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@mistersinister Already made a post on it even though I told him I was going to make it myself but whatever.

Serious thread btw, don't give stupid replies.

There's a few options that I think are plausible for my next steps and I'm quite conflicted on what I should do. I'll ask this forum for advice and the opinions of what you guys think is good. For background info I'm 18 yrs old and 1st year in college.

1. Spend a decade looksmaxxing, do height surgery, face surgery and work hard in STEM degree to fund all this then finally attract a foid. Total cost will probably be around $150k-$250k USD.

According to @Zer0/∞ I'm around LTN range which is 4/10 I believe. If I do face surgeries then I think I can maybe get into the 6 range and raise it to MTN or HTN. If I do height surgery I can go from 5'7'' to 5'10'' which is night and day in percentiles. I jump from 10th percentile to ~60th percentile in height.

The problem with this plan is that I'm going to spend so much money just to land a single foid, and then once I get into the relationship I have to betabuxx the foid to maintain it. It all costs a massive amount, it takes so much time. I'm literally going to be dedicating the next 10 years of my life and drain so much of my resources into a single foid with no guarantees in anything. I could get cucked and all of this will result in nothing.

I don't think I can just sleep around since HTN doesn't cut it I'm pretty sure, so it's either LTR or nothing.

2. Accept this situation. Stop complaining and having outburts of rage because no foids want you, just accept it as it is. Leave my .is account and spend the rest of my life coping with video games, gym, reading history books, escortcelling and other forms of entertainment.

The only drawback of this is actually executing it, how difficult will it be to get over your sub humanity and not care anymore. It's hard to go outside and not feel rage because you are constantly getting mogged to oblivion. Other than that, on paper it seems entirely possible if you stop giving a fuck.

3. Go to curryland and do some arrange marriage there.

Problem with this plan is that I don't actually have any connections in curryland. I've never been to curryland, I don't even know Hindi. My parents came to the west and severed all connections from curryland, I've never met my extended family. I'm entirely unsure how I'd go about this. You need a social circle and connections for arrange marriages to work.

Even if I was successful at convincing a foid to come to the west via arrange marriage, there is an extremely high chance of getting cucked. It will do marriage for citizenship and run away.

4. End it all. Rope.

As a curry you are treated badly all the time and you are a walking meme once you go outside. I've made two threads in the past about what it's like being curry. Even if I wasn't curry, life feels very meaningless anyways and very empty. I probably won't consider this option though until I'm at least in my 30s.

5. Stay on this forum but continue to do number 2. Although this forum is depressing as hell and it reminds you of your subhumanity (the truth) over and over again.

Self explanatory.

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3, ypu can still stemmaxx and arrangedmarraiegemaxx
 
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Number 1 is too much cost and risks should avoid and wont even be of much help imo


Number 2 is the best route tbh

Try escortmaxxing once a while

I think for you best is to just moneymaxx and play around with foids (escorts etc)
dont settle for a single foid and get married because things can go haywire especially in this hoe generation (divorce rape etc)

If you are a family person and really want to have a kid maybe you can do route 3

but out of all options #2 is the best one
 
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3, you're going to get cucked anyways
 
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Number 1 is too much cost and risks should avoid and wont even be of much help imo


Number 2 is the best route tbh

Try escortmaxxing once a while

I think for you best is to just moneymaxx and play around with foids (escorts etc)
dont settle for a single foid and get married because things can go haywire especially in this hoe generation (divorce rape etc)

If you are a family person and really want to have a kid maybe you can do route 3

but out of all options #2 is the best one
i'd say 3
2 if you are already giving up on life
 
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Number 1 is too much cost and risks should avoid and wont even be of much help imo


Number 2 is the best route tbh

Try escortmaxxing once a while

I think for you best is to just moneymaxx and play around with foids (escorts etc)
dont settle for a single foid and get married because things can go haywire especially in this hoe generation (divorce rape etc)

If you are a family person and really want to have a kid maybe you can do route 3

but out of all options #2 is the best one
yeah i was leaning towards #2 mainly but sometimes i get random bursts of motivation to do 1 even though it takes sm effort
 
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@mistersinister Already made a post on it even though I told him I was going to make it myself but whatever.

Serious thread btw, don't give stupid replies.

There's a few options that I think are plausible for my next steps and I'm quite conflicted on what I should do. I'll ask this forum for advice and the opinions of what you guys think is good. For background info I'm 18 yrs old and 1st year in college.

