Serious What Normies don't understand about Confidence

[Grodd]

We see normies telling incels to "Be confident" . Not only is this braindead advice since it won't work but it's also just illogical.

Confidence is a trait, a feeling of having reliance and feeling sure of yourself, confidence is gained thought positive affirmation when someone is complimented and treated well ie Getting complimented on their looks, they will be confident it's natural.

On the other hand when someone is not only never complimented but instead they are bullied and ostracized they will have no confidence. It's very simple to understand.

Confidence is like Hunger the more Food you get (Compliments) the more Full (Confident) you will be. Same way it's retarded to tell a starving person they should just be full is the same way it's retarded to tell an ugly guy to be "Confident".

 

[Todd Thundercock]

 

[BPmonk]

The greatest cope of them all

 

[Grodd]

It's all just meaningless Buzzwords

 

[Grodd]

The greatest cope of them all

Yeah there is Many copes like "confidence"

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

It's easy for those with privilege to offer advice and platitudes when they haven't walked in someone's shoes. Confidence is born out of validation and affirmation, and it's a luxury that not everyone can afford.

Confidence is like Hunger the more Food you get (Compliments) the more Full (Confident) you will be. Same way it's retarded to tell a starving person they should just be full is the same way it's retarded to tell an ugly guy to be "Confident".

High-IQ analogy

 

[DutchCel01]

Confidence = positive reinforcement which i have never gotten much of

 

[Grodd]

It's easy for those with privilege to offer advice and platitudes when they haven't walked in someone's shoes. Confidence is born out of validation and affirmation, and it's a luxury that not everyone can afford.


High-IQ analogy

Exactly "being confident" is not only meaningless but it's easier said than done.

Thanks man.

 

[Grodd]

Confidence = positive reinforcement which i have never gotten much of

Yeah confidence = how positively you are treated and since i'm ugly and have never been treated well i have no confidence

 

[DutchCel01]

Yeah confidence = how positively you are treated and since i'm ugly and have never been treated well i have no confidence

Same brocel. Even when i was a child i got no positive reinforcement. My own father abandoned me and only me, he came for my sister and brother but left me to die

 

[Grodd]

Same brocel. Even when i was a child i got no positive reinforcement. My own father abandoned me and only me, he came for my sister and brother but left me to die

my Dad left me too

 

[DutchCel01]

my Dad left me too

Weak faggot fathers.

 

[Grodd]

Weak faggot fathers.

Yeah

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

There's also another factor to this which is how the confidence is perceived: a sub-5 manlet who is confident would be seen as overcompensating and would be told he has a "napoleon complex"—meanwhile, a tall chad who is confident would be seen as masculine and dominant. Your looks alone are a significant determinant of how confident people perceive you to be.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

Same brocel. Even when i was a child i got no positive reinforcement. My own father abandoned me and only me, he came for my sister and brother but left me to die

my Dad left me too

Same

 

[Mecoja]

It has to be based on something, otherwise its a delusion.

 

[TooSomething]

Wtf, man. He mog me looks wise, honestly. Even he has problems getting foids?

What the fuckedy fuck?

 

[TooSomething]

Same brocel. Even when i was a child i got no positive reinforcement. My own father abandoned me and only me, he came for my sister and brother but left me to die

What the fuck? Why though?

 

[Todd Thundercock]

Wtf, man. He mog me looks wise, honestly. Even he has problems getting foids?

What the fuckedy fuck?

Kent is 5'2 and has the frame of a child.

 

[TooSomething]

Kent is 5'2 and has the frame of a child.

Hmm, ok. But his face doesn't look bad at all. Nice skin and symeteical face, no?

If.he is young enough, he should look into hormone therapy.

 

[NIGGER BOJANGLES]

It's easy for those with privilege to offer advice and platitudes when they haven't walked in someone's shoes. Confidence is born out of validation and affirmation, and it's a luxury that not everyone can afford.


High-IQ analogy

 

[Grodd]

Kent is 5'2 and has the frame of a child.

Beyond over

 

[Grodd]

It has to be based on something, otherwise its a delusion.

 

[DutchCel01]

What the fuck? Why though?

He didnt want me, idk brocel i never talked to him. He would just come for my sister and brother and leave me with my mom, my siblings would come home every monday and tell me the craziest and funniest stories about the stuff they did with him. And all i did at home was wait on my siblings

 

[Mecoja]

He didnt want me, idk brocel i never talked to him. He would just come for my sister and brother and leave me with my mom, my siblings would come home every monday and tell me the craziest and funniest stories about the stuff they did with him. And all i did at home was wait on my siblings

Sounds horrible, being left out like that. I was treated the worse by my dad, but he treated all of us badly.

 

[Cnidoblastos]

It's easy for those with privilege to offer advice and platitudes when they haven't walked in someone's shoes. Confidence is born out of validation and affirmation, and it's a luxury that not everyone can afford.

 

[DutchCel01]

Sounds horrible, being left out like that. I was treated the worse by my dad, but he treated all of us badly.

It was horrible. It caused me to be jealous of my siblings aswell and feelings of inferiority.

 

[TooSomething]

He didnt want me, idk brocel i never talked to him. He would just come for my sister and brother and leave me with my mom, my siblings would come home every monday and tell me the craziest and funniest stories about the stuff they did with him. And all i did at home was wait on my siblings

I am sorry this has been done to you, bro.
While I have a dad, he wasn't the nicest either. Difficult relationship.

But at least he did not abandon me like yours. I am sorry, but what a pos.