What is the reasoning behind us not wanting children unless we're in a relationship?

[tulasdanslos]

So I skimmed the past surveys and there's a question that caught my eye, the one about children. The vast majority of us want to be breeders but only if we manage to find a woman.

The point behind being a single dad is that you get to have a kid. The cons are numerous even if the incentive is extremely important (continuing your lineage).

Personally, I'm part of the majority in this topic. Surrogacy is a risky option due to feminism trying to write it off completely. And anti-natalism is cucked, so that's not an option for me either.

 

[Warehouse Boy]

Boomer women couldn't wait to get married

And have a kid

It was security

And the hive rewarded it

 

[boogeyman]

I am in the minority on here, I want to have a kid even at the cost of being a single father - impossible considering I am poor as hell.

Idk why, but daydreaming about having a child is extremely soothing to me, it just releases all the anxiety for a short while. I think that is because reassuring my subconsciousness that my lineage will not die in case of my own death has that effect, it supresses the natural fear of notexisting.

The reason why it's less popular approach is because it's not a full experience, it's like cheeseless pizza, it does not sum up for most.