being near him makes me feel (forgive me for being mean) really like... disgusted? and like I despise him. I don't know why, because this doesn't happen with my two other male coworkers, I am feel fine with them. But I feel so mean for feeling this way about him, because he hasn't necessarily done anything "wrong". I just don't want to be around him and it's giving me anxiety during my shifts.
He literally did nothing wrong. Existing as an ugly male near a foid = eww you creep