What is the the age you're expected to lose virginity in the West as a male to be socially accepted and popular?

[Teutonic Knight]

Don't give me any bluepilled answers here like 19.

I think it's 16.

I remember when these discussions popped up when I was hanging out with normies, all the popular people in social circles always went no further than 16 when asked when they lost their virginity. Even if they were lying, they had a good reason to because if you lose it older than 16 you can't be seen as a cool guy anymore. You might still be acceptable if you lost it at 18-ish but you become seen as some sort of second tier member of the social circle, someone who barely caught the train.

At 16 you're already supposed to be well settled in the high school environment. If you are a popular cool guy you shouldn't have any excuse why you didn't have sex after more than a year around girls when they're the least picky and the most impressionable. So basically, not losing it at 16 means that you were some sort of beta who waited for his turn after all the popular guys had their turn already and you were desperate.

16 seems to be the magical number when it comes to losing virginity as a male in the West.

I also remember when me and my friends were 16 some were suddenly really getting desperate and settled for some ugly girls just to lose virginity.

I'm also not kidding that literally all the socially popular people I know answered 16 or lower. The ones who didn't were the "second tier" guys in social circles, the honest "good guys" who always get treated like shit.

Do you think this observation is correct or can you still pull it off if you lost it later?

 

[ihaveno1]

16-17 to be socially accepted, 13-15 to be “popular”

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

man... best to pretend this shit never even happened... our teen years never happened... fresh start

 

[SpergcelLD]

In germany it's 14-15 for foids (could be even lower, idk) and 16 for men.

 

[Teutonic Knight]

16-17 to be socially accepted, 13-15 to be “popular”

Maybe it also depends from country to country. I think high school starts one year later here than in USA but maybe I'm wrong. At 14 or 15 you go to high school and you're expected to lose it in first year, by the end of which you're either 15 or 16. It's acceptable to be virgin before high school and you kinda get a pass if you didn't get laid immediately if you were chasing some particular girl and she didn't give you sex right away. At least this is how it was in my days. One Chadlite I knew was after some Stacy for months and finally lost virginity with her at 16. From then on he kept fucking different women and doing Chad things. He was also very popular.

 

[Jay]

~10 you should have the facial symmetry and male sex characteristics to be molested by older female family member/friend or its probably over

 

[Teutonic Knight]

man... best to pretend this shit never even happened... our teen years never happened... fresh start

There is no going back. We need to come to terms with what happened and constantly talk about it.

 

[mylifeistrash]

Teens today have social meida so any genetic weakness is shown at a much earlier age.

If you're not doing well by 16, yeah, it's beyond over TBH

 

[Teutonic Knight]

Teens today have social meida so any genetic weakness is shown at a much earlier age.

If you're not doing well by 16, yeah, it's beyond over TBH

Just think about it. It's over for many men who were born in 2002 and just turned 17.

2002 lol it seems like yesterday. They're so young but it's already completely over for them. Soon they'll be posting here.

 

[mylifeistrash]

Just think about it. It's over for many men who were born in 2002 and just turned 17.

2002 lol it seems like yesterday. They're so young but it's already completely over for them. Soon they'll be posting here.

Yeah, I got some nephews and I'm an economics nerd / read a ton of doom porn. I track this shit very closely. Things are way more final at an early age than they were pre smartphone.

 

[Dionysus]

i'd say 16

 

[theundeadburg]

%96 of men are rated as ugly according to foids

how do you expect majority of men to not be virgins?

 

[iblamemyself]

Yeah, around 15. It's ok if someone fucks at 20, everything after that is late. After 25 it's getting awkward.

 

[78980n]

Give me back my lost years reeee

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

There is no going back. We need to come to terms with what happened and constantly talk about it.

i meant as far as normies were concerned, the more you fit in with your surroundings the better

 

[FinnCel]

In Finland a big newspaper released some statistics and girls lost their virginity at 14 and boys at 15.
The study was removed and I can't find it anywhere anymore

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

Yeah, I got some nephews and I'm an economics nerd / read a ton of doom porn. I track this shit very closely. Things are way more final at an early age than they were pre smartphone.

the mask is coming off hardcore

we were probably just as fucked 10-12 years ago at that age, just didn't realize it because the world didn't just make it completely obvious

 

[needsolution]

In Finland a big newspaper released some statistics and girls lost their virginity at 14 and boys at 15.
The study was removed and I can't find it anywhere anymore

suifuel tbh

 

[FinnCel]

suifuel tbh

And imagine how much virgin shaming men get who don't lose it

 

[MarriedAndLookin4Fun]

15 or 16 it's OVER

 

[sub8male]

I think 18 is the absolute maximum. Its better to loose it at 16 or maybe even 15.