1. Spend a decade looksmaxxing, do height surgery, face surgery and work hard in STEM degree to fund all this then finally attract a foid. Total cost will probably be around $150k-$250k USD.

According to @Zer0/∞ I'm around LTN range which is 4/10 I believe. If I do face surgeries then I think I can maybe get into the 6 range and raise it to MTN or HTN. If I do height surgery I can go from 5'7'' to 5'10'' which is night and day in percentiles. I jump from 10th percentile to ~60th percentile in height.

The problem with this plan is that I'm going to spend so much money just to land a single foid, and then once I get into the relationship I have to betabuxx the foid to maintain it. It all costs a massive amount, it takes so much time. I'm literally going to be dedicating the next 10 years of my life and drain so much of my resources into a single foid with no guarantees in anything. I could get cucked and all of this will result in nothing.

I don't think I can just sleep around since HTN doesn't cut it I'm pretty sure, so it's either LTR or nothing.

2. Accept this situation. Stop complaining and having outburts of rage because no foids want you, just accept it as it is. Leave my .is account and spend the rest of my life coping with video games, gym, reading history books, escortcelling and other forms of entertainment.

The only drawback of this is actually executing it, how difficult will it be to get over your sub humanity and not care anymore. It's hard to go outside and not feel rage because you are constantly getting mogged to oblivion. Other than that, on paper it seems entirely possible if you stop giving a fuck.

3. Go to curryland and do some arrange marriage there.

Problem with this plan is that I don't actually have any connections in curryland. I've never been to curryland, I don't even know Hindi. My parents came to the west and severed all connections from curryland, I've never met my extended family. I'm entirely unsure how I'd go about this. You need a social circle and connections for arrange marriages to work.

Even if I was successful at convincing a foid to come to the west via arrange marriage, there is an extremely high chance of getting cucked. It will do marriage for citizenship and run away.

4. End it all. Rope.

As a curry you are treated badly all the time and you are a walking meme once you go outside. I've made two threads in the past about what it's like being curry. Even if I wasn't curry, life feels very meaningless anyways and very empty. I probably won't consider this option though until I'm at least in my 30s.

5. Stay on this forum but continue to do number 2. Although this forum is depressing as hell and it reminds you of your subhumanity (the truth) over and over again.

Self explanatory.

@Currycel69_ @Transcended Trucel @Zer0/∞ @ilieknothing @Misogynist Curry 卐 @Substitute Subhuman @HighTCurryMale
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1 takes too much effort
2 leads to the rope eventually
 
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with 150-250k you can just move to some 3rd world country where 5'7" is avg or atleast close to it
 
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with 150-250k you can just move to some 3rd world country where 5'7" is avg or atleast close to it
pre sure that's not enough to live the rest of my life there?
 
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looks like curryland isnt a great place to get girls, i tried tinder/badoo experiments there using light skin guy and couldnt get shit, he could move to latin america, SEA or maybe africa(lots of curries africamaxxing)
arranged marriage also seems like shit
 
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looks like curryland isnt a great place to get girls, i tried tinder/badoo experiments there using light skin guy and couldnt get shit, he could move to latin america, SEA or maybe africa(lots of curries africamaxxing)
arranged marriage also seems like shit
yeah ive heard some indians gets lots of foid attention in nigeria although idk if it's true
 
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imo number 1 then combo that with number 3 arranged marriage. u should be able to get a Stacylite curry foid using that method. Likely best option. And likely you might even be able to get a foid who also is money maxxed so all the effort u spent would not only be repaid in sex but also in financial terms.
 
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yeah ive heard some indians gets lots of foid attention in nigeria although idk if it's true
yeah its true but the indians are mostly in east africa(kenya,tanzania, mozambique)
 
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imo number 1 then combo that with number 3 arranged marriage. u should be able to get a Stacylite curry foid using that method. Likely best option. And likely you might even be able to get a foid who also is money maxxed so all the effort u spent would not only be repaid in sex but also in financial terms.
True. Killing two birds with one stone, sounds like a solid plan
 
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yeah its true but the indians are mostly in east africa(kenya,tanzania, mozambique)
can indians ascend with cape coloureds in South africa? Or are they gatekeepers
 
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What's your final plan, @CopingForBrutality
 
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If you don’t know HindI, number 3 is unviable. I am doing 5 and am okay with it.