 

[OwlGod]

I don't even know if I had a life, but I realized that teens start talking about sex as early as 12, so they probably lose even under 16.

 

[Honeypot]

Don't give me any bluepilled answers here like 19.

I think it's 16.

I remember when these discussions popped up when I was hanging out with normies, all the popular people in social circles always went no further than 16 when asked when they lost their virginity. Even if they were lying, they had a good reason to because if you lose it older than 16 you can't be seen as a cool guy anymore. You might still be acceptable if you lost it at 18-ish but you become seen as some sort of second tier member of the social circle, someone who barely caught the train.

At 16 you're already supposed to be well settled in the high school environment. If you are a popular cool guy you shouldn't have any excuse why you didn't have sex after more than a year around girls when they're the least picky and the most impressionable. So basically, not losing it at 16 means that you were some sort of beta who waited for his turn after all the popular guys had their turn already and you were desperate.

16 seems to be the magical number when it comes to losing virginity as a male in the West.

I also remember when me and my friends were 16 some were suddenly really getting desperate and settled for some ugly girls just to lose virginity.

I'm also not kidding that literally all the socially popular people I know answered 16 or lower. The ones who didn't were the "second tier" guys in social circles, the honest "good guys" who always get treated like shit.

Do you think this observation is correct or can you still pull it off if you lost it later?

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[Guest2]

Foids always go for the slightly older guys when they lose their virginities at 13-15

 

[desperatecel178]

Before 18.

 

[Deleted member 19236]

In Brazil, it's 11-16. If you are virgin after 16, something is wrong.

the honest "good guys" who always get treated like shit.

 

[CursedCel]

During high school years

 

[Reize]

13-16 in México
Its over

 

[WheelsofConfusion]

Before high school graduation. For late bloomers, freshman year of college if you attend. If you miss these milestones, you are absolutely fucked. I am 22 and in my final year of college and as a commuter there is no way to meet anyone now aside from joining on campus clubs and forcing someone to like me. I am going to have to approach random people on campus and strike up conversations which will ultimately lead to many humiliations and most likely zero successes.

Yeah, around 15. It's ok if someone fucks at 20, everything after that is late. After 25 it's getting awkward.

One of my friends lost his at 26. He had to have a friend set him up with someone who no one wanted (lol). Must have been pretty sad.

 

[Ellsworth]

16-17. 18 can be acceptable but people will in the back of their heads be like wow what took him so long.

 

[Ignas]

I don't live in the West

 

[FrereJacques]

I got bullied at 13 for being a virgin.

 

[johnnyb]

6th grade is usually when foids fuck 7-8th grade chads. by 7th grade, they are fucking high school chads. once in 9th grade, they are fucking college chads.

 

[DaveBuster]

22, no bullshit. If it takes that long you're almost certainly not "popular", but if you fuck by the end of college you can still be normal, if that's what you want.

 

[Adolf_Hitler]

16 is now the new standard. 23 and never had sex.

 

[UglyScotsman]

15 - 17 is the golden period to lose it imo. That is complete normalcy and within accepted limits. 18 is absolutely pushing it, 19 is already a bit weird, 20+ is freak status.

People who dont lose their virginity until 18 are still a little but fucked over by it and a lil resentful.

 

[Deleted member 1983]

crazy times we live in that virginity is something to be ashamed of.

clown world

 

[WawelDragon1683]

15 the latest

 

[masterwizard]

18

18 is basically the last gasp, most kids go to uni and hope they can hook up with someone during freshers week. Otherwise its too late, you will be too inexperienced and will descend into freak virgin territory. I know this all too well, happened to me and plenty of other guys I knew.