The money for plastic surgery isn’t worth it, you can do it if you become extremely rich
 
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can indians ascend with cape coloureds in South africa? Or are they gatekeepers
south africa isnt good bc its very violent(brazil level of violence),very high std rate and racial tensions(like being robbed or killed just for being curry)
 
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If you don’t know HindI, number 3 is unviable. I am doing 5 and am okay with it.

The money for plastic surgery isn’t worth it, you can do it if you become extremely rich
he can learn hindi if he is learning cs
 
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If you don’t know HindI, number 3 is unviable. I am doing 5 and am okay with it.

The money for plastic surgery isn’t worth it, you can do it if you become extremely rich
f OP is in the USA. the money is more than possible to attain in tech and finance before 30, he'll need to grind very very hard. But it will pay off if he has the will power and grit to push thru
 
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brother number 5 seems legit.

softmaxx is your way to go. hard gym training and skin fix. acquire status by being friendly strong and respected around uni harem. respect is everything. train how to eye contact your friends/uni mates.. never blink..

you can still browse here when have nothing to do irl but dont make it mandatory to log in .. just fill yr time. also about depression part its normal you come normal again whem u hit gym regularly fix food and get sun and have brotherly support /preferably gym frens/
so many giving up cunts here you see their posts and nod and move on its simple. most of them larpers. keep it in mind and good luck mate
 
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f OP is in the USA. the money is more than possible to attain in tech and finance before 30, he'll need to grind very very hard. But it will pay off if he has the will power and grit to push thru
im not in burgerland but im trying to get there anyways (H1b's and E3s make it easier for other 1st worlders). the only problem is i need to stand out in the crowd since companies can hire locals anywas. I know heaps of people in my city that ended up in seattle though so i have hope
 
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A mix of 1 and 2 imo. You're 18 and the time will fly so at least make sure you have a decent foundation and don't end up a poor old cripple if you can. Make the most of your short time alive but also enjoy it. I'd give looksmaxxing a good try for a couple years before giving up. Can't speak for 3 but that may be best. My 2 cents good luck.
 
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A mix of 1 and 2 imo. You're 18 and the time will fly so at least make sure you have a decent foundation and don't end up a poor old cripple if you can. Make the most of your short time alive but also enjoy it. I'd give looksmaxxing a good try for a couple years before giving up. Can't speak for 3 but that may be best. My 2 cents good luck.
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Definitely 2. Surgeries have many risks, marriage is cucked and you need to take away othERs if you want to rope.
 
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With surgeries you're risking stability, relapse and satisfaction
thus why people tend to reoperate
So my advice; judging by the fact that I need an orthodontic surgery myself is, in order to avoid potential failures you must undergo an extensive research on complications and predictability and you must be financially ready to deal with unfavorable consequences and prolonged side effect especially in the case of osteotomy.
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I would say 1 or 2. If you have a high enough income, you may not have to bother with all the surgeries. You'll be able to get some foid, whether she's white, curry or other. Especially if you earn six figures.

The second option could be an option. But you're still young and have lots of sexual desires. It won't be that easy to just forget about the opposite sex unless you hermitmaxx inside of a monestary in the mountains of Tibet.

You might want to put your eggs in the long term basket.
 
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With surgeries you're risking stability, relapse and satisfaction
thus why people tend to reoperate
So my advice; judging by the fact that I need an orthodontic surgery myself is, in order to avoid potential failures you must undergo an extensive research on complications and predictability and you must be financially ready to deal with unfavorable consequences and prolonged side effect especially in the case of osteotomy.
Good luck!
I would say 1 or 2. If you have a high enough income, you may not have to bother with all the surgeries. You'll be able to get some foid, whether she's white, curry or other. Especially if you earn six figures.

The second option could be an option. But you're still young and have lots of sexual desires. It won't be that easy to just forget about the opposite sex unless you hermitmaxx inside of a monestary in the mountains of Tibet.

You might want to put your eggs in the long term basket.
thanks for your opinions boyos :yes:
 
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I would say 1 or 2. If you have a high enough income, you may not have to bother with all the surgeries. You'll be able to get some foid, whether she's white, curry or other. Especially if you earn six figures.

The second option could be an option. But you're still young and have lots of sexual desires. It won't be that easy to just forget about the opposite sex unless you hermitmaxx inside of a monestary in the mountains of Tibet.

You might want to put your eggs in the long term basket.
HE SHOUDL JUST DO 3 TBH
 
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if it was that easy to break into social circles i would have already done so at my current place :feelsohgod:
us isn't tcurryland
it's easier in curryland to break into social circles
 
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